pornography

  1. onceaking

    Pete The Porno Puppet

    Does anyone remember him? There are still videos of him up on YouTube.
  2. D

    Question About Consuming Suggestive Content

    This is about suggestive content (not necessarily porn). How significant of a setback is it to "peek" or consume suggestive content during a period of abstinence from p/m/o? Specifically, I'm inquiring about anything from pics of bikini models (on Instagram, for example) to artistic nudes such...
  3. V

    Very new here, found an interesting video

    I just stumbled upon this video and think it's really great and clear (don't be deterred by the uproar creating title): I'm not familiar with other (and current) content of the channel, I just wanted to share this one video. While hearing about nofap and acknowledging i've got a problem with...
  4. ReversedHermitIX

    Disassociate P from sexualised media?

    Good day everyone! I would like to discuss a topic that's been on my mind and gather some thoughts on this. Sexual Content (that is NOT Pornography) Lets talk about these things. Here are some examples. Sexy/attractive women in media (such as advertisements) Things that turn you on such as...
  5. D

    Internet in Remote Cultures

    I have seen a few news articles recently about the effort to connect remote communities and cultures to the Internet. Often the subject of the discussion is Musk's 'Starlink' system which is supposed to be able to connect any location on the planet. Something that is not commented on is the...
  6. innermanchild

    Quitting Porn Is The Rite Of Passage For The Modern Man

    Cool clip I came across on YouTube by a guy named Mark Queppet. Here's a summary of the main point, followed by the transcript. When men go through this process, popularly called “reboot,” they experience a huge number of positive side effects that go beyond just the realm of sexual health...
  7. D

    How Pornography Effects The Brain

    NEMO REPENTE FUIT TURPISSIMUS “No one became extremely wicked all at once.” — Juvenal, Satires The aim of this essay is a controversial one: to provide evidence in support of the thesis that porn addiction, especially when accompanied by compulsive masturbation over a long period, alters brain...
  8. D

    How Pornography & Drugs Changes Your Brain

    Knowledge is power: https://salvomag.com/article/salvo13/slave-master
  9. Velox X

    I start today: Day Zero - Lets go

    Hello, I am new to this community, I just joined. I have been addicted to porn since I was 11. I am now in a relationship with my partner, we are married, and Porn has taken a tole on our relationship. My partner used to normalize porn, like many of us have. Until, they did more research and...
  10. B

    What they dont say..

    Psychiatrist Norman Doidge explains: "Pornography satisfies every one of the prerequisites for neuroplastic change. When pornographers boast that they are pushing the envelope by introducing new, harder themes, what they don’t say is that they must, because their customers are building up a...
  11. F

    What counts as pornography?

    New member (as of today). I've been using porn sites (with masturbation) regularly for the past 15 years. This has progressively got worse, in that I enjoyed it less, felt compelled to do it more, couldn't stop and felt depressed. Realizing that this wasn't healthy I successfully managed to...
  12. W

    Porn Is Misogyny

    r/PornIsMisogyny is a page on Reddit devoted to combatting the prevalence of pornography in our society. Their sidebar description as of November 2020 currently states: This is a subreddit to raise awareness about the misogynistic nature of pornography. We want to raise awareness of the evils...
  13. D

    Kill Switch: The idea to end anything quickly and irreversibly

    About the idea: Kill Switch It would be an online service (a "website" if you will) where you can sign up using a username, password, email and phone number. The user dashboard consists of toggles that can be locked for any amount of time, besides the usual fields to change your information...
  14. Struggling-Otter

    The widespread normalisation of porn is rotting men since they're boys.

    I hate it. It's been creating a drift between men and women. And it's so sad and frustrating that most men learn to objectify women since a very early age, we accept it and move on. It's so unfortunate how sex is present in everything and porn became so normalised. It's a really awkward...
  15. L

    Male entitlement and how it leads to pornography use

    Men are conditioned from a young age to view women as objects. This is dehumanization. We do not dehumanize women because we look at pornography, seek out prostitutes, masturbate, or act out in any way; we do those things because we have already dehumanized women. Our thinking got us here...
  16. L

    5 years+, changed thinking + time = changed behaviors

    I just found this site, I wish I would have found it long ago. I have successfully quit pornography and masturbation for over 5 years. It can be done, it can be sustained. For me the biggest help has been re-calibrating my thinking. Sexually perverse behaviors stem from entitled and...
  17. J

    My 90 day challenge

    Hi everyone, This thread is to post my progress and I'm very welcoming to any encouraging and advising posts, and would love to hear your stories as well! I'm heavily addicted to masterbation and pornography, I wank it 3-5 times a day and it's extremely difficult for me to do it less than 2...
  18. B

    Is this a good sign of recovery?

    I had a wet dream that night, and in the dream I had sex without having PE. I've suffered with PE for some years now, I last less than 1 minute, and I also always had PE in my wet dreams. But in my dream last night, I didn't have PE. I was able to control it. I've been at NOFAP for 62 days...
  19. iaj

    What Does Insomnia Look Like After Recovery?

    Where porn lives, dreams die. I've been awake since 4am (or at least that was the time I looked at the clock). It's now passed 7am here. I was awakened by something I ate, hours before. When this used to happen, back in the bad old days, it's obvious what remedy I used to fall back asleep...
  20. G

    A video exposing porn!

    While surfing I found this video which is very well compiled and explained the harms of porn, it's from a Muslim channel but for once keep your beliefs aside and focus on the facts mentioned in the video!
  21. J

    I'm a sex addict. My friends of 25 years cut me off. I need advice / help.

    First time poster here. I'll try to keep this short. I have a sex addiction that started from porn and masturbation. An addiction that spiraled out of my control - affecting my parents, wife, friends and other people that know me. Everyday I wake up with guilt, shame, regret and a feeling...
  22. gibteru

    Hello my friends

    Hello,my brothers I'm 35 years old man who struggle for pornography and masturbation. but today, I decided to fight against it. Please please give me encouraging message. My feeling is little bit highter than usually. l feel this emotion is unusual. I decided to fight against this emotional...
  23. olinsky

    New to the NoFap community

    Hey y'all. Just wanted to create a thread and say hi and possibly give you some info about me ^^ My name is Julian and I am 22 and I have addiction to pornography. I never thought that this was an addiction up until 4-5 days ago. So here's what happened. I study at about 50 km from where I live...
  24. Captain!

    What do Pornography and Masterbation do?

    Mind numbness Cerebral Shrinkage/Athropy, similar to cocaine addict because of dopamine rush lethargic cannot enjoy simple things because of high threshold of dopamine receptors/receptors blockage in every nerves in many areas of the body, brain and spinal branches and center person objectivity...
  25. MUSTAFA2022

    My View On Pornography

    Porn is garbage made for losers. watched by losers. featuring losers. Suckers, and low self -esteem pathetic Spineless pricks. its just pure trash. Real men with Balls don't need to watch that shit. We are here on this world to better our lives. to be Creators and live Our full potential. And...
  26. Batty Belfry

    The Feeling You Get From Abstaining

    My longest abstinence streak of 252 days was recently broken, which was brought on by my social and professional diffidence I decided to control with edging. I thought this would be acceptable practice, more than acceptable when watching pornography, to avoid denying myself as a sexual being...
  27. L

    Threesomes

    I need opinions and help. I think that my unbelievably high desire for a threesome is a consequence of my addiction to pornography and masturbation. I have a girlfriend that I love and we have plans for the future and we love each other. It's a very healthy relationship. Yesterday I begun the...
  28. D

    Provide your insights, if you have visited a psychiatrist to treat your addiction

    I am planning to visit a psychiatrist to treat my porn / masturbation addiction and before going, I would like to know the possible treatments / therapies that could be used for this. I am totally unaware of how doctors deal with issues like this. I have read a thing or two about how they deal...
  29. D

    finally giving this a shot

    Hey peeps. So I've finally had enough of M and P in my life and it taking a massive hold on me. I've basically been addicted to them both since I was 14 and now I'm 28, so 50% of my life has been spent on binges and feeling crappy but continuously going back to it. Being married hasn't...
  30. V

    Life after PMO from 2012

    I am Vardhan , and i started mastrubation from the age of 18 . every week , i do minimum 3 times at starting . slowly reduced after 3 years to 2 times per week . but again increased to 3-4 times per week . I do mastrubation because , most of the time , i spend lonely . and whenever i do...
  31. FantomZ1

    PMO Last 8 Days of Rebooting, thoughts, a tip, flatline, conclusions.

    Hi, fapstronauts! Today I have 82 days of PMO and I feel like at a finish line,
  32. J

    How to regain my mental health

    Hi guys. Hope all doing well. I just recently joined in nofap. I am in real trouble. I want to quit porn. But can't. I strated this 10 years back. Now I am 23 . Still watching everyday and masturbating. I really want to get out of this. Can anyone please help me to find a way out of this shit.
  33. M

    I still watch porn

    Hello my fellow nofappers This is my seventh day without masturbating but I have a problem that I still look at porn and nudes without masturbating. How would that affect me?
  34. Zillion

    PMO for 5 MONTHS - Do i wanna delete 10 GB of porn collection?

    I was really addictive. I was tend to masturbate over 7 times a day, but eventually I got out of watching porn right after realizing all my mistakes and i may lose my entire life I not change atleast for now.. So, I`ve blocked all the advertisements, social media, even stopped using Google...
  35. iaj

    Stop and try this next time you have an urge

    I had an urge last week which reappeared today even stronger. Last week I had a pointless thought. This actress in a softcore movie I saw as a teen popped into my mind, but I couldn’t remember the title of the film. You know that moment when you can’t remember the name of something and it...
  36. I

    New Here - Some Questions I wanted to ask

    Hi there. I'm a Male living in the UK. I was first exposed to pornography when I was aged 9. By accident. I watched it from the age of 9 a few times a week until by age 11 I was watching it daily. I know this is illegal but sadly it seems to be the new norm. It is awful. Nobody showed me it...
  37. José Bonaparte

    If you want a little more motivation to drop pornography...

    I want to drop of pornography, not only because it harms me, but it will also hurt people close to me, and I will be strengthening a company that uses and abuses people as objects. The videos no longer show the face of the person. Just show the body ... Imagine your daughter or sister being...
  38. S

    a 20-year-old boy,terribly addicted to porn. That ends up with masturbation. Need help. Advise.

    This is Ahmed Sabbir, a 20-year-old boy from Dhaka, Bangladesh who is terribly addicted to pornography the ends up doing masturbation and came here to seek help. How do I get out of this circle? - if you've something worth sharing, help me out.
  39. Srikarthick

    Pornography triggers crime

    Do anybody have idea on crime around the world like rape, gangrape, child abuse etc., do Porn triggers people's to do such things?
  40. M

    PORNOGRAPHY AND THE WONDERFUL MIND

    PORNOGRAFY AND THE WONDERFUL MIND First, i want say that this is something similar to a filosofical treaty, i am spanish, in such a way, i do not speak the english very well, excuse me if this treaty own grammatical mistakes. DOCTRINE 1 i am sure that all of you think that the mind is the most...
  41. D

    Religious Influence?

    I've been wondering do we all reboot due to the influence of religion. Yes, I know some members on here are atheists on here but having interacted with some atheists on here they seem to have had a religious upbringing. Are there any member here who grew up non-religious and are still...
  42. E

    Hello

    Hello, I am Eric and 27 and have had the problem of porn addiction and masturbation for a very long time and can' seem to get out of this. Lately I can't go a week without engaging in these acts. I have lost confidence in my self, can't build and maintain relationships, very bitter, always in my...
  43. D

    Newbie

    Hi everyone, my name is Determined_Fire_123. I've been an addict of Pornography since I was 12. I've tried everything to stop looking at it, but so far nothing has worked. I'm here in hopes that this will put an end to it once and for all.
  44. J

    Let's share informative sites.

    udemy has one free 'pornography addiction' course. Anyone please, share any informative sites/blog with me. Thank you.
  45. D

    14 Years is Too Long

    I am a 28 year old male. I started watching pornography when I was 14 and have been addicted to it ever since. I was always shy growing up but always had friends and a healthy social life until I started watching porn. My shyness evolved into extreme social anxiety and I started avoiding every...
  46. Fenix Rising

    Gary Wilson video on pornography, brain and body

    Gary Wilson, author of yourbrainonporn.com, explains the science behind the effects of pornography on the brain and body, how addiction is developed, and the misleading idea of "perceived addiction." Worth watching:
  47. I

    Why porn actors dont face ED

    Hi, I am new to this thread. I am addicted to porn and need to quit. One thing I fail to understand is that how these porn actors who fuck every single day, manage to have strong erections every day and keep on fucking. It's like if they have eternal sunshine :D And it's just us viewers who...
  48. BreatheSound

    I date a guy for six months and I have problems because of porn.

    I feel like I'm having problems in my relationship. I date a guy for six months. At first I did not care much about pornography, it even made me forget about it. However, time has passed and I fall back into addiction. Now, I'm two days clean and my anxiety is going to the top. He is very calm...
  49. sid1407

    Day 1 NonFap

    I decided to stop watching porn and masturbate today because I've noticed my blood sugar went up a bit high as well as my blood pressure. I'm a healthy 34 year old man and I have no health issues whatsoever. I've been to the doctor and everything is ok with me. But my blood pressure is causing...
  50. M

    PMO is the reason behind every bad things in my life

    Hi, new guy here. A 17 years old that's been driven crazy by PMO. I don't remember exactly, but I approx. spent my 3 years of highschool with PMO, and that's really, really bad. I feel caged. I feel like I'm not doing enough. Depression and self-hatred also things I get from this horrific...
  51. RUN-YOU-FOOL

    Masturbating, but no real sex?

    Good day, Having enjoyed written pornography and masturbation since the age of 10. However I have never fallen in love with anyone, nor have I ever enjoyed sexual activity as soon as somebody else is involved. The stories that arouse me are far from the typical lovemaking. I have been with...
  52. Miyka'el

    A Slave Diary

    Hello, I met this site in another forum of my country (the community ComoParar). There are a lot of people from there who joined here. I decided for the name Miyka'el because it's the transliteration of the name Michael, that means "who is like God?". My actually situation Actually, I have...
  53. N

    Sexual fetishes are not natural. What are your thoughts? Any good books on this subject?

    I need some help in learning about the psychology of sexual fetishes. From what I have read and studied it would seem that sexual fetishes are not natural. They do not occur at birth. To my knowledge they are primarily the result of early childhood sexual imprinting due to various circumstances...
  54. Paperweight

    Is pornography immoral?

    Is pornography itself immoral? Is the creation of pornography immoral? Is the distribution of pornography immoral? Is the consumption of pornography immoral? Is anything else about pornography immoral? How about pornographic cartoons? Pornographic literature? Discuss. Any talk of whether it's...
  55. ChristopherB

    Support Groups: SLAA, Celebrate Recovery, Smart Recovery

    In recovery from addiction, support groups are a great benefit to the individual in recovery. Addiction is about lack of connection and so recovery is about connecting with healthy persons, places, and things. Currently, I have attended 2 Celebrate Recovery meetings and 2 Sex and Love Addicts...
  56. B

    No progress after subsequent nofap

    Hello, I have been reading lots of encouraging posts here and I hope I will get help here. My story: I was exposed to intense pornography and masturbation for 13years - (from 15 - 28years). I am 32 now. As a young boy, my system was extremely active. I had spontaneous erections everywhere...
  57. C

    My story

    Hello, My name is craig. I started viewing pornography as early as 13 years old. It was only at age 16 when i really started viewing all sorts of pornography on a daily basis and consequently masturbating. I am currently 19 and will be 20 this year, hence my desire is to quit the addiction. I am...
  58. L

    The Only Thing Holding Me Back

    So I'm going to start this thread by telling you what happened 3 days ago. Tuesday night I went to bed and struggled to fall asleep. Eventually I ended up falling asleep, but I woke up at around 3am and realized I was totally naked and had been touching myself in my sleep. This isn't something...
  59. C

    A new journey towards better life with NoFap

    Hi Fapstronauts, I am Chandu. I am new to this site, and joined this community with a hope that it will help me save myself with pornography. I'm addicted to pornography since last 8-9 years. It had already ruined my studies a lot since I was a brilliant student but I declined a lot into the...
  60. iaj

    REAL, GENUINE BENEFITS I'VE EXPERIENCED

    I'm on my 2nd journey of nofap. 79 days in so far and the New Year will help me stay determined with a fresh calendar that's easier to track. Prior to noticing any benefits, be patient. First you've got to go through the difficult transition of nofap. But when that 'breaking point' kicks in...
  61. officerD

    Child (and adult) pornography at work as a police officer

    Hello! I registered just to write this message, because despite adopting the nofap philosophy, I do not usually use forums, social media, etc.. Mainly due to my religion-based morality, I have been trying not to practice masturbation. I've never been "addicted" to pornography. I saw it a few...
  62. AlexanderTheAverage

    Whelming Introduction

    I was introduced to sexuality at a very young age, perhaps 6 or 7, and have been masturbating for as long as I could remember. I wasn't out of elementary school by the time I had my first orgasm. It's safe to say that this routine has been there for most of my life, and while I've had intents...
  63. iaj

    SOFT-CORE TO HARDCORE... HOW I GOT ADDICTED TO PORN

    I'm a heterosexual male in my 30's and almost all my life I've been fantasising about a man. That man is me. A dream version of myself. Offline I've felt like a man sometimes, but online I'm definitely a boy. A boy fascinated by sex. Well, it was once sex, but now it's porn. And porn isn't sex...
  64. D

    My recovery from Porn Addiction...

    Since I have began my non PMO journey I have gone through 17 days of not watching porn or even visiting a single site. I made a rationale for myself where it's better to invest your semen into a woman where you can have a return of children, or simply enjoy the sensation of having great sex...
  65. OriginalBehaviour123

    The Cylabi Recipe — My Guide To Quitting Pornography (proven effective)

    Introduction Once upon a time, there was a very close person to me who wanted me to help them get over pornography addiction. At the time I wasn't serious and I didn't care much for my addiction. Nonetheless, I spent time trying to figure out how to help them overcome theirs. So I sat and...
  66. OriginalBehaviour123

    Doing It 10 Times a Day

    Hey guys! I heard about NoFap from a famous youtuber, so I decided to check it out. I made a 5 minute video about my addiction, which was meant for a close friend who had gone through something similar. I'll post it here:
  67. Navdeep

    Factors for viewing pornography

    I have noted some factors from my experience which led to watch pornography materials and masturbation 1.Less drinking water and exercise. 2.Restlessness 3.exhaustion all day due to over exertion in any task. 4.Frustration (tension) 5.using smartphone more than half an hour usually...
  68. A

    PLEASE HELP! HOCD

    Hi guys. I'm completely new on here so would appreciate some advice. I've always considered myself a straight male and always dated females. When I was about 15, I developed an addiction to pornogrphy which quickly developed into hardcore. I then went onto gay/transwoman porn and switched...
  69. L

    The Road to Success Starts Now

    Last Thursday I PMO'd 5 times, but I've never been more motivated to live a life free of pornography and masturbation. I truly believe that if I work hard and get my life in order I will become successful and live the life I've always dreamed of. I have been a member of NoFap for over 3 years...
  70. A

    How can i win over my mind which is not even giving me time to think?

    Note: First it is about my past then there are questions, you can skip my past and answer my questions if you have less time. ***********My past ************** (21 Male) I have been into excessive porn and masturbation for 9 years and I have been trying to stop it from 7 years and I am not able...
  71. L

    NoFap is the Key to Success

    I relapsed again 5 days after my last relapse. It's really frustrating. I'm really upset with myself, but I know I can be successful and finally put this addiction behind me. One relapse is not the end for me. I relapsed because last night I masturbated in my sleep so I was more vulnerable today...
  72. T

    Hey, it's me :)

    Hi guys, After never having taken it too seriously I decided today that I have to change something about how I live my life. And it actually happened after having jerked off once again, not to porn, but to sex cam models. Now I probably have to go back a little bit. I started off using...
  73. W

    People Quitting NoFap???

    Lately on this website I've noticed a lot of people saying 'oh I'm just gonna quit porn, not masturbation' but I can't see the logic. I understand that many people find it easy to quit masturbation, but struggle with quitting porn, but all I think is that surely even with masturbation you will...
  74. S

    I Just Want to Stop

    I'm writing this introduction because I just want to be honest with myself and the rest of the online world. I masturbate as means to allow myself to feel better, and as a solution to forget about all of my other problems. However, through the process of relying on this one activity as a source...
  75. C

    My Experience Right Now

    I'm really having a difficult time right now. I'm not sure which one I'm addicted to - pornography or masturbation, but I think the later. The urge to masturbate is what normally lead me to watching pornography or even thinking it. For this reason I have been try to quit masturbation for some...
  76. L

    Leaving Porn Behind and Never Looking Back

    Once again today I PMO'd. It wasn't from an urge that just came about during the day. I planned it to be my last relapse before I give NoFap another shot. See the past two years I've had PMO-free streaks of four months and six months. Looking back it's unbelievable I've had that much success...
  77. S

    I am an addict and I need your help.

    Hello, I prefer not to say my real name so I'll stick to the ShyRussianDude. By my name you can obviously tell where I am from so please don't judge my English so much, I am well aware that its horrible. I study Management at University but I skip around 2 month already because of the problem. I...
  78. E

    The Intro to Me & My Victory

    Hey guys, So, as my username suggests, my name is Eric. I have to be honest about something though. I am not now, nor have I ever been, a Jedi. I wanted to confess that and get it off of my chest. The truth is I'm a Star Trek fan. Anyways, I found you guys through someone's comment on a...
  79. NutsSquirrels

    New to nofap - committed to it

    Hi folks, I am new to all this NoFap thing, and I have decided to give it a try...things can't get worse than what they already are. I am in my 30s and I've been watching porn and masturbating to it since I was in my 16-17s, basically since I've got access to cable internet...hehe I've been...
  80. MovingOn97

    19 M, New Here

    Hey guys and gals I'm 19 M and new here. :) I've been struggling with porn addiction for what I believe is 8-9 years now. I have a wonderful family who trusts and loves me. Whatever your opinion on the matter may be, (and you are welcome to have one) I'm a Christian and feel pornography is...
  81. J

    Fantasing whilst with girlfriend

    Hi, when I am receiving a handjob and occasionally a blowjob or having sex I fantasise about other women being involved. I don't like doing it particularly as I feel it's cheating in a way, and would rather just enjoy the experience without creating a mini porno scene in my mind. My question is...
  82. phinix

    Philosophizing on Masturbation

    Hi Everyone from NoFap, I'm writing this because I needed somewhere to write all of the things that I have been going through over the past few months, if not years and perhaps the majority of my life. I have looked into this phenomenon generally categorized under sex addiction. Today, I...
  83. I

    Semen Retention

    Hey guys, I am 22 yrs old from Delhi, India. My primary purpose in joining this website is to reboot myself from pornography, masturbation, sex and even nocturnal emission if possible. My reasons for doing so are not religious or moralistic at all, but rather simply to feel more in control over...
  84. S

    Can I Still Watch Porn?

    Hi, I'm Scarlet! :) I've been participating in "NoFap November" and I haven't masturbated since November started! I was wondering if it's against the rules of the challenge to watch porn. I'm not addicted to porn and I haven't watched it since November started, but I edit pornos for a website...
  85. FreedomGoal

    Been trying for years

    Hello, I feel nervous and a little embarrassed to post on here but hopefully it will help. As a history about my addiction to P and M, when I was 13 hears old my parents bought me a laptop. I had just started doing home schooling online so I needed a computer. I then stumbled across a music...
  86. S

    What Are the Rebooting November Rules?

    Hi! I'm Scartlet, and I'm new to this whole NoFap thing. I was recently told that November was known as NoFap November and that it's encouraged not to fap for all of November. I haven't masturbated since November started, but I was wondering if there were any specific rules to all of this. I...
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