I'm glad you're doing well man. I'm going through something of a rough patch right now. A lot of interior shit arising but glad for Nofap and my support network and 1 more day of sexual sobriety
One day at a time. Been difficult recently. Still on track but not in any "pink cloud" anymore. Now it's been a lot more of a daily grind. Any thoughts? And I'm glad you're well man.
Just wanted to say hi man. Haven't been on this site for a week or so but been going strong one day at a time. How was your weekend and how are you?
It was good man, had some fun. Glad you got back to me, your streak must be going well, you sound a bit more optimistic this time around :)
You know man, yeah, I do feel a lot better than a couple weeks ago. Trying to transmute the energy and choose healthy decisions, healthy thinking and trying to even enjoy some moments :) How's the week looking for you? You're in school, right?
I am brother, still have a fee more years. Looking pretty good, taking the weekend off to go to a convention with some friends. What do you have planned my man ?
Hey man how did your weekend go? I go to a 12 step meeting around PM and sex and went to one earlier today. How's the day been for you?
Of course you can ask man, but I just can't say specifics and names. It was good. I've been going to it for a few months. Sexaholics Anonymous. Check it out if you're interested wherever you are at. Good luck on the homework and be well
Hey, yeah it has. It's the main thing that's kept me sexually sober from PMO for the longest period of time. The fellowship of the community, the program that keeps me moving from unhealhty to healthy actions...yeah...
Good. Yesterday felt a bit triggered to do PMO but had my choice healthy activities to redirect my life. Trying to redirect my mind to healthier desires. What are you up to this coming weekend?
Nice man ! What healthy choice did you engage in ? Probably go out to try to make some friends and shop a bit. Hbu ?
Nice man! Shop for what? Healthy choice yesterday? Called a friend and talked about some of it, and also heard how he was doing. And also read. This weekend: meditate, coffee shopping, reading.
Hey man, You doing any spiritual practice to keep up so long? And can you relate to this: Great all or nothing fears. Whether it's meaninglessness or worth. Life is meaningless and nothing else will meet pleasure of PMO. Or I'm worthless if I don't PMO. Illogical but powerful. Can you relate and do you have any advice? Thanks man, Jack
Thank you for that I’m glad you messaged me. Honestly it took a few weeks or months before the numbness wore off and I could feel real things again. The beginning is always the worst. You just need to be patient and I assure you you’ll feel like a normal person and want to do things that give you real emotions again. I can help you along the way.
You sound like a good man. I do hope I can be of some support to you even if it is just by trying to stay sexually sober with you.
Thank you man, I guarantee if you keep at it you’ll be able to feel things again and get some real motivation in life. If you want man you can check in with me every other day to let me know how you’re doing. Just have someone to talk to a long the way until you’ve got a good streak going.
It’s going alright, having my ups and downs thanks for asking kind stranger (:. How’s life going for you ??
No problem man! The first month is the hardest, so you know, doing what I can to help a fellow addict get through it. I'm only on day 3 so you know still very irritable, lethargic, unmotivated and mostly just tired, pretty emotional too. I'll keep supporting ya man cause if you think you're doing good now wait until you're 2 months or 3 months in.