90 day challenge starting today who is in?

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Saoconrado40, Apr 12, 2019.

  1. Giovani12

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    Yeah. Ive haven't had any problems of urges due to loneliness. But, oh God, today I wento to the gym, and well couldn't resist to take some looks. However, still doing fine and now it's been a week of nofap (and it had been a while since the last time that I did one week
     
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  2. InvictusRising

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  3. 12ove

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    Going strong. Each day has struggles of their own. Trust me I hear you all with the spring time clothing, gym, and just regular clothes now a days on women. We all got to stay strong and realize that we can not oodle after these things, real men do not do so and we must learn to treat women as people and not sex objects. Most women, especially respectable women hate it (the kind that likes that attention is the cheating kind fyi) when they realize that guys are gawking at them like that, and it can take a long time for them to look at a man that does that the same way.
     
  4. awayforlong

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    Hey guys, 2 weeks without porn and masturbation. I have had sex though. But I wanted to go on light mode. Is this the right challenge for me anyhow? Idont want to be a cheat. Because at the moment it is easy to restain from porn since real sexual interaction has become a lot more fulfilling. Also my goal is not to be a monk but to enjoy life with my partner, and sex is definately part of it
     
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  5. Ghost79

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    I think sex should not be allowed here since then its easier for you to avoid P and M then.
    So I want to make a new suggestion for a vote on having everyone have "without P, M and O" in there tickers.
     
  6. Ghost79

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    Then what about one night stands and hookers visits for example.
     
  7. mrJJ

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    Starting today... let's see.
     
  8. 12ove

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    My vote is against because the minimum requirement to join this group was no PM...not no O

    If someone wants a hard mode group they should be somewhere else imo

    So yes you are all good, btw if he is out i am out because i have also had an O if you catch my drift
     
  9. awayforlong

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    Hey, thx for the replies. It is easier, but at the same time there are more triggers. I am aiming to quit porn alltogether and not sex. So 90 days with no PM would be a huge success for me. But I dont want to sabotage anybody. Maybe I add the no PM to make it clear
     
  10. awayforlong

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    I dont know what the goal of you is, for me it was to break a vicious cycle that included not enjoying sex. I think going to a hooker is a bit like porn since it is not a "real" interaction. A one night stand on the other hand is sth real since you interact. But these are just my 2 cents
     
  11. DOOM_SLAYER

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    I'd say going to a prostitute is a lot worse than PMO. You don't want that addiction. Prostitutes have to numb themselves with drugs and are usually dead inside. A lot of times they have a pimp that is forcing themselves upon them as well as threatening them in case they'd want to quit. You don't want to contribute to another persons pain like that.
     
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  12. awayforlong

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    Also going to a prostitute is similar to porn since you are completely in control and have no real interaction with a person. Instead you decide on fantasies and receive a service with an actress. Fulfilling sex has to do with giving up control and experiencing mutual joy by being able to enjoy smaller dopamin rushes but deeper connection
     
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  14. DOOM_SLAYER

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    Day 4

    Damn this is hard. I feel like my dopamine is gathered up like a dam about to burst if I give away one inch of willpower.
     
  15. 12ove

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    I think the 4 to ten day mark is pretty tough to get through. Here I go!

    I promise to not PM for 24 hours.
     
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  16. Giovani12

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    Uff for me everything prior to day 9 was going well, but it's getting harder:emoji_joy:
     
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  17. JJ_Kino

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    I'm on day 5 feeling good, hoping to smash my best record of 65 days.

    Not sure why my counter isn't showing? It used to.

    Any ideas??
     

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  18. Don't you feel like the days pass too slowly when you set a milestone you want to reach??

    Before beginning this challenge, I'd always been amazed by how fast the days go by and I'd ask myself how did this month ended so quickly as it feels like it started a week ago.

    Now I'm on my 13th day of no PMO and it feels like the 31st xD.
     
  19. Giovani12

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    Ok, unfortunately, I had a relapse, but it was a weird one. I did it becuase I went to bed at like 11:00 pm but couldnt fall asleep until like 4:00 am. I got frustrated (becuase literally I wasnt doing anything else other than trying to fall asleep). This has happened some times in the past, and it happens when I workout at night (around 7-8).
     
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