My dick feels like it is about to explode..

I can go without it because I'm overstimulated and can't do shit,lol.
You can't watch porn man.That ruins your brain and still does damage.You just gotta stick with it.Sounds like that you're also a sex addict.You don't have to feel like you have to sex every single day of your life.That can lead to a lot of negative things as well.I have a friend like that and he's fucking obsessed with sex and it's all he talks about.Give yourself a break and get to know someone and build RELATIONSHIP with them without it being sexual.After a couple weeks if it gets to that point then have sex but don't let that be the only thing on your mind.Let your body heal man.

 

Stay strong man. I'm 50 days in. I know what you feel. We all feel that. You are having your first test. It's when the urges are screaming at you left and right. (That is the sign you were addicted). There will be other tests. You will feel sore (blue balls). There will be doubts ('why am I doing this, is it worth it'). There will be confusion as your body starts to reboot ('you will get erections and strange dreams'). There will be emotional days ('you will feel sad, and just miss PMO, and feel bored because you used to PMO')

With that, I can tell you this. I was loosing my erections because of PMO. 50 days in and they are back (and getting stronger). I've never been able to climax with a woman 'taking me'. I always had to drive, and push to reach the place of release (50 days in, and it's gotten easier, but not fixed). I felt drawn like a black hole to any attactive woman in close proximity to me. (50 days in, and I can say, eh 'shes ok')

In short, this stuff works. Make sure you have an clear idea of what you wanted to achieve, and remind yourself of that. Because brother, at 42 I can tell you this shit only gets harder to deal with, and NoFap has been my best fix of things I've tried to date.

We are here with you. Stand strong.

 

I would suggest not using Tinder.. Sometimes these dating and matching sites can be considered borderline P-subs because of all the variety of barely dressed women on there. Plus don't you want to get to know someone who you didn't find on the Internet?? Also Tinder can be addicting too if you spend a lot of time on it. That's just my opinion

 

It will pass. I have a mantra I found in someones post here. I love it. I believe in the idea of delayed gratification in dealing with urges and restoring self control. I've had it work with my reboot, and I've had it work for dieting.

Just 10 more seconds, and I can wait a minute
If I can wait a minute, I can wait an hour
If I can wait an hour, I can wait a day
If I can wait a day, then why not a week
If I can wait a week, then why not a month
If I can wait a month, then why not a year
If I can wait a year, then why ever do this again

Just 10 more seconds, and I can be free for ever.

Stay strong, and your world will tune back into a more balanced sexual perspective. It will come to you. But unfortunately there will be some trying days.

Just get through this one first....

 

Not just borderline with P-Sub but also borderline with Porn.
About 5 days ago, I decide to open tinder again after long time, and immediatelly my second swap was real-life porn model who happens to live in the same area. And obviously she linked her instagram with tinder so she could put there more pictures and more then 95% were in lingerie, topless, erotic poses, with legs wide open, and so on. It was more then just p-sub that was pure soft porn.

 

Lol.... NICE?

I've never used tinder. I figured I was a bit too old for that particular app. But sounds like what my friends have told me I could expect if I did.

Instead I was on plentyoffish, match.com, and okCupid. (I didn't get any lingerie matches.)

Instead I got a woman 12 years older than me (and I'm 42).... named something like huggybear. DOH!

I did met my GF on match.com though.

 

You are right man. Tinder is a big trigger. I wouldn't dare go on that app now that I am more than half way through my reboot.

 

Great post!

Also OP, have you been through a flatline yet? It sounds like you might be coming out of one. I started off 40 days on my first try ezpz then whammo came out of my flatline on day 41 and slipped. Its been a constant roller coaster of flatline/no flatline back and forth. But dont give up because like 1974 said, this shit WORKS! My PIED is pretty much non-existent now among the other physiological and psychological benefits!

 

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