I'm starting to become ashamed of this community

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  1. Evig Faith

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    I’d hate to see a reasonable voice leave.

    Also, she’s not being a raging Leftist SJW. I know those types, and they’re anything but reasonable. No, there is actual misogyny that occurred here, several times. Numerous threads were made saying how women are below men, and women are only useful for sex. This is misogyny and outright ignorant. To those saying the misogyny accusation is overblown or think it’s a flat-out lie, either don’t explore the forums or haven’t been here long enough.

    That said, these types are an extremely vocal minority. I know many guys here who like women, but it gets exhausting after seeing anti-women sentiment from the vocal few, especially when it’s not addressed.
     
  2. Infrasapiens

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    I know this is pointless but the title reminds me of that woman that said "I am so proud of this community" in that YouTube Rewind.

    But to stay on-topic, is the numbers of bitter red-pill incels increasing in the forums? Yes. But is that enough reason to silence their voices? Yes.

    When you are an angry person, you tend to generalize a lot of things, mostly people. I am sure there is some SJWs saying that some starving child in Africa is just as violent and bloodthirsty as Shao Kahn (I forgot the real life dude's name) only because he is male. This people here, who hate "The left" and SJWs, are doing the exact same thing, as they are probably see @Castielle as an outlet for all their frustration gathered by seeing women doing unfair things to men.

    Dude, she didn't cheated on you, or forced a child to be transgender, or ruined a bussiness by throwing a tantrum or claimed to be raped only to end someone's life. All she did was a thread about mutual respect and commom decency, but apparently you got triggered by that.

    Act like adults, dammit.
     
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  3. Sawako Kuronuma

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    That’s what I don’t understand, the other thread she made was clearly not about men in general and rather, calling out people’s misogynistic behaviour that she’s seen. What does she get in return? Uncivilised blokes foaming at the mouths with serious fucking attitude, as well as hurling insults, but this again had nothing to do with them in the first place so why get so salty about it? They’re making it about themselves, which to me speaks volumes.

    I mean they’re quick to say how “mean” and toxic she is, but you can’t claim something like that when you turn around and personally attack/insult that very same person. Their anger is honestly weird, it’s literally over nothing.
     
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  4. Infrasapiens

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    To be honest, her thread sounds like something a guy would say to a group of SJW women: "Just because a man agrees with or helps a woman doesn't mean he is expecting something sexual in return". Ironic, isn't it?
     
  5. One Mic

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    This. And they are clearly suffering from anger issues. Hell, one user who was involved in that thread just made another one admitting to having anger problems.

    EDIT: Pictures were removed.
     
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  6. Infrasapiens

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    For claiming to do all this in defence of masculinity, they sure act like a group of butthurt whiny little b******. Not a very manly thing to do.
     
  7. Castielle

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    Yeah, my entire thread was actually completely in defense of men. I was literally standing up for men that I see being treated badly. But some people are just too dumb to understand that.
     
  8. Castielle

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    Oh, and loling hard at anyone claiming I'm misandric. lol what a bunch of children. I have literally never posted anything misandric. I've reported a bunch of other people for being misandric, though. Maybe you're thinking of that? You seem a bit confused.
     
  9. need4realchg

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    @Castielle

    I want you to know , in my first few days here in nofap your comments in a thread I made got a gang of women pouncing down on me for being insensitive. You were the first of a few women who stood up and asked them to think instead of being band wagoners. I never said thank you fully but seeing you have made a decision that saddens me to leave I want you to know you were a life-changing gear in my abstinence oath. I am porn free because rejection (in any form) caused me to fumble. Some particularly questionable users that took sadist joy in vicariously punishing sex addicts for the mistakes of their own husbands (it seemed to me ) went unchallenged.

    you challenged the ladies using the “woe is me” card and the sensitivity as a woman you demonstrated helped far more than an impartial moderator ever could.

    I think you are bold and brave and I dare say I have tried to support the underdogs in the forums to be able to share their ideas. Maybe it’s best that you reconsider your comments similar to a trailblazer. Instead of expecting support —-expect that you have to pave the way.

    keep sharing sister.
     
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  10. One Mic

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    @Castielle Agreed with the above, I hope you don't leave either. The internet needs more people that aren't immature. Maybe a break at least?
     
  11. Castielle

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    I appreciate the kind words, thank you. I really didn't make this thread to fish for compliments or anything. Not that it's wrong of you to give them to me, but I just feel like some of the idiots are going to act like I made this thread for attention to get people to try to get me to stay or something. I just want to be clear that isn't the case at all. It's an issue that's important to me, and I wanted to bring it up, so this community can grow and be better.

    I'm not sure if I'll be sticking around or not -- if so, probably just for occasional PMing with friends. But that's not really the point of the thread. The point is to address this issue so we all can be more mindful of how we allow some of this stuff to go unchecked and make a bad name for nofap, and create a community that pushes away reasonable people because they don't want to deal with all this nonsense.

    But nonetheless, I do appreciate the kindness and support, you guys. Thank you!
     
  12. i’m with you.
     
  13. NothingMoreNothingLess

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    Funny isn't it? She made a thread that starts off as labeling folks with a certain ideology as "idiotic misogynists" and hurls labels at folks that disagree with her. (For those who do not know, the thread was basically her calling dudes who use the term "White knight" as idiotic misogynist children) Obviously people are going to disagree with her, and from the looks of the thread the people were more polite than she was with maybe one meme from get_it that was meant as joke. She loses her battle on the thread, which seems very important to some folks on this off topic section, and begins to cry and act victim on this thread claiming misogynists attacked her when nobody did anything bad to her, but disagreed to her opinion. Yet, her little squad clique are attempting to change the narrative as if she did not do anything wrong, and was assaulted by some ravage, foam-filled mouth misogynist men on the internet forum. I mean, really? :rolleyes: I only saw folks on there saying their side of what they think about her statement, with some traditional views. I disagreed with her, but there wasn't really anything "disgusting" or "appalling" written to her. There was no misogyny in there, but she wants there to be so she can censor other's opinions and live in her own bubble. The folks who responded to her popped her bubble and caused her to get angry because reality check: Not everyone is going to agree with your opinion and the world isn't the way you think it is. This is similar to the folks who go on twitter, get into an argument, blocks people with opposing views, and then attempts to live in a little bubble where they are in a false sense of reality. I just think she goes on off topic too much, because every single time I log in (maybe like a dozen times a year) and look at the off topic section, I ALWAYS see an argument with her in it. I feel that going away from social media in general could help a person and clear their mental clutter, and that is what I would recommend to her personally with no joke intended. And honestly, she's the last person to be a moral compass. Should I remind y'all her attempts to defame me with things I never said about friendships between men and women? Yet it was swept under the rug by the moderators probably for the same reason as @SuperPowers mentioned above. They're just not looking for problems like this thread. There's a reason why a lot of the people who I talk to from other sections tell me they avoid the off topic section, because they don't want to get involved with argumentative stuff like this.

    And honestly, I don't wish any ill-fate to anyone fapstronaut I disagree with here. I really want everyone here to succeed with their journey and goals because this is just a large support group where everyone is fighting against PMO. Like I said before: The rules don't have to change. She has to change.
     
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  14. grungeisinfinite

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    Doesn't feel like she knows anything about the D. If she would, she would've been happier.
     
  15. grungeisinfinite

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    Dude, look at you! A female stands up for you!? What the fuck? Now I understand. Her army are just weak men that grew up without a father figure or with weak one.
    Just get your shit together! Don't let a female pick you up and take care of you. If you're a male, you better really be one, not just be a booger and shake everytime somebody touches you.
    Disgusting.
     
  16. One Mic

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    Holy... shit. Dude, what the hell is wrong with you? Not only did you just make these terrible, stupid posts, but you failed to understand that you don't help your opponent make their case.
     
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  17. One Mic

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    Weird, I thought you were going to "leave it at that". I guess not. Nevertheless, I must point out that I was a part of that thread, in fact my post was the very last one before it got deleted as far as I know and nearly everything you've said here is a lie. You got defensive because multiple people disagreed with/called you out for presenting your little diet idea while outright admitting you didn't know much about what you were talking about due to saying you watched one little film, then you were suddenly "meat bad, veggies good". One film. Which was a shit research method and then you later revealed your bias for it which had you lose credibility. In that thread, you claimed to be trying to help people, but refused to prove your questionable claims, also damaging your credibility at the time. The people that disagreed with you being men and women, myself included... yet you only target the OP for the purposes of defamation.

    The "SCREAMING" claim is a lie, there was no screaming since no caps lock was being used, not by you or by anyone else nor was there any tone that would insinuate that, so if you took it as such, this is through your own fault. You just barked orders when the OP called you out, then shot back orders of their own for you doing so in the first place, that's "screaming" for you, apparently. So... using the classic kindergarten statement... you started it. You also admit to skimming it, potentially having you miss context/jump to conclusions on the original post:

    Since the thread was deleted (likely because you were butthurt, you even threatened to delete the thread due to the very mixed response you got on it), I guess I don't have much of a leg to stand on... but neither do you.

    EDIT: Ah, and your vitamin D statement makes no sense as what correlation does knowledge of vitamin D have to do with getting it from the sun? You tried to say that people do not need vitamin D because of the sun. Yes, the sun is a good source. But whether people attempt to access that source is another thing entirely.
     
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  18. Sawako Kuronuma

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    You know, you really shouldn’t have made that anger thread because it not only managed to defame your own self, but any “sympathy” is gone. Just like you said in there, you really are legitimately just a fucking arsehole, the only difference is you can’t use your excuses as a woe is me when you continue to be toxic and degrading.

    You can’t be all edgy and pretend to be the good guy when you’re bloody constantly throwing personal insults, have you lost the plot? Then again that’s all you seem capable of doing, and I assume you’re part of the problem she was talking about seeing as any sane person wouldn’t be lashing out over nothing.
     
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  19. One Mic

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    Seriously, I have never seen anyone shoot themselves in the foot as bad as this guy. Wow.
     
  20. Infrasapiens

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    This explains everything.
     
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