[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. PowerfulSRE

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  2. Tincho

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    Day 32 Check in,
    30 days feel very little facing the 90 days challenge, but looking at my whole experience in the area of reboot, it feels already like a marathon already. My next step is emotional independence.

    Thank you all for this forum, and may all here have a day full of mental strength, no matter what the outcome is.

    :)
     
  3. Tincho

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    Do you have a substitute activity? Do they work for you?

    A good advice for me was to push my boundaries little by little even though I was still relapsing.
     
  4. tbandman

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    Checking in!

    Day 21/90

    Good luck to everyone!
     
  5. Starboii

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    Feeling sad and depressed and I think I know the cause: it`s the people around me
    Yeah sounds a bit weird but I dont know who are my real friends. I want close friends who I can do things which I can`t do with others, for example playing video games or where we can talking about stuff like Anime or anything. Since I started with Animes Im feeling very very pushed out from everybody, because not the most like this category. My friends are loners or weird annoying guys, or people with other interests. And I tried really hard to be more social active, but unfortunately I found out that the most (or almost everybody) isn`t a person who I want to share time. Is it my fault that I can`t find people or a clique? Or are there just no people with I can hang around?
    And yes, I have a lots of "friends", the most of them are cool or friendly or funny etc., but it`s not like I wanted. It`s just because in my secondary school I had fake friends and now I have "normal" friends?!
    Uh I dont know what to say, Im just wishing a group of people where I can feel comfortable, and not lonely
     
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  6. Seneca123

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  7. aznric3boi

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    Day 82/90. Feeling much better today. My good days are always going to outweigh my bad ones.
     
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  8. aznric3boi

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    You may feel like this sounds harsh but, feeling comfortable doesn't make you grow. Get out of your comfort zone. It's the only way to be disciplined. But it's your life. A caterpiller needs to become a butterfy one day, is today your day?
     
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  9. RiseToGreatness

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    well, it´s a tough situation. but for instance instead of rushing to find suitable friends try to enjoy being alone.

    i think only when we accept fully ourselfs, the way we are, we don´t need anyone to fill a hole. we still might want to have friends, but the neediness is out of the equation. try to enjoy yourself Starboii, the way you are. only when you love yourself, you can love others the way they are, or walk away :)
     
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  10. RiseToGreatness

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    :emoji_muscle::emoji_muscle::emoji_muscle:
     
  11. RiseToGreatness

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    congratulations my friend. you rock!!! Cheers for the new life :emoji_cartwheel::emoji_drum::emoji_juggling::emoji_tada:
     
  12. DannyDudicle

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    Day 3/90. forgot to post this last night so posting it now, will post day 4 at end of day. Passed out early was super tired.
     
  13. RiseToGreatness

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    of course. you got to watch out for that. any kind of bad nutrition will raise a sad and irritated mood. always always stay well fed and hydratated!! specially on the reboot.
     
  14. RiseToGreatness

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    yep, it´s the withdrawal. keep going brother, you´re doing great.
     
  15. RiseToGreatness

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    you need extreme measures brother. you can´t stay alone right now, you´re totally destroying yourself. take a walk outside, get some air, relax, meditate, and when you feel ready restart the streak BUT on the first days, which are the worst, don´t stay alone please, or at least don´t stay alone with electronic devices.

    gather your strenghts brother, you can do it.

     
  16. RiseToGreatness

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    20 on the books ;)

    the last 2 days were better than the days before. i feel a deep peace within me, like things don´t bother me as much as before. i´m also starting to enjoy life more. yesterday i was watching some old paper pictures and i was really fascinated by that, amazing!! life starts to feel more alive.

    onwards my friends
     
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  17. N8erZ

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    Day 0 again... let's keep trying, I keep telling myself. But as I told my friend yesterday, it gets discouraging very quickly when you have to keep pulling yourself up every single week from a failure...
    I just wish I could get a streak to 7 days or more.
     
  18. Captain Anurag

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  19. Getting_Free_From_Porn

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