Reboot - 13 day mark - Advice?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Alex Will, Jan 24, 2017.

  1. Alex Will

    Alex Will Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys,

    I'm now 13 days into nofap and things have been going relatively well. I was never really addicted to porn but it was something that I just did everyday since I was in 7th grade and I am now almost 22. My main motivation behind this is that I am just now recently getting over my HOCD struggles and realized that my chronic masturbation and porn use were the main causes of it. The thing that I want most and my main goal of all of this is to gain my overwhelming attraction to girls back. It's been probably a year since my last emotional attraction to a girl and I really miss it and PMO really drowned that out for me but I read stories all the time of people overcoming this and their initial attractions coming back. Don't get me wrong I love and still look at hot girls but I really want the emotional attraction there as well. Has anyone else felt this way? I know this will mostly just take time and whatever urges I get to PMO are usually not too bad as I know that my streak is way too important. Any advice?
     
  2. Alex Will

    Alex Will Fapstronaut

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    My excessive PMO problem also made it difficult to get it up around girls which is my other motivation. I've recently been able to get it up twice and have successful sex twice in the past two weeks or so with two different girls which was awesome. But, I still don't get morning wood and it's hard for me to get it up when I try to imagine sex without any M. I really just want my overwhelming desire to chase girls again and to be confident in my sex game without the fear of losing my erection. Hopefully time will just be able to fix it all.
     
  3. ILoathePorn

    ILoathePorn Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    Just keep going strong. This is a long journey so keep going. It takes time for your brain to reboot and rewire itself. You will get there. Be patient. Stay strong!
     
  4. TheLoneDanger

    TheLoneDanger Fapstronaut

    You've got so much of your life ahead of you! If I would have understood this addiction at your age (I'm 41 now) it would have made my life so much better. Don't wait like I did. Drop this thing and live life!
     
    Last edited: Jan 24, 2017
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