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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by TheApprentice, Mar 15, 2015.

  1. TheApprentice

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    Dont count the days, make the days count
     
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    I had that problem too. Ive had girls completely naked in front of me and still nothing...ive never been so embarassed

    But i think you owed it to yourself and your girl, so no i wouldnt call it a reset
     
  3. TheApprentice

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    Day 7:

    Im feeling stronger and more energized. More focused too. My sleep schedule is messed up though, i didnt wake up until 3pm. Gotta fix that.
    Today was my first day at my new job too. It went pretty well i'd say, and the people seem alright.
    In other news, i checked out a book about personality types that help you identify your strengths and weaknesses and use that knowledge to find the right kind of jobs for you. The results were very interesting. The key thing here is that self awareness is essential for success.

    Love this site and the support im getting, stay strong guys
     
  4. TheApprentice

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    Idk how i missed your post! But yeah i was never one for forums so im still getting used to it.

    I think if you just hop on once a day real quick and let us know how things are going it will help alot. And it wont just help you, but anyone else reading your post thats trying to find the strength to stay dedicated, you know? Its good to know people are going through similar shit and your not completely alone.

    Anyway, 7 days lets do it. I think by now itd be your second or maybe 3rd day with no masturbation
     
  5. TheApprentice

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    Man idk how im missing these posts....
    But the fact that you've been committed to this website and you were actually honest about relapsing is a big step. Make sure you learn from your relapse too.
    Dont give up wazi
     
  6. Musta

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    I like this thread , it's like a mutual journal for multiple fapstronauts . I'll be posting my updates here too .
    I'm at day 4 now and I'm going P free , M free and O free :)
    NO evidence of any urge till now , and I'm feeling great and confident .
    I reached day 10 at my last attempt but it included edging and looking at P ,which caused daily strong urges !
     
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    A mutual journal...i like that. Yeah im trying to create like a family or a team so please do post updates here thatd be great.
    Changing yourself is one of the hardest things you can do and if you look at history, the majority of great achievements would never have been accomplished without a team. You combine these two statements and you realise that even though transforming yourself is a personal journey, having people that got your back and understand your problems will help.
     
  8. Badgerio

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    Hey guys,

    I found today really difficult and I'm not sure why. Had a tremendous urge to undo my laptop adult site protection and look at P! I didn't do it in the end and distracted myself by getting out of the house. Need to stay strong tonight and get back busy at work.
     
  9. Musta

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    lots of people struggle somewhere around day 7 and then it gets easy in about day 10 . So stay focused for a couple of days brother !
     
  10. Musta

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    Yes having people that got your back sure helps a lot :) stay strong brothers !
     
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    Thanks for the advice Musta. Your Avatar is interesting…can you do 100 pushups!?
     
  12. Musta

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    not at one time . I'm doing 20 pushups as max at a time , less if I'm working out with dumbbells too etc.
    But I'm trying to keep it 100 pushups daily :) it helps a lot
     
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    Look at mustas location lol
    "Not in the bathroom anymore"
     
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    Day 8:
    My sleep schedule's still all messed up. Gotta fix that asap
    Besides that im feeling way better. Im starting to develop a habit of running towards any problems or fears i have. Still got a lot of work to do to get me out of this hole im in, but i enjoy it because its what i feel i must do, not what someone is telling me to do or what im "suppose" to do.
    And i look alot better too, i look healthier and more alive, my eyes look brighter, even my dick is lookin better. (probably because its not taking a beating everyday)

    STAY STRONG AND KEEP WORKING GUYS BEFORE YOU KNOW IT WILL PAY OFF IN MORE WAYS THAN YOU CAN IMAGINE
     
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    I use to watch this guy a lot. You may find he's a little eccentric but their is no doubt he is wise and inspiring. Check out his youtube channels. Just search Elliot Hulse on YouTube
     
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    I'm with ya man! I'm just so happy that there are guys in the world like me that are wanting to make themselves better men. None of us are alone in the fight! You guys rock
     
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    Hell yeah man i see your going 3 days strong. Keep at it Collin
     
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    I was so close to relapsing just now! I was sitting their, pants down, typing in a website then something inside of me just said fuck no and i pulled my pants up and put my phone down.

    I read somewhere that there were only great quick decisions, and no great slow decisions. This statement holds true for porn addiction,

    You basically have 2 options once you realize that your about to relapse:
    1. Do it and fuck up your life or,
    2. Stay clean and be The King of your World

    Be conscious of your actions,
    As soon as you find yourself doing the same things you do right before you relapse or as soon as you get that urge. Make the quick decision. 1 or 2..
     
  19. Musta

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    lol it's real though :p
     
  20. Musta

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    I'm 1 hour away from 5 days on the counter (5 days look awesome btw)
    Those 5 days were perfectly clean ! I didn't look at any P or P subs . Besides I'm getting rid of some awful habit which is ; the first thing I do when a girl passes by is to check out her body , it's like a reflection ... my eyes switch from her face ( as soon as it realizes that she is a she ) to other parts of her body with lightning speed . Now I'm training myself not to do that , and I'm making some great progress there ! I'm also training my brain not to think about anything related to P , as soon as it starts a dirty thought I redirect it somewhere else . I know those processes need a lot of time as it is part of our reboot , but they are important things to do ... we are not only getting rid of PMO , we are getting rid of all of the bad traces it left for us .
     

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