[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

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  1. Ice22

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    I think many, if not most people on this forum have this subconscious idea back in their heads that they are going for X days but will eventually go back to P again when they feel that they've "accomplished their goal". And I am very aware of that little devil in my own head because I'm slowly choking it to death with facts.
    This toxic idea is there because you don't realise what you are doing this for. P is killing you, your time, your golden opportunities in your LIFE. It's literally slowly destroying your brain.

    IF you go back to that old self it will hit you hard and you will feel like shit. No matter the lies your brain tries to tell you. If you go back it will be like 150 mph into a concrete wall. It's the rubber band effect. The further you pull away from P and fall back again, the harder it will hit you. It's just a matter of how much you want to beat your self up before you realise there's no other way to go but forward. Do this again and maybe you're so drained, weakened and beaten down that you can't function anymore. Maybe suicide is the result. But I know something better, how about not doing it and instead fight your obstacles like a tough warrior? You have no one to impress but yourself. It's only about you.

    This is serious stuff. You can't do this anymore. You are forced to change. You have to walk the path that awaits you. It will be tough from time to time but that's life. If your legs can barely carry you let your spirit guide you forward. It's better to feel bad while going through a massive change of heart than to be completely miserable having let yourself down for an unsustainably short pleasure that ultimately just made you feel shit.

    This is a choice you've made and you've made it for life. A choice to become the best version of yourself and it can only get better if you walk the path ahead of you.
     
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  2. OheyApple

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    Preach !! Top advice here buddy. I think it's very dangerous territory to watch P after abstaining from it for so long. It's a viscous horrible cycle to be stuck in. The only way is to go forward and keep fighting it!
     
  3. Ice22

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    Thank you! And amen to what you said. I am grateful this forum exist. It's amazing we can help each other like brothers from all over the world. Let's make men great again!
     
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  4. break the limits

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  5. El_Basilanacni

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    Day 11. It's been very difficult to resist. I kinda wanted to indulge in MO without P, which I think is ultimately ok if you are completely cured from P and have an active sexual life, but I'm just not ready yet and it would be a trigger to watch P. So it took me a lot of effort but I didn't do it. The heat and its consequences don't help.
     
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  6. The seeker

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    Day 70. Though I seem to be well on my way to curing PMO addiction I still have so many other addictions to resolve. I guess baby steps and live one day at a time.
     
  7. Zori

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  8. break the limits

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    Today is hard but I fight the urges with strength

    Day 3
     
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  9. BraveBear

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    Alright warriors. I made it to 68/90 days before relapsing today. Thank you all for your support. I'll start again soon and see you all here.
     
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  10. 3 day after 3 hour i am feeling excited to do this challenge:)
     
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  11. RedOnTheReboot

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    Tonight at 10pm will be 85 full days, on the home straight!

    I've been feeling more and more horny this past week. Been almost tempted to MO but keeping strong. Meeting a girl for a park date this evening
     
  12. ShinyTurtle

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    O no, enemy activated a trap card and caught me off guard. So I will be starting anew 0/90
    Lost a battle, but intending to win the war. :mad:
     
  13. I Am The Golden God

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    55/90
     
  14. The seeker

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    Day 71. Still soldering on. The problem is I'm not convinced I will be fully recovered by the end of the 90 days. Had so many false dawns.
     
  15. Ice22

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    Day 88

    Getting closer to heaven by each day, and further away from the hell that is P + MO.
    It's amazing how I could have gone from a seemingly hopeless sitation to 90 days without it.
    Anyone can change.
     
  16. Ice22

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    You are not alone, I'm with you on that. I still feel that 90 days is not enough for me and I will continue this for as long as I need to. P and MO is without question not an option for me. I'm done and I've suffered too much because of that.

    Working out in any shape or form is the key. It must go hand in hand with NF. But the first weeks without doing anything is probably OK but the real benefits comes from NF in combination with other things. I also think semen retention is important to be successful with NF and to get the most out of it. To do SR you need to do certain Tao exercises to avoid wet dreams.. there are many but none of them are tiresome or difficult to do but actually very simple!
    The main problem that I've had is not the work outs itself but to get things started, the igniting spark.

    These 88 days on Nofap have made me question everything in my life. I've reached a new level of consciousness and understanding of my life and the more I look at my life the more I see how meaningless most things are. Sounds depressing but; video games is a waste of time, spending time with boring people is a waste of time (most people have no deeper meaning in their lives and never question anything), youtube is a waste of time and it goes on and on, and on.. But knowledge, writing and being creative in any way or form is something that has a deep meaning.

    Actually the only things that really matters in life is not material things but the things you can't grab with your hands, like:
    Ideas, Thoughts - Feelings, Knowledge - Insights - Wisdom, Friendship, Love (in it's pure form), Health (that's a big one), To Build - Create, To share moments with others, explore - travel, to see the seasons come and go, to be in tune with nature, a good sleep, having self-respect, trust, empathy, and confidence.

    The most important material things I can think of is; to have a roof over your head, a nice bed, and healthy food on your plate to keep you strong and satisfied.

    A healthy and balanced sexual relationship based on love is just the icing on the cake, and for reproduction. But life is so much more than that. You need to be happy by your self first.

    I'm just trying to say that we humans stress too much and complicate things too often. We can live lives that are quite simple and more fulfilling compared to our moden information-society where we get attacked by information from all angles and our world more or less forces us to swollow it without questioning.

    I'm going for 100 days ---> 123 days (1/3 year) ---> and beyond
     
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  17. CosmicCrusader

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  18. Zori

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