Help!!!!!!!! I am a Sissy addicted to everyrhing

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  1. Vitoriosa

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    Vc já disse que esconde tudo da sua esposa. Vc não acha que está na hora de pedir ajuda pra ela?. Meu marido não me pediu ajuda eu que descobri tudo. No começo eu pensei que ele era gay. Mais ele nunca foi. Sempre foi homem. Então fui atrás de respostas e acabei aqui nesse fórum e no YouTube nos vídeos do Gary Wilson. Foi ai que eu entendi tudo que estava acontecendo. Porque desde muito novo ele via pornografia de uns 5 anos pra ca e que tudo ficou pior. Fui percebendo que ele estava igual ao um zumbi. Não queria mais sexo comigo. Então fiquei observando ele. Até que eu peguei ele na cama com um dildo . As roupas femininas fui achando em lugares escondido na casa.
     
  2. swagzenegger

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    the thing is . hes not the first nor the last to have these kind of problems... you can read other threads related to this.. trolling or not, this is an issue sadly.
     
  3. Randy

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    I think that sometimes it isn't trolling, but that we are of two minds. It is easy to get excited and lose track when we find others who share our fetishes.
     
  4. Sackstor

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    Ah I understand what trolling is. Trying to feed our fetish by seeking others with same....
     
  5. Sackstor

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    [QUOTE = "Victorious, post: 1879079, member: 292333"] You have already said that you hide everything from your wife. Do not you think it's time to ask her for help? My husband did not ask me for help, I discovered everything. At first I thought he was gay. But he never was. He was always a man. So I went after the answers and ended up here in this forum and on YouTube videos of Gary Wilson. That's when I understood everything that was happening. Because since he was very young, he saw pornography about 5 years ago and everything got worse. I was noticing he was like a zombie. She did not want any more sex with me. Then I watched him. Until I got him in bed with a dildo. The women's clothing was found hidden in the house. [/ QUOTE]



    DDid you use dildo with him?? In bed??
     
  6. Vitoriosa

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    O meu tradutor não está funcionando.
     
  7. Randy

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    Trolling is when you are not at all serious, but you post stuff just to make people react. I am suggesting that you are not a troll, but that maybe you get excited sometimes and lose focus.
     
  8. Retentionman

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    Ok good point
     
  9. Roady

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    Here a man who struggled with sissy hypno porn, crossdressing and more.
    If I may speak a few words, I would encourage all of you that freedom is possible if you really want it.
    I know how strong the pull of that kind of lifestyle is.
    I know the spiritual battle that's necessary to break free from this kind of addiction.
    But I also know how it feels to overcome it completely!

    For the ones who are interested, I wrote a very lot in my journal. It helped me to process my stuff, and I hope it will help and inspire you on your way to complete recovery.

    Crossdressing is definitely an "attachment" issue.
    When a boy is not safely attached to his mother, transgender issues can be a result of it.
    Because of the very strong feelings crossdressing and sissy porn gives the addict, it's very difficult to recognize the real issues. But once you start facing the problems and process them, it will, I repeat, it will become clear what the problem is.
    Once you go through your pain and fears, you will reach a point you don't need your addiction any longer.
     
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  10. Vitoriosa

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    [QUOTE = "Roady, post: 1879278, membro: 169739"] Aqui está um homem que lutou com o pornô hipnótico, crossdressing e muito mais.
    Se eu puder falar algumas palavras, eu encorajaria todos vocês que a liberdade é possível se você realmente quiser.
    Eu sei o quão forte é a atração desse tipo de estilo de vida.
    Eu sei a batalha espiritual que é necessária para se libertar desse tipo de vício.
    Mas também sei como é superá-lo completamente!

    Para os interessados, escrevi muito no meu diário. Isso me ajudou a processar minhas coisas, e espero que isso ajude e inspire você em sua jornada para a recuperação.

    O crossdressing é definitivamente um problema de "anexo".
    Quando um menino não está seguramente ligado à sua mãe, os problemas transgêneros podem ser resultado disso.
    Por causa dos sentimentos muito fortes que o crossdressing e o pornô de maricas dão ao viciado, é muito difícil reconhecer os problemas reais. Mas uma vez que você comece a enfrentar os problemas e os processe, será, repito, que ficará claro qual é o problema.
    Depois de passar por sua dor e medos, você alcançará um ponto em que não precisará mais do seu vício . [/ QUOTE]
    Creio que quer isso, é muito do meu marido era muito autoritária. Ele espelhava muito nela. Morria de medo dela. Não era uma pessoa ma, mais também não era compreensiva.
     
  11. Roady

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    Please write in English then more people can read it and react upon it.

    Your husband need to process that damaging relationship with his mother.
    For sure, the whole crossdressing issue is way to feel safe and secure. It's a way to cover the pain. But... it will not take away that pain.
     
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  12. Sackstor

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    Yes.
     
  13. Sackstor

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    If I wear my panties and bra Brahman DO NOT PMO, what is the harm??
     
  14. Sackstor

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    What about getting blow job during reboot? If I am able???
     
  15. Sackstor

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    So i realize that if I only wear my lingerie, its the same thing as porn.....
     
  16. Roady

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    You need to get it out of your brain.
    Read my journal. And I mean: really read it. Much info there that can help you.

    If you want.
     
  17. Sackstor

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    Boy I feel like I'm slipping today. I feel like I need to PMO. I need to play with my toys. I need it. How do you deal with this desire.
     
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  19. ElogicalStudent

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    Don't give up. Do something that relieves dopamine. Do 100 pushups when you get home and exercise till you feel exhausted.
     
  20. PathOfReform

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    Throw your fucking toys away, throw away everything that's related to this fucking garbage. Then tell your wife ASAP and seek therapy immediately.
    I'm not going to sugar coat anything - YOU FUCKED UP BAD. Porn is not to blame, but your problematic addict behavior is. Beyond just getting addicted to sissy porn, you acted out on it many times behind your wife's back. This is extremely humiliating and you better tell her quick or else one day she'll find out about it and shit could get much worse.

    Divorce would most likely be the result, but you'd save a lot of trouble and shame for your family and for yourself.
    Trying to supposedly fight it by posting here and simply not watching porn, while still keeping this secret hidden from your wife and keeping your toys and clothes is not going to help.
    As long as none of the above is complete, your attempt is nothing but a half-assed approach to fixing your problem and it will not work if you keep up that way.
     
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