Hello, I just edged several times with porn involved. Is it healthier if I finish the job, at least without porn? Now I feel uncomfortable and my balls hurt.
Mate, I'm with you on day 11. You should definitely add mindfulness meditation to your arsenal and in particular "urge surfing" to reduce edging. You can learn these things online on youtube or websites. No porn man, no porn at all. Be kind to yourself and don't judge yourself and stop porn. I wish you the best.
It is of course your choice. Blue balls will dissipate in time. An advantage to not finishing - the discomfort would be a reminder as to why you cannot edge.
hi man if you watch porn and edged i dont think you can move on without ejaculate.. when u watched porn in breaks i everytime ejaculate after it, it just not possible to watch porn and avoid it, and you even edged.. finish now and start over good luck mate
im not justify nofing, this man sew porn and edged, you wanna tell me its not require restart? we cant lie to ourself and do just we want about it.. and if this man done all the way to edged he have to ejaculate in order to start again, he cant continu like that..
I agree, if you are honest with yourself you should reset your counter after you deliberately watch porn and edge. But there is no logic to 'finishing off' imo. Why would it be necessary to further sabotage what @dr. tchock worked so hard for.
its nececcery becuse he started this, i think we cant deny to this fact. another thing, this man hold himself but fall and watch porn so at least in my opinion he deserves to enjoy a bit, i know how it sound but this is what i think. to reset you cant ignore what you did and i thing its logical to ejaculate.
Edging is absolutely must NO for me. It "gave" me CP and constant problems. If you watch P and M, better ejac, believe me. I practiced constant edging, watched porn in 2 hour sessions and after 2-3 times of edging, I released on the 3-4th O. That was the biggest mistake of my life. If you fail, just fail. But don't ruin your health on top of that.
YES it is more healthy to finish, don't mess with your natural systems. it is hard on the system to edge, and then not finish. but with that being said, it is good to learn to masturbate, to know when to stop masturbating long before you finish. but this is for after your 90 days are up, if that is what you are doing.
I still think you shouldn't listen to these people @dr. tchock but it is your choice, and I believe you will inevitably have success with your rebooting goals. If you regularly apply yourself to new kinds of healthy routines, your streaks will extend into the distance. Give this everything! All you've got.
So in this case, edging to porn and not ejaculating is unhealthy? But if one were having sex with their significant other and purposely held back, that would be healthy? So karezza is not healthy? Or it's just not healthy in the recovery phase?
If an alcoholic has half a beer, should he just go ahead and get full blown drunk? If you see a hot girl and get aroused, should you finish off then? That just doesn't make sense to me. Where do you draw the line? Edging directly led to my last relapse. P and M and O are all separate things. If you are trying to abstain from P, and look at P, then you should reset your counter. Orgasming because of blue balls is just an excuse for relapse. Blue balls will pass if you let it.
man its not the point. the point is that if you edged you only will be hornier after it and you will finish after this sometime.. so its better to finish and start again with clean page
Do not edge you might as well just finish off the deed. Here is why you should not edge: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/what-if-i-use-porn-without-orgasm For you nonreaders: Edging basically keeps dopamine levels up for hours or however long you engage in the activity. When orgasm occurs prolactin is released into the brain which inhibits dopamine levels to normalcy. Without prolactin present dopamine will stay in your system making you just wanting to keep edging. I highly advise nobody edge as I've failed various attempts of NoFap using that method it always leads to a relapse.
Everyone, your opinions on the matter are irrelevant and some are giving this guy wrong advice. MASTURBATION FOLLOWED BY EJACULATION IS MUCH BETTER THAN JUST EDGING.sdg Read this: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/what-if-i-use-porn-without-orgasm
people i will tell you from my experience.. if you get a big amount of sexual desire and hornyness like watching porn or similar you make your all system ready for ejaculating and on the way to it. thats why you cant watch porn and continu your streak without cum.. also when you watch porn the desire to fapp is 20 times bigger. its just impossible thing so pls take my advice, if you fall and watch porn just relax yourself and cum. and start again fresh new and honest. good luck all!
