So I'm a college student (British colleges are different) and I was talking to another student outside of my music class. She asked me a bunch of intrusive questions. She asked me "If I have a girlfriend" I said no but I've had one in the past. She asked "do you watch porn?" I said not any more. She scoffed Have you even kissed a girl? I said no Then this part kinda pissed me off... She asked "are you a virgin? I said yes... she continued with "oh so you're gay?" That really pissed me off. Not because I was called gay but the level of ignorance this person has. Being a virgin doesn't make you gay. Has anyone else had something like this?
What an amazingly rude person! I hope you are not forced to see her often as she sounds like a nightmare. I can remember these intrusive questions espeically about losing my virginity which is a word I always hated - usually they came from other guys though. Not from girls.
At one time I was single for 3 years and people asked me if I turned gay. It seems like you have to have a steady girlfriend (or wife) at all times just to prove to people that you’re not gay. People are ignorant.
Yes. It’s something I’ve enounteted more and more since I’ve decided to wait until marriage. One of my friends used to call me gay but now agrees with my decision to wait. I’ve had a couple of women call me gay when I wouldn’t sleep with them. Apparently they’ve never been told no before, which doesn’t surprise me when men are expected to be brainless pussy chasing puppets.
No I'm not forced to see her but I see her often though but I just won't talk to her. But yeah it seems I'm not the only one.
She sounds absurdly intrusive and ignorant. I'm 31 and still a virgin and I'm definitely a heterosexual male. Stay on track with your personal life goals and acknowledge the fact that toxic people like her are really there to challenge your foothold. Never relent! Regards, Pat-rick
Exactly! I've not been in many relationships, throughout secondary school (11-16) I never dated anyone and people assumed I was gay and again same with my story here. Being on your own doesn't make you like the same sex as you, that's just dumb.
It takes a real man to turn down sex. I've done it once and luckily nothing bad came of it. But yes if people don't respect your decision that they are not worth your time.
I think it takes more than not having a girlfriend. At 21 I've never had a girlfriend and only been on one date and no one's ever said are you gay now? Is there anything about your clothing, mannerisms, or hobbies that could be seen as gay?
Just like how people say there's a billion genders, apparently there's a billion ways to be gay without actually liking men (which people these days think is just a mere social construct; biology's just a lie). 2017 is confusing.
I mean outside of this subject I've been called gay because I'm very respectful, flamboyant and in tune with my feminine side. I dress pretty masculine and I don't lets say "walk weird" or anything.
Just tell them 'no' and you will be fine. Many of the guys who do not date girls, and do not talk about girls are closeted-gay but I think most are not. That was actually ignorant of her but remember some people just blurt out whatever they think unexpectedly.
It's possible that people are seeing you're feminine/flamboyant side as gay. That would be my best guess.
Being called gay should not be a criticism anyway - although it is in many places - it should be no more offensive than asking if someone likes pineapple on their pizza. It would be easy if everyone had exactly the same sexuality - but they don't and everyone should just accept this. BTW - nothing wrong with being a virgin either - some people like to take their time and get it right.
Tell her to fuck off and mind her own business...she's rude and nosey If you aren't confrontational ignore her..she needs to be put in her place by someone though...what an annoying cow
I personally don't see being called gay offensive or a criticism but y'know from one thing in my life that jumps to a conclusion of my sexuality is ludicrous.
