daily check in @ichdiegross12345.. How are you man I didn't have seen you since the beginning of our battle
I read this and I thought my team mate is starting his beast tour here Checking in, great day, energy at its peak and all eyes on me
@EquitableMove I am on day 2 now. No real urges so far. The start is easy now. Lets see how long it will last. This time I want not to lose!
Assalaamu 'alaikum, checking in @Saiyan123 for day 7, alhamdulillah. @Halibut Where you at, rival? We haven't reached day infinity, remember?
Great going ... Don't worry about the hard days they will pass.... You may have depression attacks and anxiety but you have to fight through it .. You are capable and a good fighter .. 23 days are amazing just 7 days more to complete first milestone of 30 days... Keep your prayers and seek help from allah.... You will win in sha Allah
Thanks, brother @CoolBuddy7 ,It means a lot to me. Thanks, I get your point, We anxious introvert prefer chatting and it's true it keeps us closed, Well, in the beginning, I never expected a mere online friendship will influence my life this much, more than a real person. Well, I've not been to any close friendship in the past. hmm well, thanks for all of you for your concerns, Perhaps I need to learn self-love. I realized people change when time change or situation change. Probably we should not give too much importance to a single person as with that we are giving them the power to affect our lives at any moment.
duel against @llortaton instead, he is very inactive your current opponent. llortaton is a formidable opponent.
So, I've got a question. Why do we keep going back to PMO, when we already know that it is not worth our time, effort, and Energy ? Why do we try to do that, when we know that It's not going to solve any of our Problems ? Why do we still do it, even when we know, that it is not going to be a pleasant post-activity experience ? Why do we continue to do PMO, even when we know that it's bad, unhealthy or an unwise thing to do ? We all know the aftermath of PMO. The post-activity grief. Still we are convinced into doing it. Why is that so ? Why are we continuing to do this, when we already know it's consequences ? Why are we doing this, even after deciding to Quit this ? Does this mean that we didn't really mean to quit ? But, I think I do want to quit this addiction !
Because, it's nothing new to us. We've relapsed so much, now it's normal, to sit there, in regret. Like, when you climax your face is like this but after climax, it's more like this
It's definitely not something new, and neither is the grief after a PMO session. Why do we prioritize that instant gratification, over our decision to help ourselves long term ?