Hi guys, To make it simple i feel i'm lucky, really, like i have everything in life (good job, ok money, my own house, awesome family). Thing is i don't seem to solve the problem of the social aspect of my life. I'm about to be 30 and it's been almost three years i haven't had a girlfriend. I had two or three dates since then but nothing else. I approached recently one girl in the street and had great moment but the girl was just trouble in the end. I have few friends, some are engaged, with babies and stuff. Others don't but i don't have a deep connection with them, like you know that relation you have when you feel like it's family, have confidence in them and share about a lot of things (also insecurities), trustfull men i mean. I don't have many opporunities to meet girls at the moment. In my social circle it's a damn competition when there's the presence of girls. I don't want to be part of the fight of who'll show off the best. That's just not my type. I'm not the kind who try to impress and create a imaginary extraordinary life. At work there's only men. So i decided to hit the streets and approach girls, that's hard but i'm questionning myself about the fact that i need this to meet girls. Do some of you have advices ? Maybe i'm too much focused on the fact that i want to meet someone ? The time goes so quick i don't want to end up alone. This is actually the only reason i feel temptation sometimes to watch porn because having sex with real women is just so complicated right now.. but i'm not addicted. I guess i can stop whenever i want. What do you think ?