Checking in day 72. In peace with world and my body and memories about my ex'es and enjoying spring Reg that question about triggers - I think men are more into visuals and women-oriented so they get triggered easily and we women are not only triggered by men but also by their bodies, their body odour or perfume (this is one of the greatest triggers for me these days) etc and also we subconsciously compare ourselves to other girls with whom these guys interact. This is reinforced by diet industry, beauty industry etc. As in porn - when we watch porn our brain thinks that we have to look like these girls, f*uck like these girls in order to have this dream guy and live then happily ever after there's no relationship in porn of course, just animal type mating, but we women seek connection and stability with some man in the future. So we direct all efforts at ourselves. Whereas men objectify women. Our brain are wired differently.