GO WITH ESCORT?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by ALEX_88, Sep 17, 2018.

  1. ALEX_88

    ALEX_88 Fapstronaut

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    HELLO GUYS,
    IT IS SO MUCH THAT I AM NOT A GIRL, SINCERLY WHEN I STARTED THIS CHALLENGE NoFap (+120 GG) ARE SINGLE, BUT THE SITUATION IS VERY DIFFICULT, ACCORDING TO YOU IF I GO WITH AN ESCORT?
    Tell me what you think
    THANK YOU
     
  2. You will have to
    1. pay more than a bit of money
    2. be careful not to get scammed or robbed
    3. wear protection and forget kissing
    4. sleep with a girl that's probably not interested in you
    5. lie to your future partners about it
    If you think it's worth it - go ahead. It may be an interesting experience.

    But, considering your motivation - curing loneliness - you will have to make it a habit. Frequent sex might cure loneliness but one visit won't do much. Obviously, the problems I mentioned get bigger when you repeat the activity every week or something.
     
  3. ALEX_88

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    thanks for the advice friend, I will think about it The problem is that it's been a long time since I'm alone and I can not take it anymore (sexually speaking)
     
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  4. Frank201$

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    Don't do it. From someone who's been there and done that, you are opening the door to a lot of shame, Isolation and more loneliness. I know this is cliche but start concentrating on yourself and loving yourself by finding your true self. Very hard work but worth it. Nothing else works. Find your bliss.
     
  5. TheManDude

    TheManDude Fapstronaut

    I agree, I did go to an escort once and I can tell you @ALEX_88 that will just leave you with a bigger than before so just don't do it... think about the STDs, the depression after doing it, the dangers of being robed or killed and you'll realize that is not worth the trouble... empty sex it's just like masturbation and I would say that MOing can be better than sex with a prostitute due to personal experiences.
     
  6. DarkKnight18

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    Honestly bro, I am thinking about going to an escort myself, probably best to go to a well reviewed one thats a bit higher end which will cost more but way more safer.

    I have been doing this too long and quite frankly am tired of feeling sexually frustrated, shitty, and lonely. The worst part is the longer my streak gets the more I start to hate women. Yes I know its not the real thing but just being able to feel a nude body pressed against mine and also to blow of all this sexual tension in my body thats been building for so long.
     
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  7. ALEX_88

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    Capisco come ti senti ...
     
  8. Sharksvv

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    I went down this route during my darkest days, I saw an upwards of 20 escorts over the course of a number of years and the feeling while good when doing the actual deed, it felt terrible when I walked out that door and made the lonely walk of shame back to my car, it makes you feel even more alone once it’s over and you need to get back home..I always felt so low and would always say in my head “what did I just do? what am I doing with my life” at least this is what I’ve noticed.

    Sex with an escort who doesn’t love you vs sex with a girlfriend is entirely different and so much better now that I’ve got to experience it with my gf. Don’t waste your money on those escorts.
     
  9. ALEX_88

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    grazie amico ... è molto difficile ... è da tanto tempo che sono solo
     
  10. I can feel you, Alex!
     
  11. ALEX_88

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    [QUOTE = "Scriabinist, post: 1696214, member: 213505"] Posso sentirti, Alex! [/ QUOTE]

    really? what do you feel?
     
  12. I can relate to your story. I've been alone for a very long time too, and am thinking about seeing an escort.
     
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  13. ALEX_88

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    [QUOTE = "Scriabinist, post: 1696257, member: 213505"] Posso riguardare la tua storia. Sono stato solo per molto tempo e sto pensando di vedere una scorta. [/ QUOTE]

    it's very hard ... we hold on
     
  14. ALEX_88

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    I passed that stage ... hold on, it will pass
     
  15. Ra's Al Ghul

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    Unless you're a hideous looking incel, I would not consider the services of an escort.

    Like Snoop Dogg said " We don't love them hoes"!
     
  16. ClaritySeeker

    ClaritySeeker Fapstronaut

    It's probably more healthy to MO than to see an escort, which could involve wasting money, getting herpes or other sexually transmitted infections. Explaining to your future wife if she ever asks and just living with the fact of doing it. Ask yourself, is this something I would be proud of? Something my family would be proud of? Something my future wife/children would be proud of? It's not worth it...
     
  17. ALEX_88

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    your point of view is also interesting
     
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  18. GA93JDeereboy

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    What have you done about it as in attempting to meet women b4 you go out with an escort? If you haven't done nothing or put in a good bit of effort then you doing yourself no good! Dont be desperate.
     
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  19. GA93JDeereboy

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    The woman doing the escorting wouldn't do it if they didn't want the money. It is like another poster said, a sad walk back to your car or home when you finished doing it. You can't take it back after you do it. So if you do, be ready to think about it for the rest of your life. Is 15 minutes even that really worth it? Go and find one naturally. More you do, easier meeting women will be. Never ever get an escort. Those ladies ought to be doing better with their lives too.
     
  20. Angus McGyver

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    I was almost considering buying an escort myself a year or two ago (because of loneliness) but stopped myself from doing so because of following reasons:

    1) It would cost me a a lot of money while running the risk of getting robbed.
    2) It would only bring me guilt and shame after that short time of pleasure is over. I asked myself many times: "Could I possibly live with myself after doing such a thing?"
    3) My self-respect would be shattered for a long time for taking this simple, fast and convenient way out of a larger problem.
    4) There would be no chemistry, feelings or attraction involved from neither mine or the escort's side which would not make the sex feel much better (or special) than masturbation.
    5) It wouldn't solve any of my personal problems or issues at all, especially not in the long run. Rather, they would accumulate even more and become bigger with time.
    6) It would feel and be an awful lot better to focus on self-improvement and further ahead finding a real and loving girlfriend instead of a paid escort with no things in common.

    Buying an escort might indeed be one of your most devastating personal decisions for years or maybe even decades to come. I have had friends who did it and it is something that they (to this day) really regret doing and wish they had never done.
     

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