Hi everyone! I am not someone in need of NoFap I actually don’t even watch porn at all but my boyfriend I found out has a bad problem with calling escorts repeatedly (multiple escorts a day) waiting for them to pick up or texting multiple escorts all day long. It started it looked like as cam sessions with girls on skype he paid for personal videos or Skype sessions and then escalated into more. With the escorts...I don’t know what was said to them just could see hundreds of text messages a week that’s been going on for over 4 years. He says he paid for pictures or videos from them and some he paid for pictures or videos to see if they were real and some he said he would text to meet up and then not go (he says for various reasons like they didn’t answer or they were too far away) but I can’t help shake the feeling that for four years someone was just addicted to texting them and calling them every day without seeing them. He did admit to going to a massage parlour which he said he didn’t like then he found a kinky masseuse and started seeing her (but why her out of the hundreds of others he contacted) whom when I saw the messages he said she was someone from work until I emailed her and she told me what she was. we broke up after finding out about all of this and he saw an escort for a blow job in the time we were broken up and only admitted it because I saw proof he lied at first said it was a lap dance, then a blowjob with a condom the whole time then he admitted to taking it off and ... on her. All of this just seems to not add up. Has anyone ever constantly texted or called escorts just to fake set something up? Or pay them for picture and videos? It doesn’t seem right. Help please. Trying to understand this lifestyle. He hasn’t talked to or looked up any of them in three months and no porn now for three months as well.