I've restarted again. The point is that i want to masturbate and have no regregts of doing it. Don't know what to do. I am starting again hope I'll figure out. Bless you all and good luck.
Today is day 65...I'm not entirely sure if I'm following the rules of this challenge...I have abstained from porn for an undetermined amount of time now and have lived the last 65 days without masturbating or orgasming...I haven't been posting my day count continuously on this thread though...
good news, i found out that , if i feel so horny today, back then i thought, if i don't do anything today, tomorrow will be the same, BUT its not the case, yes, you still feel a bit, but you feel more relaxed and in control, if you want you can easily control it and get over it. oh boy it is getting hard bros i tell you...it was easy at the beginning till few days ago, and now... it is on, prey for me and keep fighting on your own battle, we will win this shit!
That's a tough one. I completely understand though. You have to understand why you want to stop. You are here. So you must regret it in some sense, or want to stop. Why is that? What are the negatives of PMO and what are the benefits of stopping? But don't just repeat what you hear others say. Why is it important to you? If you don't know that's fine. Just be honest. I stopped because I reached a real low. Lowest I've ever been in some ways. I felt like it wasn't in my control. I had a real motivation to stop. Since then my 'low' is becoming an increasingly distant memory and I do ask myself why I'm doing this. But after realising I have the ability to come this far, and listening to the urges I have, and letting them pass, I realise they are not important, they do not benefit me and they damage me. I should not have these urges for PMO. Real 'relations' (to avoid anything more triggering) are natural and important. But PMO is a con. You are worth so much more to yourself and you deserve so much more.
Day 14 done. From yesterday's post you'll see day 13 was difficult. Day 14 was not. Urges and passions pass, it's true.
Its my day 7 without pmo and yesterday I had a great urge but somehow I maintained that and I was win.