Thank you so much for your insight brother. The video was really helpful and the fact that you stated what affects us will not affect others simply is profound. Dealing with it is very difficult but pmo is never the solution We need to train our mind to stop going after quick fixes which in reality makes everything worse and focus on healthy ways of coping Easer said than done, it takes work, actual work but it is worth it Thanks again
Day 37. Sup, guys? Yesterday was nice. Threw 14-15 annoying tasks off my head - like dealing with plumbers, taxes, etc., etc., etc. Today I am lazy and boring, but I'll try to do something. There is still lots of stuff pressing my head. Some minutes ago I thought that it would be fun to watch pornographies. Maybe it would make me less boring, and maybe it would help me feel better. My brain feels like under some blanket. Maybe it's withdrawals? Spoiler: Journey stuff Hard mode + no shutting blockers down - day 37. No caffeine (no coffee, tea, chocolate, etc.). Calisthenics workout every Saturday. I can do one additional workout on any chosen day. 15 done.
Thanks man to even send this message, I was addicted from PMO since a really lone periode of time and I have lost many people whom I can call friends or the people who can trust me, because I was not interested in talking to any one. but nofap provides me a community which makes me feel like I m not alone anymore and there are people who trust me and thinks that I can also achieve my goles. If I be honest this is the thing at a point I was also feeling a doubt on...thanks to giving me hope brother and I will try to make 61 days this time it's an promise.
Checking in Fellowship Friend's! 8 day Free of PMO. A beautiful day out today, I got to enjoy the sun that has been absent for the last little while. Got to talk with a good friend of mine too. Afterwards, I intentionally dove into some deep rooted trauma today. It wasn't easy to look into that abyss, but I know it's necessary. I'll likely journal about it, in my own personal journal. I need to shift the perspective and finally take those mental weights off myself. So I would say a good day for self-reflection. That is all I'm going to share for now. Stay Strong! 8 days – Gildor Inglorion, an Elf, crosses your path causing a Nazgûl that was chasing you to flee. You stay the night with his company of Elves talking about your struggles with PMO. "Courage is found in unlikely places" he says. He gives you an Hithlain rope, a magical rope, light and flexible, yet extremely strong. Quest Item – Hithlain rope @kaerhal Welcome back brother! Glad you are in a better place mentally. @Caged_bird It's my pleasure sister, we are a fellowship and we will hold strong! Any advice that can be helpful, I will certainly share. We will face and overcome our common enemy. Keep going! @Onan the Barbarian It's been a long time brother, how are you?
Man don't worry u will succeed soon, u were the first one to motivate me for my journey in this community, u r one of the peoples I look forward to and follow u. What ever has been happened u have to move over it and start ur jurny again. I belive in u man u can do it for sure.
I am so glad that you find valuable company in this community. For my part, I am also very happy to share with all fapstronauts; I learn a lot and I am quite happy that we all want to achieve the same goal: get rid of this damn addiction that has screwed up our lives. Just like you, I have also been addicted to PMO for many years, 17 years ago to be exact; I was sexually abused by a woman who introduced me to PMO at the age of six and my life has revolved around uncontrollable lust ever since. Now I'm almost 23, and I look back on the past and I can't find great things to be proud of. PMO has also taken away friends and great experiences throughout my life. But it's over, I feel like I'm getting better every day, and I hope you find the strong will you need to achieve your goal. I send you much encouragement. I believe in you, brother. Together we can get out of this, I assure you.