[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Pone

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    I think apart from nofap the next issue am facing is the desire to talk with every pretty girl I see. Now that my sexual energy is building up as am on NoFap, I am really having a hard time to block in that desire. Sometimes I find my self losing all my focus and doing all possible things to talk to a pretty girl.

    The reason why I don't want to talk to them is that. I am trying to fix my dopamine circuits and I want then to build in productive areas. And every time I talk to those pretty girls I feel drained and find it had to do productive work since I be thinking of them alot.
     
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  2. Pone

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    Congs man 20 days to go. Keep strong
     
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  3. Pone

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    Had some intense craving for sex.
    And happy and sad at the same time.
    Happy cause for the first time I have had a craving for real sex. To the point I got thoughts of walking over to my pretty neighbor friend's place to ask her that we should have sex together

    And sad cause since I my wet dream a few days back am experiencing alot of sexual urges and a low motivation to do productive activities.
     
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  4. Pone

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  5. I_must_quit

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    Day 0/90 Daily check-in✔️
     
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  6. georgebou7

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    Day 13

    I control my thoughts and cravings better than before.
    Reading books (literature or self improvement books) contributed to build my stronger mindset.
    I've lately readed the Mark Manson's famous best seller. It helps me understand deeply that problems are useful and through facing and solving them we can imporve. I am not trying anymore to simple avoid the cravings. I prefer to understand them and work on my thougts.

    Be strong!!!
     
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  7. 6/90. Made it through my stressful work week :) now I'm excited to get started on weekend/side projects. Stay strong everyone :)
     
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  8. antn

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  9. testwarz

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    Day 78/90... great to see some solid streaks being built here.. this is a special time in our lives guys. Let’s make it a lifetime memory and not a temporary thing we forgot about! Remember ill light the warrior torch at 90 days and pass it to the next bro reaching 90 and then they do the same...
     
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  10. 1/90
     
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  11. james0422

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    Day 30! One thing I notice is that my stool was getting less frequent and more shaped over the past two weeks
     
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  12. JustForTodayz

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  13. Black jack

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    1 week completed out of 90 83 days to go now
     
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  14. Merry Terry

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    Day 29.
    I joined this forum 200 days ago. Of those 200 days, I was 181 days without M’ing to P.

    I guess the 200 mark as well as the 2x 90 days without P are something to celebrate :D

    However, I also hit a red flag this morning. I MO'd to a vivid fantasy that came to my mind yesterday afternoon. I put my goal at No P and allow myself occasional MO, because my girlfriend and I are trying to get her pregnant and I need to keep my seed healthy. Which is why in my current streak I have MO'd 2 or 3 times. However, it was the first time in this streak that I MO'd to a fantasy. And it doesn't feel right. Because the fantasy was partly based on a story that I read some time ago, and because now I feel that revisiting that story or similar material seems more tempting and more of a real possibility after this morning. So I'm gonna have to learn from this that touching myself to any kind of fantasy is really off limits now. And then sit out while the effects on my system wear out and don't lead me to a full blown relapse. Which is what I will do, and I will endure.
     
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  15. bromor

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    Day 40 No M
    Day 145 No P

    Video I am watching today -

    @Merry Terry Great that you have adjusted your goal based on your needs! I believe it will releave some pressure and it's great neews you and your gf are trying for a baby! I had just one question - does she know about your nofap jorney and if yes how did she respond? If now why have you not told her? I am just curious - you don't have to answer if you don't want to! :)

    Have a great weekend everyone!
     
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  16. Merry Terry

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    No, I haven't told her. I haven't told anybody. I guess I find it too shameful to admit in the first time that I have this problem. I know it might be better if I did tell her, or someone at least, but I'm really not ready for that.
     
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  17. RyukJr

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    Wednesday was day 7
     
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  18. RyukJr

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    Day 8 was Thursday and 1 week down
     
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  19. Merry Terry

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    I just did my second MO this day to the same fantasy. This has to stop right now, because it's clear that I'm using my fantasy now in the same way that I would use P: as something to run away to for comfort. I cannot allow myself to do this. From now on, I will consider M'ing to a fantasy as equally bad as M'ing to porn. I'm allowing myself the necessary occasional M to keep my seed healthy, but only when I've reached excitement by being with my girlfriend, not conjuring a fantasy so I can escape.
     
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