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  1. honeycrisp

    My Fetish Is Ruining My Friendships

    I have had a pantsing fetish for as long as I can remember. I know it sounds unusual. It is. All of my sexual attraction is centered around women in their underwear. To be clear, that is not a "panty fetish" where you steal girls' used underwear. I find that problematic. Rather, I am attracted...
  2. S

    How do I conquer my cosplay kink?

    I’ve been trying to quit porn for the last 32 days. So far so good. I haven’t watched any porn. But I noticed that every-time I see cosplayer or a cosplay video I get super horny and get tempted to watch porn. My girlfriend isn’t into that stuff and she would never do anything like that. I don’t...
  3. Sondae

    Is it Cheating or Weird Behavior?

    I made a thread in this forum yesterday about how I may have cheated on my girlfriend. However, I want to know if what I did actually constitutes cheating or if it was just a weird thing that I should not have done. The basic run down is that I have a pantsing fetish. I met up with a girl I've...
  4. T

    Day 91. Here's how and why I got here.

    So I haven't posted yet, this is actually my first post. And I'm so proud that it is. So this is also an intro post, so buckle in, it's a long one. Background: 27 y/o, in a committed 3 year relationship, and kinky individual having dabbled in nonmonogamy prior to. I am one of those who has gone...
  5. I

    I don't want to be a loser

    Hi everyone. I almost don’t believe this would work, but I want to share here, I hope I can meet people who understand. I am gay, and I have been into humiliation kink since I was 13, which led me here, at 24yo, with incontrollable masturbation habit and porn consumption, findom and other...
  6. Sondae

    Why Inaccessible Fetishes Are The Most Dangerous

    This will be an incredibly awkward conversation, especially for me. Fetishes. Everyone has them. Some are vanilla, some are niche. No matter what you're into, you've likely spent a few hours of your life searching for content relating to it. Some of us are fortunate enough to have an...
  7. A

    Wrist watch kink

    For a long time now, I am somehow attracted to watches, especially women wearing ones. I started masturbating while wearing watches, but it got to a point where vanilla images or vanilla porn doesn't work anymore. I unconsciously scan women's wrists for watches and get aroused, even if I don't...
  8. S

    Does anyone here have a wrestling fetish , did you overcome it ?

    I have had this fetish since I was a teenager till about now (I’m now 30). I don’t want to trigger anyone I’m just going to explain what it is . I like to wrestle, usually fit, athletic escorts and sex workers . I never really watched any “vanilla porn”, I just watched these erotic wrestling...
  9. Wayne_Kerr

    Will 'NoFap' cure my kinks? (I don't get aroused from normal porn)

    Hey All, I'm in a bad situation. My porn addiction led me down the long path of more extreme stuff (as most of you know). Basically I'm at the point now where I dabbled in Findom/Domme kink and now I find nothing else really arouses me. I can watch porn and not get a boner. I can see girls and...
  10. F

    Have you been in a relationship with a kinky person?

    How it went? How much of a problem it was?
  11. 4:30am

    Too much focus on crazy sex?

    Hi everyone, I have been going very well and last week I met this girl, a really pretty and good natured girl. She has never actually seen porn and though she's had sex before, she talked about it with the typical dissapointment and droll you often hear. I decided to tell her about the effects...
  12. R

    porn because of my fetish :(

    hey all not sure about you - but i feel the reason i use porn is because i won't find any men that would indulge in my foot fetish in a longer term relationship or arrangement - it's so heartbreaking for me, having a foot fetish brings me great pleasure and i enjoy it - but sadly, i feel like...
  13. D

    findom and humiliation *possible triggers*

    So once again I'm on the NoFap trend, however mt biggest addictions revolve around what makes me feel powerless or weak. It's a continuous thing really because I pay extremely attractive women I have no chance with, then my bad feelings about myself kick in about how I will never find anyone...
  14. plucpj

    Am I Addicted to Porn or Denying My Kink

    Hello everyone, I have been mostly porn free since around May with two slip ups. But I am beginning to question whether I was addicted to porn in the first place or if I am denying my kink. I have always been into women that were well endowed in the chest, as long as I can remember that has been...
  15. J

    my fantasies scare me

    I’ve been watching porn since i was a preteen and over the past few years it’s been constant. at least once a day, sometimes three times or more, it comes in the way of all my activities, takes up all my time, i’ve been late to work or school, it’s gone from a coping mechanism to an addiction...
  16. dogeatdog

    Is Femdom Really Wrong?

    Hey guys, I see quite often that people detest femdom as an awful thing caused by excessive PMO. While I'm not denying the fact that I have overstimulated my younger self with PMO, I have never really shunned the idea of a female "dominating" me in a sexual manner and have always been...
  17. D

    Guys let’s make it clear

    Hello guys! I would like to ask you a questions and i have hope that everyone will answer for this thread. 1- did your sexual preferences change duo to the addiction? 2- questioning your idenity? 3- ways to recover as fast as possible? 4- you find girls so attractive after how many days of...
  18. D

    Not quite sure where to post this put I did something problematic today

    I haven't fapped or looked at porn for a while now, but today I decided to go onto a forum related to a sexual kink that I have, I tried not to look at any of the actual images there, and just wanted to look at what other people with the kink were talking about but now I feel kind of guilty...
  19. Avenger21

    Are Fetishes/Kinks ever really "Porn Induced?"

    I joined this site almost a year ago and with not much porgress. I havent even made it a week. I have a sort of problem with my fetishes. I made a post before about it when I first came here and I was in distress mainly with OCD issues. But now in recent times, I somewhat found peace with this...
  20. L

    I need your honest advice.

    Hello guys, I'm having a hard time in my personal life and I feel like it will help me a lot if some of you could just give me some of your time to read my story, thank you :) I'm in a relationship since 3 years ago, even thou we're happy together and we love each other I've been feeling my...
  21. N

    Starting my reboot today

    Hi everyone, my name is nick and i am a college student. Porn addiction has led me to completely screw up my 3 years of college and i really want to recover from it now and i hope i do. I did try to quit porn before but i slipped back into it everytime. My porn addiction has worsen because i...
  22. D

    Am I Asexual? How do I know if I am on flatline? Porn in my dreams? In Need of Advice

    Alright so I've been NoFap for around 2-3 months now. I've done a lot of research into this; however, I feel my situation is relatively unique and specific; consequently, I haven't been able to find a lot of consistent information that pertains to my issue. Let me start with a general...
  23. Fucfemdom

    Will I truly recover?

    I'm 23 y.o and have had a life rich of porn and sexual encounters. My porn journey evolved into only watching femdom, and then into browsing FetLife to make my fantasies a reality. I've been with regular girls and had regular sex, but only 6/10 times I'd have a full erection. But what I was...
  24. S

    20 years old

    Hello, I just turned 20 and I have been having trouble with my sex life. I have always had something for male bodies since I was young and that included their feet. Feet always turned me on but so did the rest of the body, beards, lips, chest, arms, legs, genitals, buttocks... but after spending...
  25. G

    Ashamed of wanting to be dominant

    All my life I've been expected to be the nice gentle giant. Now, I've got no problem with being a kind person, but I can't hide the truth from myself any longer: I love the thought of being in control in the bedroom, lusted after by other people, and respected and dominant in the larger world. I...
  26. E

    New, strange question/interest

    Honestly i just came across this site a couple days ago. I didn’t even know this was a thing until then. I am posting here because i am curious as to what people think about where i am on it. See, i already have been kind of living the NoFap lifestyle before i stumbled upon this site, but for...
  27. E

    Thoughts from a kinkster

    Honestly i just came across this site a couple days ago. I didn’t even know this was a thing until then. I am posting here because i am curious as to what people think about where i am on it. See, i already have been kind of living the NoFap lifestyle before i stumbled upon this site, but for...
  28. D

    Working out my many issues

    Hello everyone. I'm a 17 year old boy, going on 18, and I am currently trying wrestling with a couple different issues from porn, fetishism/kinks, and the dualities in my life caused by them. I started masturbating when I was around 5 or so, and masturbated every night up until last year. This...
  29. bluestars

    Looking to improve myself, but I only want to stop watching porn & masturbating.

    Hi, I'm M! I'm new to the community but I've been wanting to do this for a long time. I have a porn and masturbation fixation. My father committed suicide the first week of March 2017, and as his only daughter, I have been dealing with his estate. It has made me realize that if I continue...
  30. Tripp2

    TRIGGER WARNING: KINK MENTION (Eproctophilia)

    So im new to this. And as part of it, I feel like I need to be open about something thats always filled me with a great deal of shame and embarrassment if its actually going to work. Its the nature of my kink. Its kind of a big step for me because I've only ever revealed it to two of my...
  31. M3D!C

    Hello world

    Hey guys I'm M3D!C. And I'm tired of actually tired of masturbating wasting time and being unmotivated. and this is years of the same routine. I later on used masturbation+porn to help put me to sleep, alleviate headaches, and relax from stress. And really i found this place form watching...
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