FEAR OF BEING GAY

lildn666

lildn666

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Hello ın august ı was in gym and a dude stared at me and ı was really scared because ı thought he is gay.And after that day ı am really afraid of being gay and ım in paranoia.I know ım straight because ı have currently a crush and back than ı loved a girl but ı cant get over that.ın a web site ı read that porn can make you gay and ıt made my fear double.and interestingly this fear hits me when ım alone and ı try not to think but ı think more please help me
 
This sounds like HOCD, if you have no attraction to men, you are not gay.

I’m in the same situation as you, I even have hard feelings for a girl right now who was interested in me, but due to this fear I showed lack of interest and now she doesn’t want me anymore.

Keep fighting.
 
TreyBall said:
This sounds like HOCD, if you have no attraction to men, you are not gay.

I’m in the same situation as you, I even have hard feelings for a girl right now who was interested in me, but due to this fear I showed lack of interest and now she doesn’t want me anymore.

Keep fighting.
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ıt ıs good to see someone same as me.just we need to stay strong and ıt wıll be over ı think
 
lildn666 said:
Hello ın august ı was in gym and a dude stared at me and ı was really scared because ı thought he is gay.And after that day ı am really afraid of being gay and ım in paranoia.I know ım straight because ı have currently a crush and back than ı loved a girl but ı cant get over that.ın a web site ı read that porn can make you gay and ıt made my fear double.and interestingly this fear hits me when ım alone and ı try not to think but ı think more please help me
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uhh. Well man. Then stop checking out the dudes!
 
Bonerjam007 said:
uhh. Well man. Then stop checking out the dudes!
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This isn’t a case of checking out dudes, it’s a form of OCD. His brain is overreacting to every little thing and trying to make connections to homosexuality any way possible to convince him he’s gay.
 
Roady said:
I suffered from that fear in the past. I grew over it. Thinking about connecting to a man nowadays gives me judt feelings of disgust.

Your fear is rooted in a lack of confirmation as a boy / lack of self esteem / inferiority.
Treat that and the real you will come alive.
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What about porn? Should we quit porn?
 
Roady said:
I suffered from that fear in the past. I grew over it. Thinking about connecting to a man nowadays gives me judt feelings of disgust.

Your fear is rooted in a lack of confirmation as a boy / lack of self esteem / inferiority.
Treat that and the real you will come alive.
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yeah really i i got very very low self confidince i think pmo causes all of this stuff
 
Roady said:
I come from a very scary depth. Nowadays I feel peaceful. Go try to seek the truth in everything. Once you understand the what and the why the problem is half solved. People often do just things because they don't understand and / or are confused.

Leaving porn is one of the best things you can do for yourself. You even can't imagine now what kind of peace is available.
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I really quit this time i know im a heavy addict and i need to solve this problem
 
TheSmokeCriminal said:
Guys Im fucked IM SO FUCKED(
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You could try this if you think it might help:

Sit down somewhere comfortable. Now try and pay attention to your thoughts. Be ready for a triggering thought. When it happens, say to yourself something like, "That's triggering. I'm going to think about something better." Think about something you're interested in that isn't triggering, then go back to paying attention to your thoughts, being ready for a triggering thought.. and so on.

If you do this for a little while it can kind of program your mind to give you a "trigger warning" when you start thinking about anything that is, you guessed it, triggering. This makes it easier to snap out of thoughts that could get you into trouble.
 
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