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  1. I

    How sex actually should be

    Our most sacred fluid our semen is not to waste and that's no different in a relationship and sex. If one doesn't have a partner then its smartest to do Semen Retention ofcourse. However, in a relationship I think you can have what I'll call Partner Share Retention. This is to have sex but not...
  2. M

    Is it considered as a relapse?

    Tomorrow I a going to meet my gf after like 3-4 months. So we would be having our private time together. So I wanted to know would if it is considered as a relapse and will slow down my progress in this journey or is it fine to be intimate with my gf and see how it goes for me. I don't think I...
  3. T

    How often do you all married/commited have sex in a week/month/year?

    Just wanted to analyze. Nofap has greatly benefitted and got commited. Both in the honeymoon phase and planning on doing the deed daily at least once .Been a virgin so long that's why asking this Trust me guys, abstain and wait for real sex those who wish to lead a married life. Sex with an...
  4. I

    Relationship problems, lack of sex and sissy fetish

    Hi, let me start by describing myself a bit. I am 23 years old, since I can remember I was attracted to dressing women's clothes, but this fetish did not bother me too much. For 5 years I have been in a relationship with a girl who tolerates seeing me sometimes in women's underwear etc. The...
  5. blacklabel92

    no orgasm

    anyone have experience with non-ejaculating sex? for example, you and your partner are going at it and your focusing solely on their orgasm and not your own. you never get to "finish" when their done finishing. is this also a semen retention practice? non-ejaculating sex? been thinking about...
  6. D

    Should I keep writing down my sexual experiences?

    Some 5 to 6 years ago, my wife told me that when I'm depressed I tend to forget all the great sex we had some days ago. So, in all good intent, I started a sex journal: every time we had a great sexual and loving moment, I wrote briefly the following day what we have done the night before. The...
  7. Salt & Light

    Couples Counselling...any tips?

    Hi all, I decided to get some counselling to help me process and work through my feelings in regard to my BFs PMO/P viewing addiction. So, I went to doc and was referred to a practice of sorts. They have contacted me to suggest my BF accompanies me as there's Couples Counselling...
  8. freejojo

    Reboot for 25 y/o male with addiction since childhood

    Hello Everyone! I hope everyone is having a nice day. I look forward to interacting with all of you and working together towards our common goals. :) I'm currently working as a freelance filmmaker. I started out with porn around the age of 16 - 17 . Of course initially it started with fairly...
  9. T

    My new try.. in GER & ENG

    Hey Community! [GER] Ich habe eben etwas im Internet gestöbert und habe die Vorteile von NoFap gefunden. Da stand auch was von: Man benötigt etwa 90 Tage NoFap ( PMO: Porno, Masturbation, Orgasmus) um das Gehirn neu zu programmieren. Stimmt das?? Ich leide unter frühzeitiger Ejakulation und...
  10. L

    I need your honest advice.

    Hello guys, I'm having a hard time in my personal life and I feel like it will help me a lot if some of you could just give me some of your time to read my story, thank you :) I'm in a relationship since 3 years ago, even thou we're happy together and we love each other I've been feeling my...
  11. B

    Peeked today need advice

    Currently on my longest streak without porn and was finally able to O with my girlfriend. I'm not going to be able to see her for a few weeks and until then I really want to avoid a relapse. I just looked up some Instagram pages of models and didn't pursue it further but I worry that this might...
  12. R

    Not as attracted to my partner since nofap...

    Hello everyone. This is only my 2nd post in this community so i'm still new. Around 2 months ago I started to realize porn was having a negative impact on my life. So I decided to quit. Since than I have relapsed so many times but now, I feel much more confident in being able to stay on nofap...
  13. D

    "Should I stay or should I go ?" (Sex drive edition)

    Hi, For years now, I'm asking the same question almost every day : should I stay with my wife or not ? (I'm not asking any of you to decide for me, I'm just asking you to ask me the question that you consider relevant, in order to help see this matter more clearly.) My wife and do not have...
  14. G

    Recovering from Porn addiction with my couple

    Hi! Im a young 18 years old guy from Argentina, it was an amazing new that this web existed, so here i am! My problem: ED because excesive use of pornography, i personally never thought that this was gonna be a problem (Consuming porn) but now i have realized (and early, thanks god) that isn't...
  15. Blackswan

    Couple therapy

    so... we go couple therapy... but is it helping?? I dnt no... I dnt trust my husband... I dnt feel emotionally there to forgive or forget and I somehow feel I resent him... I dnt even no if I’m even in love with him like I use to be... and I dnt even no if I want to stay in this marriage... so...
  16. C

    In free fall

    Hi! I'm an addict to porn viewing and it's very difficult to my to watch it in a sane way. When i'm connected ( mainly I watch in the net ) it's so difficult to stop. Curiosity has become an addiction and I can't stop to look for one and one and another video. I need to save my couple and...
  17. green lion eating the sun

    Happy when you date someone vs happy with family and friends

    yesterday i had a conversation with a guy ( i am a girl) and basically i told him that it was impossible to feel the kind of explosive happiness when you love the guy/girl you are dating or your husband/wife. this kind of happiness is more rare especially within the 1st year that you still get...
  18. Leonidas_de_Sparte

    Big List of Methods/Exercice to improve Sex Life with your partner - Add Your Ideas/Tricks

    Hi, I am starting a new list ot find all the tools to fight the bad side of P related to Sexual Performance, how to feel something, how to forget about P-dreams, how to listen to the body, how to feel more and get the sensibility of pleasure back! At the beginning of recovery, we know it is...
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