My Plan for Valentinsday (if I had my first Date ever and I wasn't broke)

Read how to succeed with women by Louis and Copeland

Then read Atomic Attraction by Christopher Canwell

 

I think you should begin talking to real live breathing women and see what happens.

Keep the loveydovey shit to yourself. That scares them believe it or not.

 

No. Well... No.

You should be aloof and a tad distant. They want to feel like you would protect them.

If you come off too strong. Like your whole life revolves around them they'll see you as a kitty cat and treat you as such.

Be soft obviously but don't be extremely soft.

 

If you have insecurities keep them to yourself until its necessary to talk about them. Actually don't talk about your problems unless you can make them funny or interesting.

Let them talk.

 

Have you thought about asking a girl on a date who is really, really, really unattractive to you?

I guarantee you aren’t so bad looking that at least SOME girl would go on a date with you.

go on a date with a girl you don’t find attractive, and this will help you build confidence

any guy can get a girl… it’s just a lot of times it’s not the girl he truly wants

 

It's really not that hard.

All I'd say is don't just use the unattractive girl. She's a human too just a like you.

Also getting a girl suddenly won't make you happier or a better person.

 

I must ask and highlighted it in red above...this is all your plan for a first date? It's a bit excessive.

You mention that you would meet this girl through online dating. The apps and dating sites, and people with common sense, will tell you to have your first date doing something in public, meet the person there, and plan something that can be done in about an hour, 2 hours max. A couple of examples would be lunch at a restaurant or go bowling. Keeping it short and simple allows you or the other person to get out of there quickly if you're not feeling a connection.

 

I often forget what day Valentine's Day is actually on. Really it's just another day for me.

 

Its really just a stupid nonsensical day

 

Really good for Ben Shapiro and its sponsorizations tho

 

At least you have a plan. Me and my girlfriend don’t celebrate V day, we had a long talk that it wasn’t a real holiday. It’s just a Hallmark Business day and economy booster. Non the less we still surprise each other and care for when either is sick. Society is so run down to make a day out of it we don’t see the kind gestures of surprising and making other days worthwhile.


Oddly enough 2014 was about when I started to meditate, although it was kind of different for me since I was in to Trateka and just raising my awareness… It helped amazingly.. But my social qualities weren’t where so wanted them to be. I was extremely introverted in High School, working also helped in meeting people who didn’t gossip about me around corners. But work also helped me in my journey in conversing with woman.


Do you weight lift at all or exercise? That was a huge improvement with me as well.