27 year old and still a virgin

CuckoldsSymphony · Jan 5, 2022

Three more years and you become a wizard. I just turned 21 and am a virgin still.

Survival of the fittest · Jan 5, 2022

LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself said: ↑

Alright, so you are being honest, that's really good. It's rare, it's amazing.
Then the question is, how can you break out of this destructive cycle?

First of all, remember that everyone is helpless to an addiction.
That's what makes it an addiction. If we could stop, we'd just stop. We can't.

So you should take a few days or a week or so and not put any pressure on yourself,
it's going to be futile because of the chaser effect.
Then gather up your guts and start building a hard mode reboot.

Just make up your mind every day to survive ONLY that day.

All the other life problems outside of PMO will start to get solved.
It's tough, I can sympathize. I started my first reboot in 2018, and I've only completed 90 days twice. I am hopeful about this current streak.

We just wake up and pray, and survive that day without PMO.
Next thing you know, time has gone by and things will be better.
They will be because you paid for it by suffering through a reboot.
Trust in that, lean into the process. Reap the rewards later.
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Thanks alot . I already had a 215 days streak in year 2020 . After that at the end of December 2020 i got committed with a girl of my batch and lost my virginity finally And then I was just having sex with my gf whenever we use to get time. But yeah after long distance relationship of 4 months now it's again entered into a loop of PMO . Yes will definitely work on each single day from now on . It's been a year we are together and i don't want to ruin my relationship because of this pmo thing .

Wolves of Wisdom · Jan 5, 2022

Survival of the fittest said: ↑

Thanks alot . I already had a 215 days streak in year 2020 . And then I was just having sex after that with my gf . But yeah after long distance relationship it's again entered into a loop of PMO . Yes will definitely work on each single day from now on .
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I'm throwing everything I got into this one because I'm still a virgin at close to 30. I just want to feel close to someone. Internalizing the pain is such a long and arduous process. Reading comments like yours gives me glimmers of hope though so thank you!

Mr.Tony · Jan 6, 2022

CuckoldsSymphony said: ↑

Three more years and you become a wizard. I just turned 21 and am a virgin still.
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Actually - I'm 28 years old now!

TimeToQuitNow · Jan 6, 2022

Survival of the fittest said: ↑

Hello . I guess you were right about it . I am no more a virgin . Have a very good gf who take care of me really well and I love her alot . Everything was really working fine untill last 4 months when we both end up into a long distance relationship. It really sucks . I have again started into a loop of porn and masturbation . I thought before that having a good gf would help me out with it but as soon as we were having sex it was all fine . But long distance trailed on me . Feeling like doomed frustrated stupid lost focus . Feeling helpless . Don't really know how to deal with it .
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Find a way to make it work. You got this man!

LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself · Jan 6, 2022

Survival of the fittest said: ↑

Thanks alot . I already had a 215 days streak in year 2020 . After that at the end of December 2020 i got committed with a girl of my batch and lost my virginity finally And then I was just having sex with my gf whenever we use to get time. But yeah after long distance relationship of 4 months now it's again entered into a loop of PMO . Yes will definitely work on each single day from now on . It's been a year we are together and i don't want to ruin my relationship because of this pmo thing .
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A year? Why not just marry? Then you have a permanent solution, if you fear being alone.

Survival of the fittest · Jan 6, 2022

LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself said: ↑

A year? Why not just marry? Then you have a permanent solution, if you fear being alone.
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We both are preparing for a competitive exam and is not in a situation to settle right now . Have to wait till we clear our exams and tell our family about us .

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