Hi guys Today I have achieved my first ever 30 days in my life! I started nofap journey in January 2018 and have done some streaks 20-19-14-11-10-8-7 days, so my record before this one was 20 days. I have been addicted to porn for 24 years and I have 2 very strong fetishes Spoiler feet fetish and anal fetish (women of course) Before I started nofap I used to watch porn 5-6 hours a day and fap 2-3 times a day. It was my medicine for loneliness, emptiness, inner traumatic pain from my childhood emotional deprivation and missing self-love. I used to fail all the time and never thought I can achieve this. Many times I was crying, feeling like it is the lowest point of my life and I am not capable. But I always got up and keep walking the journey even though I didn't believe in myself as porn was stronger than my mind. I always had to build new momentum to start the count again and again. And here I am today. You can do it too my friends. I am not going to speak about benefits at the moment as flatline hits me hard but I just wanted to tell you guys (the ones who haven't reached 30 days yet) You can achieve it. I am telling you. I was at my lowest and I was crying feeling like the biggest loser. Now I have shown to myself that I CAN. My next goal is 50 days and the next one is 90 days of hard mode. Stay strong brothers and sisters. I want to thank you, all the great people they are helping me with lovely messages and support to keep my mind focused. What an amazing community here! Once, when we are going to be strong and successful with our lives we are going to have this great page in our minds as a part of a very important life stage. Good luck to you all.
Thank you for sharing this, bro. I needed it so much, I've never reached 30 days and yesterday started my one more try.
Haha Congratulations for your 30 days man i just reached mine today too(add 1 day to my counter automatically) and the depression is hitting me really hard. But nonetheless i'm happy that i was able to reach this first milestone not so long ago i was really at the bottom. Let's stay strong and continue to the next step 60 days
I agree with SirErnest. Give yourself 1,000 more tries if you need them. Just don't give up. You can do this. I failed at hitting 30 for a couple of years or if I hit once or twice, I relapsed right after. But I kept trying and now I'm close to 90. You can do this. One more try everytime you need one more try.
Hey 4D Creator I have, by some miracle, reached 38 days on my counter. Your words are very encouraging as right this moment I am away with my wife for a weekend, and she just "does not feel like sex". It's the usual story and I almost turned to M, but decided to log in to NoFap and found your post. I can do this!!
Great job! I'm on day 29, only one day left. But I have a question.. What after I finish 30 days? I will be honest that I can not endure any more, thoughts kill me so hard!
Learn more skills so as to make it not simply a struggle against something. Well done on a whole month! Most people seem to find significant benefits with three months.