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  1. D

    my streaks always end by me just caving and booking an escort

    I have gone on multiple streaks and usually between the 3-6 month mark i just cant deal with it and end up hiring an escort because nothing i do to improve my life helps with dating or even getting casual hookups the "normal" way. Nofap/semen retention might of assisted me in my journey to...
  2. D

    Don’t know what to do with my life

    This is my story. It will be a lengthy post, but I want to share what's on my mind while being as concise as possible. I am a 40-year-old man who is married with two children. I discovered my sexuality when I was 10-11 years old after finding my father's popular magazines. In my mid-20s, I...
  3. R

    List of Reasons to Get Rid this Addiction

    I was thinking it would be helpful to think about some powerful reasons to eliminate porn, masturbation and escorts. Thinking about this daily helps reinforce reasons I have been working so hard. 1. Get an full ejection when meeting and having sex with traditional woman (not escorts)...
  4. T

    Escort addiction

    Just wanted to create a thread to see how many of you guys struggling with escorts?? Like porn they definitely can become addictive and cause low self worth and depression. Was wandering if people can offer practical advice and support for this?? Thanks for reading
  5. P

    I want to stop this madness

    Hello everyone. I hope you're all doing great. Let me introduce myself: I'm 33 years old and porn is killing me, I masturbate every day and I want to stop it. The most I spent without touching was 2 months, but that seems impossible for me. Here are my 3 BIG problems: 1- I masturbate...
  6. A

    My story

    Hello everyone, this is unexpected for me but I guess it had to happen at some point. I want to start by asking you to please see beyond my actions, which I know some have been wrong, although I am hopeful this is a judgment free zone, so here it goes. It all began like most stories here, as...
  7. D

    Addicted to PMO, escort/review sites,seeing escorts. Can people relate?

    I'm a 26 year old male. I've been using porn since I was 11/12 maybe and was always fascinated by it and the pure shock factor of seeing new genres. I'm been seeing escorts for about 4 years now and the last year have been constantly on the escort websites and review sites planning and...
  8. K

    how many of you here substitute NoFap with escorts?

    I am in the US, so technically this is illegal here. and I am someone who always follows the rules. I mean, the last thing I need rn is to be busted by the undercovers. as if I don't have enough problems in my life. so, I was wondering for all of you guys in Europe where this is legal and even...
  9. C

    Realising Pornography is the Root Cause

    Today marks another day when I relapsed. The feeling of shame and guilt is overpowering and sending me into a spiral of depression. I have been here before, relapsing after 20 weeks of sobriety. My addiction is acting out, usually with escorts. When looking back on my previous relapses there...
  10. G

    Welp. Back at the questions to try and understand the escort thing!

    First of all I want to truly thank all of you for who responded to my last thread and was honest and open with me and some who believed and some who didn’t. My main thing now is what’s been exposed and how it could happen. Recap: Found out ex fiancé was messaging an NO full service erotic...
  11. G

    Questions for men involved with texting/calling escorts

    Hi everyone! I am not someone in need of NoFap I actually don’t even watch porn at all but my boyfriend I found out has a bad problem with calling escorts repeatedly (multiple escorts a day) waiting for them to pick up or texting multiple escorts all day long. It started it looked like as cam...
  12. Monk1415

    Nofap has just made me want to see Escorts

    Hello, 24 yrs old male here, living in the UK, Asian, got a job, I'm a virgin too and have been on nofap for 4 years now. So as a teenager I never once desired to see an escort or even engage in real sex because of pmo, however when I discovered nofap at age 20 I guess that started to change...
  13. S

    Addicted to escorts

    I started seeing escorts when I was 35 and still married. My ex never found out, but I fell in love with an escort while I was going through my divorce. We have a very nice connection and even grew to the point of having unprotected sex. I’m sure I’m just a John to her, but she helped me...
  14. D

    NEED HELP

    Hi long story short i am addicted to ts porn and ts escorts and fapping since 12yo I am currently on my 31st day and thats the longest i ever went without relapsing yet but when i thought i was doing well and these urges and fantasies fade away last 2 or 3 days were extremly hard and ive nearly...
  15. K

    the story i felt i could never tell to anyone in person ever

    Hey everyone its been a long road of PMO, think almost 18yrs of it (im 30) when i was young P was not as accessible as today, the occasion magazine or when the family left the house you had some time to look that stuff up growing up in a catholic school made it very hard to understand why as...
  16. M

    I might have an escort problem...

    Actually it's not that i might have an escort problem, i have it... Had a wet dream tonight, and it really triggered me, this morning i was craving sex so much i couldn't stop me from searching an escort, and i did met one. In my 240 days of no pmo i've been able to never watch porn, but after...
  17. Ji83j

    Severe PIED and zero libido, porn has devastated me, please help

    Hello, I am new here and this is my first post, I know all about the terminology such as pied and edging and pmo through scrolling though things like reddit about this topic but its nice to see a site specifically dedicated to this. I've been addicted to porn since maybe 11 or 12 and I am now...
  18. Feed the Mind

    On Porn and Escorts

    Hello all. I am fighting off both a porn and an escort habit. If you also struggle with an escort habit, you know that the combination of porn and escorts makes the cycle more difficult to escape. At the beginning of this year, I told myself I would stop seeing escorts, I went 60 days...
  19. P

    My plan to approach 100 females

    Brief info about me: I am 31 years old who has never been on a date. I tried online dating and approached 10 girls years back but nothing worked. I decided to see escorts because I needed badly to get in touch with a female body. This has led me to discover that I have a PIED, so I started my...
  20. A

    Lonliness slowly killing me

    Last night I almost used an escort but PMOed instead. I saw many escorts in the last 7 years. It is like living in the dark and having a fake life. No matter how attractive the girl is, I always felt nothing and lonely the following day. I came to realize that it was loneliness and lack of...
  21. P

    Whenver I start nofap...

    Whenever i start nofap i am able to not look at porn or masturbate. but i become a sexual beast. I would do anything for sex and i dont think this is healthy. even start to browse escorts online and have had two escorts already because of nofap. please help
  22. N

    First Thread

    Hi So....it's been a long road. Started early in life with images. Got married at 21 going it wouldn't persist. It only morphed. Eventually visited my first of hundreds of massage parlors then escorts. Lost the marriage when I confessed and couldn't promise to abstain. Divorced. Lost my...
  23. petite_mort

    Shifting from porn addiction to escort browsing: an inquiry into PMO's further corner

    Hello, I haven't posted in a while, I'm often on social media but barely ever on forums as I never quite got used to this form of interaction. I post on the subreddit occasionnally as well under another username. The topic may have been talked about already and I apologise for that, but I...
  24. D

    The Great Escape

    Apologies for my over dramatic title lol, so where do I start??? So I'm now 23, a bit young but old enough to be conscious of my addiction which is taking me day by day. Long story short, I work, attend uni part-time and recently had a son who I must say will be more of an individual talent...
  25. Semaphore

    Porn/Sex addiction and Stigma.

    I've been a porn addict and escort user for 30 plus years. Im a NoFap member and working on ditching the habit. It's tough. We know that. But our addiction, unlike gambling or alcohol is one that is tightly linked to social stigma. "...you what?? you see escorts and jerk off to porn??? Ewww..."...
  26. E

    Tired of Lying About my Problem

    I came to this website for one major reason: I am incapable of controlling my sexual obsessions for pornography and escorts. I have been a regular user of pornography for 12-13 years and for the past four years I have been steadily visiting prostitutes around once or twice a month. My problem is...
  27. V

    Respondents needed for prostitution/paid sex questionnaire

    Hi Everyone, I am a final year undergraduate student and my survey (The Role of Choice: Sex Buyers and the Demand of Trafficked Women - goo.gl/forms/ 2PL9c6rESwlzeIKE2) is part of my dissertation which seeks to understand why men buy sex from women and trafficking. As some of these questions...
  28. milato

    If not porn, i go to escorts

    My problem is that i want immediate stimulus. i stay away from porn but if i do that, i become unnerved because i don't occupy my mind with other activities. I seek out women not just any women, these women from agencies and i end up having a great time, but it's made feel insatiable. As soon as...
  29. internationalcamper

    this is me: quitting porn & quitting paying for sex

    Hello, Almost a year ago I resolved to quit using porn & managed to succeed for over two months. I was worried about impotence & my reliance on pornography for gratification over real life experiences. I was even using porn when I had a partner which really upset her and created all sorts of...
  30. A

    (Sex addiction/Pornography/Escorts) New member my story

    Hi everyone, am a new member on here my aim is to get my life back on track as it has been a little crazy recently. Pornography has always been a problem for me since when I was 14 years old. This fap habit developed into an addiction and it got worse as I got older and led to other worse...
  31. Semaphore

    Hello new world

    Hi Im a fifty-something male who has been a porn and sex addict for about 35 years. I have had an escort habit for about the last 25 years. I have tried specialist therapy, self control, Sex Addicts Anonymous and read numerous books yet still my addiction prevails. I heard about NoFap recently...
  32. M

    Escort and pmo addiction

    Hi All, So all was going well for 10 days , no pmo ,no facebook browsing or even just looking at girls in the street until Friday afternoon came when i decided to have a few beers after work later turning into 20 and all hell breaks loose. I ended up visiting an escort (way too pissed for O...
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