Frustrated and angry : can't get erection when I'm standing up

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by nofepfepforlife, Jun 24, 2017.

  1. Trey Zee

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  2. nofepfepforlife

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    I know it's not a pipes issue because I can get full erections in my sleep and in the morning and if I'm at my chair and look at porn I can get fully hard. I just cant get get hard if I'm already standing up anymore. I've started a routine to release tension in my pelvic floor, I'm hoping it works.
     
  3. VoYager28

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    Hey man, how is going, you found any solutions to this problem?

    I have the same problems and it really bothers me too. Once I read somewhere the position of bones when standing might prevent blood flow to the penis. I had some problems with my lower back, maybe you had them too? I will also work on this problem... It really is strange because I am the same as you write - no problem with erection when on my back or sitting...
     
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  4. El.Barto.Springfield

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    I also have the same problem! I can work up a boner when sitting leaning back. But when I get up on my knees to start having sex, the boner just dies. And its definantely related to the position. I have no idea why. Will read this thread and see if I get any ideas.
     
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  5. nofepfepforlife

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    reverse kegals and pelvic floor stretches solved it for me guys, also i found that being really horny with a girl made my erections stand up no problem. it actually felt like my shlong was trying to break out of my pants when i met my gf.

    tl;dr : pelvic floor stretches, reverse kegals 70:30 then 50:50 reverse kegals and normal kegals plus no PMO until you are rebooted then stay away from porn forever and dont masturbate sitting down anymore. its curable guys, i did it. i thought i was a hard case and never be cured but im fixed now.
     
  6. El.Barto.Springfield

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    Congrats! I will add pelvic floor exercises to my reboot. But should one be consciously flexing the PC muscle / pelvic floor while having sex? I've never thought about that before. Otherwise, whats the point of excercising the muscle if not to use it, right?
     
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  7. drkarim

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    What is kegels and reverse kegels can u show me???
     
  8. El.Barto.Springfield

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    Google is your friend.
     
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  9. nofepfepforlife

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    Not sure tbh, in my experience I do neither whilst having sex. Only time you should really flex your muscles during sex is to ejaculate or if you want to make your dick bob a bit lol.
     
  10. drkarim

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    Okay i just asked as if there was a dedicated thread here.
     
  11. VoYager28

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    I am also very happy for you nofep. You give me a great example for my situation. So I see also my own future good now. Will be doing exercises listed.

    And El Barto i have read that kegels during sex do just the opposite thing, they suck the blood out. And also as I remember for myself they didnt help when penis was dying...
     
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  12. francesreid

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    This is the problem with many guys. Man cannot stay erect while sex and the result is they have to feel ashamed of because they are not able to satisfy their partner. The problem is that men cannot maintain the erection level and finally they suffer from unable to stay erect. However this is a serious issue and should be treated immediately. To stay hard, I would suggest you to follow the steps below:

    · Don’t take any stress in your love life

    · Try to use some natural herbs which boost male libido

    · Do kegel exercises

    · Sleep at night without any interruption and quality sleep
     
  13. drkarim

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    Any new updates regarding standing erection issue?
     
  14. nofepfepforlife

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    Yeah it was entirely a PIED issue. Nothing to do with pelvic floor..at least I think so. Kegals can help or do reverse kegals if you have a tight floor. It's all about balance.
     
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    Hi,I’ve been through all your threads just found out i have the sqme problem as u did,how long did it take to get cured from that?r u fully recovered now?whats ur advice on it?
     
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    A also do not think that it is a pelvic floor or something and iam sure it is porn related or (position of habitual masturbation?) Because i used to masturbate supine in bed with the laptop on my abdomen for 1 and half year..
    However it is very frustrating if u think about it in a scientific manner u may wonder how in a supine position the erection is good and in the standing one u lose it i mean isnot there something physical in it? However looking in to my history i was having a very good erection in all positions until i did one thing watching porn for 4 hours plus daily as if iam watching a normal movie and then masturbating once at the end. Only then it happened that no standing erections, and no erection at all with thinking or even watching porn only i get it with touching
    What i have done until now is drastically lowering down my total porn use to nearly 3 hours /week versus nearly 3-4 hours /day and i actually see a slow recovery in the form of longer erections ..not losing it that easily as before ...
    Iam 28 yrs and never had real sex (forbidden outside marriage) however while sex calling or something with a girl i know, i can have erections with just talking with her and they feel stronger than the other ones too....
     
  17. mribiza

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    Your thread is very interesting. My problem has been being able to maintain an erection when the girl is on top. A couple of years ago, I used to do a girl that when she sat on top of me, I would go crazy and have the hardest erections. Since then, I have been able to maintain an erection when the girl is on top. A few times I have done it, but not consistently. I blame it on my brain.
     
  18. Zaman1994

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    How long did you take to recover ?,does quitting the porn for rewiring of brain help?
     
  19. nofepfepforlife

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    It's MUCH more than likely it is PIED related. i had trouble with maintaining erections whilst standing for ages then soon as i recovered and got with a real girl i had absolutely no problems maintaining an erection while standing up. it took me 5-7 months to see very noticeable changes...about 6 months for me to declare myself recovered.
     
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  20. nofepfepforlife

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    yes you need to quit porn forever and quit masturbation for at least 6 months and dont have any orgasm during your reboot...wet dreams dont count btw.
     
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