How to get the girl and how to have a successful first date

Picking the right girl
Develop an eye to see with who you have chemistry with, that she is a good girl and not crazy, notice if the interaction is smooth and natural. If not then do not pursue it. Choosing the right girl is almost 90% of your success.

The approach
Whereas you do real life approach or via texting in both you do the same you need to talk as if you knew the person from your entire life, like it’s your roommate. It is a state of relaxation, awareness and free idea association, you are simply talking and when the opportunity arises you ask for the number or invite her to eat or drink something. See also how she responds to the way you talk, sometimes you need to be a bit more serious depending on her attitude.

The date
Almost if she has agreed to the date you are set. Basically you need not to screw it up.

1. The place:
- Go to a place you already know, if it is an interesting place better. For example I take my dates to a new place from my house where there are many different desserts from all over the world. Girls love to eat and if it’s something they have not taste before its interesting for them. There are also a lot of new gastronomic experiences close to my house. It helps too.

-If you cannot take them to an interesting place that is fine too. You work with what you have. You are the one that shines.

- Do not go to a place you do not know or a place you do not feel comfortable even if the girl wants to go there because it will be more difficult for you and can even screw the entire date. Know your territory. Also avoid a place very far away from her house unless she tells you she wants to go there.

2. Talking: See if she wants to talk or she prefers you do the talking or 50/50 and you act accordingly if she just wants to talk and talk let her, if she wants to be quiet and listen to you, you do that.

3. Time: first dates cannot be too long. 40-50 min. tops. You leave her wanting more; don’t go to the point of her being tired or watching her clock.

4. Sitting: if you are at a table sit next to her not in front of her because the table creates a barrier between you two.

4. The kiss: You need to create an environment to kiss the girl, if she is just not in the mood of a first date kiss it doesn’t matter you create an intimate atmosphere with little people where she can feel relaxed to kiss you or be more open, intimate with you. Usually I take the girls to eat a dessert or food, I don’t drink but women like to drink it helps to relax them but I do not like loud places like bars so I don’t go there. After the meal I move to a lonelier place like a park to continue being together or if the restaurant or place where you took her is intimate and comfortable you can stay there too, also if there is not a chance to move to another place you stay there too, you work with what you have but it can make it more difficult.

Kiss foreplay: Remember to touch her during the date, her arm, shoulder, leg, even her face so she gets use to your touching and the kiss doesn’t come all of the sudden. Like a foreplay to kiss. You can also give her occasional kisses on the cheek, hands too.

See her attitude: do not just start touching her or approaching if she is being a bit distant or serious do not force physical approach it all depends in how she is behaving towards you.

Signs she wants a kiss: she touches you, she bites or moisture her lips with her tongue, she bites her lips, her mouth gets dry, she becomes quieter, you can feel she gets nervous in a good way; then go for the kiss. Sometimes kisses can be messy or come at the end of the date you do it anyway.

Sex: you have to be ready, there is always a possibility so know before hand where to take her to have sex, have condoms, lubricants, all you need. If you notice the kisses are too intense, she is touching your crouch you ask if she wants to have sex, you can bring the subject in a playful manner like a joke if she says no it was just a clever joke nothing happened if she says yes then you go all for it.