When will porn induced sexual fetishes go away?

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faiz ahmed

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Hi,I'm 17 years old now and....I have been fapping to porn for almost 3-4 years now.I've hated myself for this period in its entirety.But one thing I have observed in this period of time ,was that my sexual tastes changed from time to time.I first started of with softcore then leading into more hardcore & voluptuous women, then into BBW's and then, into BDSM and female domination videos and, now lately I've been aroused & have been fapping to videos of cuckoldry.I hate myself more than ever before and feel like killing myself. Although I start feeling like "this is hot" when I'm aroused but after everything, I regret my actions sooo much..., and have even wanted to die. Will these fetishes go away with time?
 
faiz ahmed said:
Will these fetishes go away with time?
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Short answer is: Yes! Eventually they'll go away.

Little bit longer answer: Everyone requires different lengths of rebooting, so it's impossible to say how long it's gonna take on you. In most cases (myself included) basic 90-day reboot is all you need, but many has got rid off their porn induced fetishes much quicker.
I strongly suggest joining some easy challenges to get you going. I myself started with this [7-day challenge] and once finished, I moved to 14-, 21 and 30-day challenges. It's easier to complete your reboot when you split it into smaller pieces and gamify it, so you can conquer it one little piece at a time.

This is a battle of will and you will be stronger than your urges. I have full believe in you Brother.
Just stay strong and away from porn!

- Mike
 
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Nobody know how long it will take, but these porn induced changed tastes will go away in time. You're very young, and if you keep away from porn they'll be gone before you know it.
 
Yeah, challenges can really help a lot of people. I'm undertaking the 30-day one at present, but I jumped in the deep end there. Learn what your boundaries are and push them.

As for your particular case, I'll be like everyone else and say that everyone is different. Give yourself a 90-day reboot, and if it takes longer then it takes longer. Trust me, you'll thank yourself in 90 days that you did it.

You've got this.
 
I’m going to say something that you might not like to read, the short form is that they never entirely go away.

They can fade but it’s like an alcoholic. One drop of alcohol can lead to full blown relapse.

I used to be into fetish related things too, I won’t mention them because they could be triggers but some of the things you mentioned I was into also.

Now I have a girlfriend and I consider myself healed entirely after 1 year of battling, I can bet you anything in the world that if I looked up those fetishes again I will get erect. That’s why it’s important to never look at that stuff again.

It’s been over 1 year for me, what can go away is your desire to ever look at that stuff, but if you do look at that stuff don’t be surprised if it brings back a rush of arousal to it.
 
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