Constantly relapsing at work (possible triggers!)

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Darin, Sep 23, 2017.

  1. Darin

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    Hi y'all! I'm trying to last at least a week on NoFap, but since I started working there are two issues that prevent me from lasting longer than 3-4 days:

    1. For no reason I often get a hard on while taking a dump in the stall at work. I find myself having to distract myself with images of ugly things, but it doesn't work. The only way to go limp is to jerk off there and then lol. I have too high libido so once I am hard it's hard to go flaccid...Often the sexual thoughts appear after the boner, not before haha But in general I have very high sexual energy it seems as sometimes I feel like I will explode and cum hands-free haha when I do exercises. I even noticed I start to smell like an animal down there haha (sorry for TMI) despite showering.

    2. The stalls at work are full of dried cum trails. I'm straight and I don't find it hot, but disgusting. Yet it somehow sends the message to me "If so many guys wank here, then it's perfectly fine". The thing is I can't go and complain to maintenance as this issue is present on EVERY floor of the building (10 floors) I've been to and I'll look like a fool. They might even think I am the one doing it (it is not a single guy apparently, as it's on EVERY fin floor in this building, all different companies, one day I checked!)
    Seriously, it seems like here people really like to jerk off a lot and for whatever reason they are very eager to show what they did to others (it's a somewhat sexually modest society IMO). When you sit you see dried cum everywhere, yuck! Doors, walls, even sometimes on the sits themselves or the door handles...
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    So tell me how to handle this and to prevent relapse? I tried using a string on my wrist for when getting those boners but it only works sometimes. I think taking a dump triggers some muscle or sth as even at home sometimes it happens. I get many many boners the more I abstain. As you know maybe walking around with a hard on at work might be inappropriate.

    Would you complain about the dirtiness of the facilities? Like what can they do about jerks (pun intended) who do this except for installing security cameras in the stalls (people will be outraged)?
     
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  2. Nomenyeux

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    LOL. So that's what those streaks are? You just opened my eyes. Now I can see, man! Hahahahahahahahaha.

    Sorry, that's inappropriate.
     
  3. Nomenyeux

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    Just fight through it. I am the horniest guy evar but I never spooge at work. It only happens when I get home.

    Let me tell you, though; I'd be lying if I said that I never spooged at work. I used to do it as well. I had the same mentality in that I thought it was better to rub it out than to keep being distracted. I never spooge at work anymore.

    Imagine some guy skeeting all over that wall before you do it. LOL.
     
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  4. Darin

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    So you can find them everywhere?
    WTF is wrong with people not cleaning after PMO?
     
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  5. Stimulation of the rectum does trigger erection. If you really can't get soft try stroking the area behind your balls to lose the boner. My advice is to try and get your attention off the cum on walls issue. If exhibitionists want to do this unhygienic activity ignore it and treat it like any other muck that people leave in stalls
     
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  6. gingeralan

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    That is a health and safety issue. You should report that and get it sorted ASAP. You don't have to say what you think it is, just that the toilets in the building need a better cleaning regime.
     
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  7. Nomenyeux

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    I guess they get off on marking their "territory." Maybe they think it will give then some kind of chemical advantage in their career. LOL
     
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  8. Flyhigh

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    Maybe it will help if you post nofap stickers in every stall?
     
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  9. Nomenyeux

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    Lol. Cracks me up, brother.
     
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  10. Flyhigh

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    I'm joking and serious at the same time.
     
  11. Nomenyeux

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    That's the beauty of it. If you can get away with skeeting on the wall you can get away with that.
     
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