Stuck with sissy pornography

I've read that. But I think people look for questions within themselves but we have to look outside. I'm not saying it is a grand conspiracy and once that stuff is already "liked" by some porn users and they produce their own content it gets rolling. I'm asking about how can porn still remain free? Who pays for all the servers? Who is behind all the propaganda "eat a bunch of pills and become a woman" people? Maybe they are puppets too or as you call them useful idiots.

 

Well on sites with porn like Tumblr and Reddit, where sissy porn is made by users and shared, my guess is the process of making that porn is highly erotic and arousing for the author, so that is their benefit. They aren't some puppet, just a slave to their own desires, just in a different way from us. There are significant sites and forums that proclaim they are scientifically or medically accurate, but for most of these it's easy to see they're just furthering the fantasy and aren't real. It may be confusing to us because watching sissy porn so much blunts our brain to the truth, but people without porn addictions or sexual compulsions would see sites like that, immediately call BS, and just exit out.

If you're talking about propaganda on social media, I wold just ignore that. People on Twitter and Facebook just don't know what they're talking about. Misinformation is flowing everywhere, and everyone says they're an expert. Don't get your news or information from those sources or national news organizations. Their info is meant to make money, not purvey truth, as it used to be.

On porn tube sites, like Pornhub, Xhamster, and bambisleep, those sites generate revenue in two main ways: advertisements and data mining. Companies pay the site when people look at ads, and companies also pay for your data. Those companies can probably see the high impulsivity in those who frequent their sites, and that information is very valuable for companies.

Lastly is the medical field. If you actually look into studies, while it is known that people of different sexual orientations and genders have different types of brains on average, there is still no defining factors that can predict if someone is gay or trans. You can get a probability, but nowhere near certainty. I think it's pretty well accepted nowadays that being gay or bi is totally fine. It's pretty well decided that transgenderism is not a pathology, but why it happens and whether engaging the dysphoric feelings are the best treatment is starting to gain traction. For the last 40ish years, it's been common practice to suggest hormone replacement therapy and gender affirming surgery for those with gender dysphoria. Unfortunately, transgender people who go through these processes still have high rates of depression, suicide, and dissatisfaction in their lives, suggesting the treatment is not ideal (especially for those who are mistakenly diagnosed as transgender and are left sterile and with unwanted cosmetic surgery). With the rise of teenagers and prepubescents asking for and being prescribed hormone therapy and gender affirming surgery and the sharp increase in body dysphoria amongst young people, many in the medical field are starting to doubt whether appeasing the urges of body dysphoria is the right treatment for these individuals. This is facing heavy opposition from groups who strive for trans right because many of them include transgender individuals who found great happiness with their medical procedures, and want the same for others.

I don't think this is some grand conspiracy or plan by some group trying to undermine Western civilization or men. Experts are uncertain about the issue, the masses are too stupid and caught up in politics to think about the issues at hand, and kids are idiots as well. This will probably be just another social movement that will begin to resolve itself in the next few decades. You won't be forced to cut your dick off haha

 

Ok, I am still sceptical. I mean the advertisement is for other porn. I don't believe that the vast majority of people pay for their porn use. Still all the servers are beeing run in multiple countries. This requires some technical and financial analysis. I can't really tell, but this just doesn't feel right.
The Data Mining aspect sounds weird to me aswell. You say they sell knowledge generated out of porn use to e.g. Amazon to offer me my next product X? This sounds pretty insane to me. Can you make an example of what is the "prototype situation" of value generation with Data Mining that came of porn?

 

The sissy porn space feels like the drain of internet porn. Like the little birds of food collecting around my kitchen sink, the stuff linked to the genre includes all the stuff mentioned above. (Racial dominance, FEM Dom, submission, goon, porn addiction, hypnosis, etc). The force beneath this, pulling all this stuff into the drain, is probably the person feeling like they aren't enough, for whatever reason. The center of the whirlpool is you. Feeling like you aren't enough or like you need this as an escape, or that you'll be lonely forever without this, or you're out of control in your life could be driving this.

As people look around for things to bust nuts to, the body will build a tolerance for 'normal' stuff driving a search to find new things. These searches align with the deeper feelings and trigger a few viewings. After that you'll build a tolerance and want to go deeper to get more of an escape, with 'deeper' sometimes involving a new odious form of porn that's adjacent to where you're at as you circle the drain.

Getting out of this whirlpool is going to by plugging the drain, or figuring out why it is you don't think you're enough and realizing that those reasons are crap.

 

what about pirate site? they function in exactly the same way bit nobody is saying it is a big conspiracy.

 

What do you mean by that?

 

Most people don't pay for porn, but there is still a financial transaction happening. There is someone advertising a product, and someone else paying for it. When you use porn websites to look at porn, you are not the consumer, and the product is not porn. The seller is the website owner, but they are not selling porn. They are selling your attention and actions, which is being sold to third party companies. You are the product. The buyer is a company advertising their product or using your data (location, income, age, interests) to sell to someone else.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/zakdof...ng-users-on-major-porn-sites/?sh=6cc284822f7a

https://apps.bostonglobe.com/business/graphics/2018/07/foot-traffic/

https://edu.gcfglobal.org/en/internetsafety/understanding-browser-tracking/1/

https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a29547449/porn-sites-personal-data/

https://www.rightly.co.uk/your-personal-data-explained/blog/how-do-porn-sites-use-my-data/

The Netflix move The Social Dillemna also gets into this, I highly recommend watching. That example you gave about Amazon is 100% true. Not joking at all.

https://phys.org/news/2019-06-amazon-tracking.html

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I would say that all of porn does this to a person, that feeling of not being good enough but from my experience, the porn isn't the main reason why you feel not good enough but instead it's a vessel, a mean that gets you into that comfort zone of that feeling which has been implemented into the person sometime during their life, most probably during their early childhood.
In my case my both parents have been doing it
unconsciously by constant judging and shaming my choices from early childhood.
Also it's important to understand that comfort zone for a person doesn't need to be pleasant, just familiar in a sense that the person gets feelings he's used to get often so they feel known and therefore comfortable to deal with, not to experience. Dealing with them in any other way feels strange and therefore uncomfortable

 

If you feel it isn't right than throw out your sex toys. That simple

 

First of all, stop with bad words(sissy is not appropriate). A therapist would be a big help. I think you're not confortable with your homosexuality. Is nothing wrong with that. Peace

 

Check out some of the resources I've linked to YBOP on my profile page. There is significant evidence of people who abuse porn finding compulsive desires for porn that does not align with their sexuality. Furthermore, many men who watch sissy porn get addicted, and since much of sissy porn deals with fantasy and role-play, it can be very confusing for abusers since the line between fantasy and reality is not clear.

People that find themselves watching sissy porn all the time even though it makes them feel embarrassed or humiliated should stop, do a reboot, rewire a bit, and then do some introspection on their desires. Abusing sissy porn is often coupled feelings of immasculinity, lack of sexual/romantic experience, and isolation/loneliness.

 

Maybe ponder what it is about these toys that you like. Figure it out. Then think about how it damages you. Once you see the damage is greater than the reward you'll have an easy time quitting.

 

The only reason you are even having a problem watching this stuff is that watching more screwed up porn videos creates anxiety in your mind and then mix that with sexual chemicals in your body and you are just escalating yourself into more and more messed up stuff.

All this distortion will fade away as soon as you stop watching porn.

it’s that simple

 

In my case, it's also the opposite: when i fell anxious i get urge to watch porn. It's like trying to get fixed by getting high but instead it just makes me nervous and more anxious and wanting to watch even more. Short closed circle of self destruction and the only way to fully exit the circle is to reboot and have good sex with the other person. Having the O from real person is from my experience is way different type of O than doing it by yourself and it breaks the circle completely and is only true cure

 

I agree that having the O with a real person can break the circle and cure it. It is very helpful. I think a completely single man can still achieve a full reboot though. It would be harder, but I think it’s possible, or at least I hope it is