spouse

I wanted to create a thread (apologies if its already been done, but I couldn't find out if it was) where the spouses/SO's could come and just give any comments, advice, comment, complaint, threat, question, or anything else they wanted to us addicts for a response or answer to anything. I talk...

A Betrayed Woman is an Abused Woman – Sisters Quorum JANUARY 21, 2021BY JUNESISTERSQUORUM6569 A Betrayed Woman is an Abused Woman TW: Infidelity, adultery JUNE: Do you know what it is like to not trust yourself? Everything is upside down and backwards and all you can do is float through your...

The name's Christina. Age 35. Husband's age is 36. I've been together with my husband for 12years. Married for 3. Last time we had sex was on our wedding night... When we first started dating sex happened everytime we saw each other and then slowly went from that to once a week, to less and...

Your partner, whether s/he exists yet or not, cannot take up the slack provided by your lack of PMO. Imagine trying to have sex with your partner as frequently and for the length of time you consume porn. It's not possible. For some, this is the attraction, but you have to dial-down your sex...

When I fail I struggle with how much detail to give. She wants to know every graphic detail. Which is hard for her to hear. I had an 3 casual hookups several years back with men. Through a lot of counseling and healing I have made many positive steps forward with my sexuality and I'm working...

Sadly I’m not new to this forum. This is a long post. But I need to vent and I need advice. My husband and I have been together for 7 years now. Recently married. (About 4 months) We’ve been dealing with P addiction since the beginning of our relationship. About a year ago, he successfully...

I’m in the flatline, no porn, no sex, no masturbation and no arousal for the passed eight days. Then last night I begin to feel again, I have a slight erection and I can feel my libido trying it’s best to jump start itself. Lying beside my wife I’m aroused but afraid to make a move for fear that...

Hey, I’m not sure if I posted this in the right thread but I’m hoping someone can potentially help me on here. So here it goes.. I was married to a porn addict until about 2 years ago when we seperated and then finally divorced..my marriage with this was hell, struggling to help him overcome it...

It has been 6 months since I found out about my husbands porn addiction.... my husband says he is not watching it anymore and does not have the need to watch it.... I try and trust him and hope he’s being truthful.... however I feel like my husband has no desire to be with me sexually... ( he...

I thought watching porn was bad enough... but then I found out that he brought VR headsets to view porn... can it get any worse...

Hi, all! I am so thankful I found NoFap. I'm encouraged and I hope to find more knowledge but mostly at this point advice on whether my husband is serious about recovery (Everything points to the sad fact that he isn't) but I need confirmation that there are legitimate red flags as I want to be...

Hey all, new member here, but definitely not so new to this devastating life. My name is Jen, married for almost 12 years with 2 kids and this is my [long] story, might sound like I'm rambling (because I kind of am as I am remembering it all), so sorry in advance: Like the usual story begins...

well, he relapsed... today... 4 hours ago. he downloaded apps so he could access it... i asked him about the downloads and if he watched P today. he said yes and then said "you couldn't wait to ask me huh". granted, he is at work, but that's not something i can just keep inside until who knows...

I believe that women can sense that there is something violently wrong with PMO. It is well noted that porn is highly unfavorable among wives, and girlfriends. We have all heard the stories of wives, or girlfriends finding out about the pornographic use of their spouses, or boyfriends...

We often talk about our "me time" in journals and otherwise, but I feel like we should have a concentrated effort to lay out what us SO's are doing for ourselves! We can bounce ideas off each other and inspire one another to take care of ourselves. :) Things I did for myself today...