Question for the ladies: how do you feel about guys masturbating in moderation? (w/o porn)

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Aaron_0, Feb 18, 2016.

In what situation is it alright for men to masturbate? (without porn)

  1. It is always alright, provided it doesn't affect his normal sexual function

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    26.1%
  2. It is alright if he's horny, but she's unavailable (on vacation, tired, etc.)

    4 vote(s)
    8.7%
  3. It's alright only in a completely sexless relationship

    3 vote(s)
    6.5%
  4. It's alright only if he is single

    3 vote(s)
    6.5%
  5. It's never ok.

    24 vote(s)
    52.2%
  1. Jilloy

    Jilloy Guest

    I perfectly agree with you, that is if we are talking about addicts.

    The question above states "guys" meaning all male people. And not even nearly all guys are porn addicts.

    Why can´t a single, healthy, non-addicted guy M once a week or once a month without pornografic aid.

    Yes you are right it may be a gateway, I haven´t researched about that so I can´t talk about it much, but I do believe that P is inherently way more damaging than M.
     
  2. Strugglesaurus

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    Anyone can if they want to. I said my point of view was that I would not do it and I don't think anyone should. However, I'm not the masturbation police and people can make whatever choices they want.

    As for my opinion of single guys M'ing, as in the general male population... It's a selfish, useless, animalistic act with no logical thought preceding. It's a waste of time. They can direct their energy and time to more productive and valuable activities than touching their own genitals.
     
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  3. Jilloy

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    That masturbation police got me laughing haha, well I commend your willpower and everyone is free to have his or her own opinion. I guess we just have different points of view but that´s alright.
     
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  4. idclip

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    @Strugglesaurus I would agree with you if you weren't so absolutistic with your opinions. Let me quote phoenixrebirth:
    Spoiler might be graphic and trigger people, read at your own risk.
    There have been days where I couldn't walk, or it would cause me utter pain to walk few steps due myself abstaining from M and O by my own choice, for no other reason that I simply "didn't feel like M'ing". My testicles were so swollen and full that even the slightest movement would cause me a lot of pain, M'ing helped me feel better and do my daily activities without impediments.
    With this, I'm not advocating M'ing for anyone: I'm sure it might be disastrous for some of the people here, as (like you said) might trigger a serie of brain pathways that shouldn't be activated, but if the question asked by OP is referred to any male, then I must disagree with you.
    If anything, because I believe that everything is relative, therefore what you described must be, sometimes, non-applicable.
     
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  5. Selfdiscovery

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    Fully agree and true.no doubts in my own experiences what you said.h r u sis?hope good for [email protected] strugglesaurus and brian @sunbro, thanks & best wishes!
     
  6. bodigura

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    its nice when you read female comment about what they think about man, because maybe i am a man :D

    i think M without any goals or you can say M for self-satisfaction is very bad because for me, M for self-satisfaction indicate you in depression condition, and you are depression, you should give yourself a holiday. yea give yourself a holiday is not cheap as you jerking off alone in the room. but its worthed.


    i am building some faith in me that M totally wrong in any occasions, how lonely you are, how the urge you have to fight, whatever the reasons, except you are going to die if you are not jerking off, i hope the woman in this groups will be honest with their feeling about it if they feel not okay with it, so its can help me, to build more high and strong belief that M is totally a wrongdoing~ and i not judge you a bad woman if think its okay. we have each own opinion and the reason.
     

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