[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Merry Terry · Jun 2, 2020

Day 7.
I joined this forum 211 days ago. Of those 211 days, I was 189 days without M’ing to P.

Merry Terry · Jun 2, 2020

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Day 89/90
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Woohoo!

Timothy_James · Jun 2, 2020

50/90

Merry Terry · Jun 2, 2020

georgebou7 said: ↑

Day 24

Unbelievable urges. I ended up to google some Instagram models and watched for like 5 minutes. But i didn't touch my thing. Eventually i understood that moment that this wasn't ok and it doesn't worth. It was a bad choice and I took my lesson. Definitely it doesn't worth. Probably i have urges and i was horny, but i won't find in the real world these perfect Instagram models, i want just to find a simple nice girl. It's a fake reality. I don't want to ruin my improvement for this.

Now i don't know what to do with my counter. I think that i don't want to reset, i have done a big effort till this point, i have improved my mindset and i don't know if these 5 minutes destroyed my process. As i said i didn't touch my thing at all. Definitely i will note this incident in my calendar. But do I have to reset my counter? What do you believe guys? Every opinion would be appreciated...

To conclude more happily, from my experience it doesn't worth such behaviours at all.
Trust your processes!
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Wether or not to reset is ultimately up to you. In my experience, I would often excuse this kind of behavior but it would always inevitably be followed by a real relapse later.

I think the main thing is for you to realise this is bad and inexcusable behavior. You can do that by resetting your counter so as to be 100% firm to yourself, if this will help you to not do it again. This has been my recent strategy and it has helped me to realise the gravity of what I did. But maybe you are stronger than me and you can keep your counter, see the danger of what you did, never do it again and keep on with your journey towards the 90 days.

Either way, know that you didn't destroy your process. Every time you didn't look at P is a win and you don't lose those wins, no matter if there's some slips on the way.

Puretim · Jun 2, 2020

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day 75/90... now just two more week left... 5/6th of journey completed... 1/6th still left
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Good on you so far.I hope you continue on after the 90 days

hallo humans · Jun 2, 2020

1/90

georgebou7 · Jun 2, 2020

Swazzy 1 said: ↑

I have a no perfect answer.It will depend on ur mindset.If there's a possibility of u going for relapse or feeling letdown when u reset the counter don't go for it.If u would feel afresh or motivated on resetting counter, go for it.
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Merry Terry said: ↑

Wether or not to reset is ultimately up to you. In my experience, I would often excuse this kind of behavior but it would always inevitably be followed by a real relapse later.

I think the main thing is for you to realise this is bad and inexcusable behavior. You can do that by resetting your counter so as to be 100% firm to yourself, if this will help you to not do it again. This has been my recent strategy and it has helped me to realise the gravity of what I did. But maybe you are stronger than me and you can keep your counter, see the danger of what you did, never do it again and keep on with your journey towards the 90 days.

Either way, know that you didn't destroy your process. Every time you didn't look at P is a win and you don't lose those wins, no matter if there's some slips on the way.
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Thank you guys for expressing your opinions!! It really helps me a lot!!

My decision is to not reset my counter. I believe that a reset will be bad for me and in 2-3 days i would like to relapse, if i reset. Besides i think i restrained myself very quickly yesterday and somehow it shows an unusual strength for me. So i continue my streak and i am determined not to allow staring at sexy models. I think that i took my lesson immediately. Now its the time to face my urges. Maybe my weakness to face these urges at this point was the reason i wasn't able to accomplish bigger streaks at past. So I have to be stronger and work on my mindset. This time i will face my urges.

In case i will consciously stare at sexy models again in the future i will reset my counter for sure.

Thank you again guys!!! Stay strong!!

Life’sWork · Jun 2, 2020

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24 days / 90 monk mode complete

26%
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Now 0 days

bromor · Jun 2, 2020

Day 51 No M
Day 156 No P

Kinda late today. Will come back with a video tomorrow! Have a nice evening guys!

ad37222 · Jun 2, 2020

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Day 5

Fredi-the · Jun 2, 2020

georgebou7 said: ↑

Day 24

Unbelievable urges. I ended up to google some Instagram models and watched for like 5 minutes. But i didn't touch my thing. Eventually i understood that moment that this wasn't ok and it doesn't worth. It was a bad choice and I took my lesson. Definitely it doesn't worth. Probably i have urges and i was horny, but i won't find in the real world these perfect Instagram models, i want just to find a simple nice girl. It's a fake reality. I don't want to ruin my improvement for this.

Now i don't know what to do with my counter. I think that i don't want to reset, i have done a big effort till this point, i have improved my mindset and i don't know if these 5 minutes destroyed my process. As i said i didn't touch my thing at all. Definitely i will note this incident in my calendar. But do I have to reset my counter? What do you believe guys? Every opinion would be appreciated...

To conclude more happily, from my experience it doesn't worth such behaviours at all.
Trust your processes!
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IMO, that would not be a reset In my mind since you didn't masturbate or orgasm and only watched 5 minutes. Enjoy your day, guilt free and just try not to do it again is my advice.

truehunter · Jun 2, 2020

10 days / 90

the_wizard · Jun 2, 2020

Day 11/90

Valier(|[{<=>}]|) · Jun 2, 2020

Day 1/90
Back on track again I really feel that I made mistake by doing that relapse. It cost me 4 good days I could have been on day 5 but one little mistake. I took a one look at porn site and I relapsed within 4 hours. So I understand the culprit it looking at porn so I won't touch the porn block again.

crazyhorse11 · Jun 2, 2020

Day 1/30 No MO
Day 30/90 No P

hermitthefrog · Jun 2, 2020

On day 49/90

Deleted Account · Jun 2, 2020

Day 2

MrHouse · Jun 2, 2020

Day 82/90.

Deleted Account · Jun 2, 2020

day 76/90... 14 days left

Jerky · Jun 2, 2020

Today is day 55.

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