Hi, For years now, I'm asking the same question almost every day : should I stay with my wife or not ? (I'm not asking any of you to decide for me, I'm just asking you to ask me the question that you consider relevant, in order to help see this matter more clearly.) My wife and do not have the same sex drive. I know it's a recurring theme in couples. But I drives me crazy, to the point where I don't even know if my questioning is fully porn-induced or if it's a deal-breaker. We are very stable, we have a house together, and except the sex-drive difference, there are not a lot of big issues in our couple. We listen to each other, we talk a lot, we don't have any taboo and she's fully aware of my addiction. I know I could have sex every day, and can settle for once every two, maybe three, days. Her rhythm is more 1 to 4 times a month. But I don't know if my sex drive is my "real sex drive" or if it's a "porn-influenced sex drive". I have no meaning to know because porn was a part of my life long before my first sexual relation. So for now I wait to see how see question evolve as my NoFap challenge evolves (Full Hard Mode for at least a year). I'm hoping to discover that my natural sex drive in closer to hers, because I don't want to restart my life with someone else. And there is no someone else. And I love her. But I also know that I'm deeply in pain about this difference between us, and that the fact that this is a recurring question saddens me a lot and drags me down. I fear to discover that my sex drive is indeed much higher than hers and that I'll be suffering for the rest of my life, should I decide to stay with her. Fill free to ask any question and to express your opinion freely.