@HiddenWarrior I relapsed a month ago, my apologies for not coming back to the site after that, to inform you; I'm truly sorry. @A Naija boy , you win congrats dude!
Maybe I used the wrong way to tag you. When I type `@` no names are popping up, so I have to copy your name to tag you. Thanks for your suggestion I will try to develop an in-person relationship. Check in, I am still standing.
@Dominikfhj how ya doin'? day 2 here.Your advice is working. Also I blocked internet for the hours I am most probable to relapse, in addition to the blocking software.
quoting me works well. Relationships are promoted for the fantasy part. However, we need people in our life. Media is selling fantasies.
Yes I agree with you. I think one benefit NoFap is bringing me is that it tries to stop me from being a coward behind the screen. Once I made a promise to myself of NoFap, the urges push me to get what I want in real life instead of just falling into fantasies. It keeps telling me that if you want women and sex then try your best to get them, if you want money/big house/nice cars try your best to learn something to earn them, if you want career success just sit down and work hard. I have been a coward for a long time, watching the fancy lives others are living on YouTube, Tiktok, XxxxHub... And I was just jealous and hoped I will live a life like that one day. But that jealousy only stops in imagine, no action is taken. But now, with the promise of no PMO to myself, I want to fight hard to gain what I want. Brothers, let's keep the promises we claimed to ourselves, and become a strong man in real life!
And, when you see Light Yagami and L are with you, working together toward the same goal, you know that we all will succeed because no one can stop us.
Don’t lose your fighting spirit. Get back up. Try to analyze what went wrong and come up with a plan to prevent it in the future. I hope things go well. Stay Strong.
Check in! @Still Balling. Today I asked a girl on Tinder whether she wants to grab a drink sometimes and she agrees! Even though I almost have 0 dating experience and she is not that beautiful, but she is real! In this sense, she is much better than the pxxn stars in videos. That's definitely a milestone!!! I don't know where should we go and what to do, any suggestions?
@GotCaught Not good. I haven't felt this bad in a long time. Edit: Okay I need to get a grip (no pun intended). I'll at least get to the five days so we can conclude this.
By real I meant real life. No tinder. Though, have a drink. Zero expectations. Just drink some and tell her you appreciate her coming.