How to forget Love Relationships?....and your Online Dating Experiences?

Hey man, I've felt this way for a while to. What really helped me was to just accept reality, and to be satisfied if I were to be alone/never be in a relationship in my life. This is a hard thing to face, not saying you'll be alone forever, but what if that time doesn't come? Life's not fun, and we have to be real about things sometimes. You can't control what others think of you, but you can control your effort.
Things come oftentimes when we stop looking for it or being desperate. I busy myself with tasks, whether that be helping others, putting in extra effort at work, or learning a new skill or hobby. At this point, I'm occupied with becoming the best version of myself so I can be a positive addition to anyone's life.

 

I know that the more you look for something the farther it gets from you. It's just a saying but my theory is that Because the despare make opportunities goes away, despare doesn't let us see clear and filters stuff. As the other person says above me. Accept reality and give it up. Don't force it because if you do, it's not genuine.

 

I used to be like you. It sucks! It's not fun when you are living under so many lies. Good luck

 

poorly i guess.
i train 3 times a week so that people (myself included) can rely on my body to at least be a minimum good looking and not that weak.
i try to learn some skills useful for work.
i try not to eat junk so i can be healthy. i learn to cook sometimes.
i pray, and stay or try to stay or even run away from porn and masturbation because i don't want to be a 40 years old impulsive disgusting masturbator locked in his toilets.

but i feel the same lack of options, at the moment my thoughts are filled with cynicism with regards to romanticism... i for a long time waiting for the next message or the next reaction of someone i was in touch with, and attracted to, had too much weight in how good or bad i would feel during that day, all while i would be waiting for an answer.

@Krillin1993 you know, i had a friend who was 163cm tall... but he was smart, honest, playful, but despite all of this, he did his best, and had "chances" with girls. this is just one example.

don't lose hope... we could make things way worse, let's not go there to begin with. at the moment, the possibility that i am making my life worse is what moves me. but i am afraid this is not enough.

 

I have accepted the fact that longing for a beautiful woman is part of life, I recognize it's there and feel it. And try to do what is within my control and try to forgo what is not within my control.

 

I don’t have a problem getting matches since I’m a relatively decent looking guy. I got a date after only using hinge for two months. Unfortunately things didn’t work out. I was supposed to go out with another girl immediately after but she didn’t like how I was still healing from what happened with the first girl so she walked away. I jumped back in to dating too soon and didn’t give myself a chance to refresh.

My social skills have gradually improved since I began using the app. The key to moving forward with girls is that you can’t be afraid to be yourself. You have to not have dry conversations. Too many people are either a) too scared to be themselves b) Beat the same topics to death c) never step outside of small talk d) force chemistry that isn’t there

 

Hello. I had been in the dark pit where I was only looking for approval from randoms girls I was hag-ridden by this, that I was only delibelitary wanting to have a girl to enhance my self-esteem.Some years passed my understanding of Telegony and my own resurrection caused that now I am willingly not searching for them, in this year I have provided a house for my mother.Once she told me that once I find a girl she will move out and I told her that'' nobody will ever replace her and her place and that I do not care about any girl in this world and I am here on the earth for something more''
Even sometimes when I am shopping I do notice that some girls or girl are looking at me ( you could include that I attract them or they mock me) but I treat them similar to gusty wind.