I relapsed, and I feel AMAZING

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Kai101, Jul 8, 2018.

  1. Jackb97

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    If you're gonna go all that time without nutting. You could of at least nutted on a girl. Even if its an escort have a bit of an adventure instead of blasting it in the dark to pixels.
     
  2. 33ctf6m8pdpq

    33ctf6m8pdpq Fapstronaut

    Really, an escort? That's your recommendation?
     
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  3. Jackb97

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    Over porn yes. I rather him have not nutted at all or done it with a girl he has some sort of relationship with.
    But i don't see any shame in escorts. Sex is great and great things are always going to be sold. Depends on the person really.
    Don't get so high and mighty with your question marks.
     
  4. 33ctf6m8pdpq

    33ctf6m8pdpq Fapstronaut

    Another boy running around here giving sh*tty, ego-driven, unhealthy advice. I'm shocked! You've been a NoFap member for over a year now and only have 3 days of non-PM to show for it? Tell me more about how your escort-pro mentality and process have been working out for you? If criticizing the use of escorts strikes a nerve with you, and puts me on a "high-horse", then I'm sorry to tell you this, but you're addictions run deeper than you know. Your uneducated, moronic suggestion is also an indication of how you treat and see women which is another dangerous side-effect of porn. That, or you're just a misogynistic piece of sh*t. Either way, you shouldn't be promoting that behavior to a person who's struggling and seeking HEALTHY advice (OMG, is that not why we are here?!). Luckily, though, your ideology won't last long — it doesn't have a place in this world even though you think it does. Eventually, the World will make you its escort and f*ck you over and over until your boyish ego is completely broken.
     
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  5. bravastan

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    Well you do have to agree that it's a bit weird for this place haha.
    A PMO addiction is not only a porn addiction but also a sex addiction. If somebody feels down because he/she needs to masturbate but tries to abstain this person should try to cope with this displeasure in order to eventually overcome it. Going to an escort is merely solving the displeasure with sex but it doesn't learn somebody to cope with our feelings in a healthy manner.
     
  6. 33ctf6m8pdpq

    33ctf6m8pdpq Fapstronaut

    Exactly! This is healthy information. Learning to cope using positive means is precisely what we are all looking to do. Nice work, bravastan. Thank you for your genuine input on this important topic.
     
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  7. Jackb97

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    Cant you just do it for fun? Sex can be fun too. You wouldn't say going rock climbing was just coping with our feelings.
     
  8. 33ctf6m8pdpq

    33ctf6m8pdpq Fapstronaut

    Your concept of "fun" is actually just a deep-seeded form of escape (i.e., that is why we're calling it a coping mechanism). Some people think shooting up heroin is "fun", but that doesn't make it healthy or moral. If you paying to put your parts into a person — a person who is likely struggling to get a grasp of their own life, no less — is your idea of fun, then you may be a (clinical) psychopath. Speak to a shrink. They will shine light on what it is you're actually trying to escape. I don't buy this "fun" sh*t one bit.

    With that being said, the primary argument here is NOT whether prostitution is moral or not (hint: it's not). The real issue is in regards to you PROMOTING prostitution as an alternative to PMO. THAT is the problem and your sex-negative bullsh*t doesn't belong in a community for people trying to become sex-positive. Like I said in my post earlier, you should seek help in order to squash this behavior now before it consumes you because rest assured, it will with your current mindset. Good luck.
     
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  9. Cmv120

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    Pretty rash, but truthful nonetheless.
     
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  10. goodnice

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    Faulty mindset IMO. For most of us, encouraging fapping as healthy- look where that has gotten us
     

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