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Tempted into buying sex

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by GoldenExp2020, Sep 30, 2019.

  1. Homelander

    Homelander Fapstronaut

    Yes that's also my current plan with my Tinder matches, but I have no desire to go into a serious relationship right now or make someone pregnant again.

    I have often gotten into big problems were girls fell head of heals in love with me whilst I just wanted casual sex.
    I'm not that guy that can have sex with them and dump them, so seeing an escort without binging will work for me.
    It totally depends on my own mindset and the escort. I prefer escorts that supply a GFE. Considering my 90 day nofap this is allowed.
     
  2. Blade-rnr

    Blade-rnr Fapstronaut

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    Stop suggesting this, it's bad advice and feeds into sex addiction. And that's not even mentioning the immorality of it.
     
  3. Homelander

    Homelander Fapstronaut

    Stop suggesting what exactly?
    We are not here to tell other people to do 100% right, like some sort of church.
    It all about honesty and accepting yourself and your urges.

    Yes, visiting escorts in general would be ill-advised.
    However, If someone is single and has little prospect of meeting a woman anytime soon, then I don't see much wrong in occasionally
    having GFE sex with an escort. Making love with a real woman is one of our basic human needs, just don't go crazy and set up some
    predefined limits and a budget.
    Because what is the alternative for men that are alone? You can't just expect men to keep living this sexless nofap lifestyle like a priest
    and then crash into a binge after a long streak.

    I'm just giving my current insights and what works for me might not work for everybody.
    I haven't visited an escort in 1.5 years now mainly because of my financial situation.
    But, I'm sexting with a woman I met on Tinder and will meet up with her soon for romance if I feel connected to her.
    Nothing beats spending an evening, night and morning with a loving woman.
    Again, this is my own opinion on the matter of escorts.
     
    Last edited: Nov 6, 2019
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