[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Day 0 I am sorry I’m having a really bad week and am stuck inside It’s driving me crazy I can’t do my normal routine because I have a concussion but I will start over I need motivation I’m getting really tired of failing myself and others
     
  2. vicicool

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    Victory IS Ours!!!
    Victory IS OURs now indeed!!
    Haha! I‘m happy for you!

    Wow, 365 days now huh? I hope I can move on to that too soon.
    „If you can resist for a day.
    You can resist for a livetime.“

    That‘s just logic.
    If you resisted yesterday and before you KNOW you CAN resist. You know for a fact, you can do it. So it’s possible for you to resist again and again.

    Wanna share with you this guy from youtube -he always uploads short vids like this one:


    I found him through his video titled „How Jesus broke my Pornography addiction“

    I will remember you. You made it. U should reward yourself :)
    What I always wish ppl for birthday imma wish you: „stay happy, healthy and on God‘s hand.“
     
  3. Gregory S

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    I'm in control
     
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  7. VictoryIsOurs

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    Btw thank you very much for this video, I needed it not just for this fight.
    Thank you for challenging and encouraging me in this journey. Congratulations on your 50% achievement...you have a 1.5 months, just live a day at a time.
    I will also remember you for believing in me.
     
  8. VictoryIsOurs

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    Thank you man, working out and good lifestyle should be seen from a bigger picture than just pmo recovery.
    I believe in you and for sure you will overcome this...you are just on the ground flapping your wings awaiting to fly. Fight gravity just a little harder the next day.
     
  9. vicicool

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    Your welcome mate!
    Yeah... Holy Spirit is in his videos, I feel it.
    Who knows, maybe u were meant to see this right now.
    God bless
    Stay vigilant!
     
  10. Blaze21

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    Day 61/90
    Let's go brothers we can beat this together!
     
  11. wowzers1

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    Reset: 0/90
    Damn, I made progress. But I'm not feeling so down about it. I think my streak (longest ever without masturbation) will motivate me into the next. Let's do this!
     
  12. Day 16/90
    Day 609 attempting this challenge
    Day 213 weight training (M, W, F)
    Lifestyle: reduced caffeine, alcohol and sweets
     
  13. Karl Reboot

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    Need Some Advice!
    Yesterday is awful, so many strong urges break into me. I almost abandon, finally I made it. it's really hard to regain my attention aftre the urge grip it. I need something strong to control it. But now I dont have the idea. What I did yesterday is just delaying relapse. But it took a long time. As it disappeared in ten minutes, but come again soon, which costs lots of my energy. And the time I exhausted is the time I abandon myself. What should I do next time if this happens?
     
  14. bromor

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    Day 0 No M
    Day 272 No P

    After doing this for a while - resetting with M (no porn or substitues) every few days, break-up, and letting other factors affect my mood (shitty weather, more work etc.) I slowly start feeling like I did over a year ago, when I still had PMO issues. Well not as bad ofc but you get what I mean. Self-Motivation and determination is a bit down, willingness to procrastinate and feelings of being lost :( Why I need to write this down - because I don't want to feel like this and ruin all the progress I have made the past 2 years.

    I need to set my mind on the goals - continue working to be a better person - finish another 90 day challenge, put more work in my bulk period in the gym, work for promotion at work, put more effort to finish my programming courses and produce a VR game prototype.

    I need to remind myself of the work I have done so far - this is important for us to not give up - when you realize how much you have done to reach this point you WILL NOT want to throw all that away:
    - Have been working out with a trainer for 2 years now - recently increased workout plan to 5 days a week from 4 - have never had a better body in my life
    - Have read 15+ books this year - used to not read at all before that - this has opened my mind so much
    - Have attempted a relationship with my ex girl (with which I had ED problems and she broke up because our sex life was awful for her) - we had sex many times this year and it was great! - we realized that this was not the issue anymore but still she decided we should stop ttrying and move on. Anyway - I never thought we could even go out again, or have sex at all - so I count this as a win. At least now she knows that she is attractive to me and this was never her issue and mine only
    - Have been on multiple dates and had a short relationship with another girl where the sex was great! - Anxiety and ED cured!
    - Have finished multiple courses related to self improvement and programming!
    - Kept high spirit despite Covid and other obstacles life throws at us!

    I can't throw all that away and get back to any of my old bad ways!

    I know this is Too Long Didn't Read - but if you reached that point - I want to tell you - Remind yourself of the work you put in and the progress - this will immediately remove any doubt of the direction you want to continue on!

    @VictoryIsOurs Congrats man! This is a great achievement! I hope to finish a second 90 day challenge this year!

     
  15. Toni7

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  16. Mansfelder

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    This morning i woke up with 'glory' and the desire to masturbate and let it all out! Next thought was to do it without porn and to only change the goal on this challenge... How easy, one might say?!

    No, it isn't! It is only the start of a journey back into the full programme of endless masturbinges. After putting myself together, I abstained and I'm happy about it:)

    Anyway: These urges starting already after 11 days make me nervous and the next days will be tougher. Let's be strong!
     
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    Day 23
    Yesterday, it was really hard to me mentally.
    Me and my girl tried to have sex..and failed again, she cried...
    It's hard, I've already told her I need time.. But she gets horny everytime we are together...
    When she was crying I tried to not feel guilty, I'm sick but I was never aware I was doing bad things to me..
    Well..its hard
     
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