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Almost 3 weeks now and just got super horny

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Zarr101, Jan 20, 2019.

  1. Zarr101

    Zarr101 New Fapstronaut

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    So it’s been about 3 weeks now and for first 3 weeks was fairly easy was basically a flatline nothing really got me going I was able to go

    Yesterday and today I just got super horny like I haven’t been in a very long time I started nofap Bec my libido got very Low for while. I made the mistake today to check out a few bikini photos online just Bec I was so horny maybe for 30 secs max 2 times didn’t MO or anything.

    What do I do to combat this now? I know as soon as I get to bed tonite I’m not going to be able to sleep until I relieve the hornyness it’s happened like that in the past
     
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  2. KillCommunism

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    Yeah, 3 weeks seems to be right about the time I start getting really consumed by the need to fuck a woman.

    I noticed it these past couple months. Abiut a month ago was the last time i had sex. I felt fine and wasn't horny at all until now, about 3 weeks later. It was the same thing 2 months ago.
     
  3. The Wrestler

    The Wrestler Fapstronaut

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    Week 4 is when I usually get really randy, and others report the same, so you are not alone in that experience.
    What can you do? Don't. Look. At. Pictures. Avoid them, don't glance at them...just don't. Treat them like they're the Ark of the freaking Covenant!
    This is also one of the absolutely most difficult things to do at this point and the junkie talk with be strong at this point, so when you notice your mouse is drifting say - out loud - "I don't do this anymore." and get the hell out the best you can. It may actually be worth considering giving up all your tech for a week to make it through.
    I feel you, man! It's a tough week but worth getting through. Even if you don't, getting to this point is amazing and can teach you all kinds of great strategies to try again. Congratulations on making it this far!
     
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  4. Well, since your counter denotes that you're attempting to fight against porn and masturbation, I would say you should do your absolute hardest not to even slightly give in. No Googling pictures. If you feel an urge, shut down the closest electronic. Take cold showers once or twice a day. Take walks multiple times. Get out of the house. And when you sleep, if you feel an urge, take another cold shower and if still doesn't help... you're better off just staying up, at least to me. I had an urge very late at night and I just remained awake and powered through. Eventually, I fell asleep, though. Sometimes funny YouTube videos help me take my mind off of it. For example, if I have an urge, I just watch funny moments from Family Feud to help take my mind off of it at night.

    And most of all, commit to these rules. Ensure that voice in your head doesn't speak loudly and with enough time, it'll get easier and easier to ignore.
     
  5. I'm on day 29, and I'm enjoying my horniness. In my case I stopped watching porn because I was into transgendered person porn, and I wanted to sexually desire women again. So far it's working pretty good, every morning when I am half woke half asleep, I find myself fantasyzing about sex with women. I like it and I want it to go further, so I just cope with it. I won't MO until I have sex with a woman (maybe later I'll MO to the memories till the next sexual encounter happens haha).
    Be ware! On day 27 and 28 my mind faced this new problem that I had not prevented: urges to visit an escort. Because, yeah, I gave up porn, and I'm sure of that, but I didn't give up sex, so I had to ask myself if this is what I really wanted (paying for sex). I watched a couple escort ads, man, those pics are still stuck in my mind, but in the end I decided to focus on my self, to keep improving my body, my English and my Japanese, so once I feel ready to flirt again, I'll use some dating app or whatever, but I won't pay for a cold sexual encounter. Those pics will fade from my mind eventually. Back on track.
     
  6. Zarr101

    Zarr101 New Fapstronaut

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    i have to reset my counter now tho i relapsed last week and i forgot to reset it :(
     
  7. Zarr101

    Zarr101 New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the advice! yea there where times i couldn't sleep and you know you just want to give in bec it puts you right to sleep!
     

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