Bro.. Looking at girls is not the problem. That is our goal actually. We want to look at girls in real life as human beings and representations of real human beauty. That is okay. Looking away from every girl is not the objective, that is just going to increase your social anxiety and willingness to avoid girls. one of our many goals in life to find a life partner, and you have to be able to look them face to face as a first step... Please stare longer, and it's ok to fantasize and stare because as long as you are on NoFap, you will start to stop fantasizing over time. Just get used to looking at girls.