Messed up on the 4th of july. New 90 day challenge for anyone who wants to pursue!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by JHue32, Jul 4, 2017.

  1. buck-falance

    buck-falance Fapstronaut

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    Morning all, how's everyone getting on thus far?

    Here's a little motivational quote if anyones having a "hard" time (eyyyyyyyyyyyy):

    "Life is but a series of choices between the right way, and the easy way"

    I'm currently real deep into the motivational videos on youtube. SHIT HELPS MAN.
     
  2. The Peace Warrior

    The Peace Warrior Fapstronaut

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    You go man & inspire others.
     
  3. rafaeloey

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    damn guys! I RELAPSED. I am VERY VERY upset and disappointed rn. today is my day 8 of NoFap and i broke my streak a few minutes ago. this was all my mistakes that brought me to my relapse. i saw too many triggers in this 8 days, and ended up relapsing. this was my fault because i should've not using social media in my first weeks, and i know that it is dangerous. but i was lying and cheating on myself. i also sorry for lying to you guys, i said that i'm gonna make it to 90 days, but i failed. i think by far, this is my highest streak for 2017, because i haven't passed 6 days this year. but im still dissapointed tho, i made a bad start, i didn't commit 100%, and so i used social media (instagram, youtube, etc.) too much, and made myself being aroused by the triggers.

    so, what do i do now? am i still deserve to be in this 90 days thread?

    should i stop using social media at all, even deleting my accounts? cuz i think i should in this case.
     
  4. JHue32

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    Sorry you chose to PM my man. You are still apart of our crew you might hit your 90 days 8 days leter than some of us but thats ok!
    What can you do to fully commit again?

    Usually after I beat it and view porn the next few days i spiral out of control and all i can think about it getting some good ole artificial online tail. This is a good day for all of us to resolve to hit our 90 days.
     
  5. pranav02

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    Feels great lads. I had my morning wood for the first time in too long. However, I was in a class with 40 other people and I was wearing jeans. Luckily people were too occupied lol. Small success.
     
  6. a1c3.77z

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    I'm in.
    I had a no porn streak of 17 days then yesterday I lost it because of fucking Instagram. I felt really stupid.
    Then today I MOed after school and know I feel even more stupid.
    I think it is time to seriously start a streak without PMO so I can finally throw this shitty little habit away.
     
  7. Ali Prins

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    I'm also in general! I failed today but I saw this thread today and I will be with you and strengthen myself and destroy my illness.

    About me: I am 16 and I started to watch porn at 12, I did not know it was wrong so I maturbaited and watched porn for 2 years, I had no feeling off how bad it was and I did. It know the effects. ( too bad..) I began to search if porn was a good thing and if it was bad sin in my religion, yes it really was a bad one and I tried so hard everyday, but I failed day after day and I have struggled since then! I had that one voice in my head when I was 12 that said: Don't do it, it's wrong! But ignorant as I was, I did not listen and that's why I am cursed from then... my record is 34 days!
     
  8. legendaryme

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    Just joined the NoFap community. Looks like I'm 10 days late to this thread, but I'm in.
     
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  10. Brockfoor9

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    I know I'm very late to this. But I would like to join your group guys to help each other. I'm currently on Day 2 after going 4 Days and Then 5 Days no PMO. Anything for support helps!!
     
  11. Person people

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    I'm also late for this but I'll join as well.
     
  12. Donut Never

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    Checking in 15th day. The flat line is real strong right now. Too much going on with my life to even think about porn or fap. I'm helping parents sell house now and my job has me working 10 hours OT a week. I get home and just binge watch shows with wife took next day. Weekend is here though. I struggle the most with weekends. I can do this...just gotta keep being real busy. Already made it 1 day further than my last streak.
     
  13. Brockfoor9

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    You got this bud. I'm looking forward to flatline so my urges won't be so out of control. You're on your way!!!
     
  14. wizard

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    Hey guys, count me in as well! Totally keen to break my personal best. Good luck to everyone! :)
     
  15. wizard

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    I've just started a new job this week! Unlike my previous job where I stood around and walked all day, it's long hours sitting in a chair in an office, looking at a screen. I'm a programmer. The best part is I get home and don't want to use screens as my eyes are so fatigued from the days work.

    Today is the first day I've had an urge for relapse which is why I found it necessary to join this support post.

    I guess incorporating exercise into my new routine will help tremendously with the urges and my general wellbeing and health. So twice a week I'll be running 7-13km before work. And eventually I'll start incorporating gym/weights on other days. I look forward my continual improvement :)
    Thanks guys for your support
     
  16. buck-falance

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    Morning gents (and any ladies who may be lurking)

    Found this little gem this morning. Have a watch if you're feeling a little doubtful; if this mans words don't make you feel something then you must feel as devoid and empty of emotion as I do after a 7-wank power streak staring at a monitor at 4am.

    For reals.



    Also read these. Marcus Aurelius (and stoicism in general) was a brilliant man who knew what was up. https://i.redd.it/9m1qta6y9ugy.jpg

    Let's get it.
     
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  17. The Peace Warrior

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    This is very insightful mahn..
    Thanks for sharing..
     
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  18. buck-falance

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    Happy to help. We in this together.
     
  19. a1c3.77z

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    I fucked up again. Feel drained after masturbating 2 days in a row. Let's restart for good.
     
  20. JHue32

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    Guys its the weekend!
    We all have a little extra free time so get outside, workout, go to an event, enjoy the outdoors, hang with family and friends. This also means we need to be cautious and aware of our feelings and situations because we could just as easily whip out rumpleforeskin and rough him up.
    Anyways whats working for you guys? Accountablity is great for me so far, if youve messed up dont be discoraged because weve all been there. Realize that PMO is a choice you either did or didnt do. Because were all addicts its harder for us to choose the right but together we are stronger. Get back on the bandwagon and keep on trying because youll hit 90 days in 90 days from now.
     

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