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Shawn 1/4/20

Shawn 1/4/20

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Hello brothers. My name is Donato. It is a rare hispanic name that was popular many years ago. My grandmother wanted to go "old school" when she named me. It was her father's name also. They say that Donato means 'given by God'.

I am a college student and do some work part-time. I love soccer, swimming, and wrestling. I like to volunteer with kids and several LGTB charities. Even though I only make a little money, I give 10% of all I earn to a boy's home that helps boys who have been sexually abused.

I was sexually abused myself as a boy and young teenager. Fortunately, I have had many years of counseling (even still today) and am doing well.

On a brighter note, I have a wonderful, beautiful boyfriend. He is also 19 and his name is Pablo. I call him papi though. Anyway, he is in Latin America for the next 3 months doing a humanitarian project. He is studying to be a doctor.

On a serious note, I am here because I am addicted to pornography and masturbation. Even though I am a young guy, I have trouble having an erection...even with my boyfriend. So after about a year of having this problem I went to the doctor and read about my situation online. That is when I found yourbrainonporn and nofap.

So I want to take the opportunity that my boyfriend is away and not watch porn and not jerk off. I hope that will cure my erection problems.

I want to be your friend whether you are younger than me, my age, or older than me. I have mostly friends that are of all ages. I need input from all age groups please.

Thank you.
 
Shawn 1/4/20 said:
Hello brothers. My name is Donato. It is a rare hispanic name that was popular many years ago. My grandmother wanted to go "old school" when she named me. It was her father's name also. They say that Donato means 'given by God'.

I am a college student and do some work part-time. I love soccer, swimming, and wrestling. I like to volunteer with kids and several LGTB charities. Even though I only make a little money, I give 10% of all I earn to a boy's home that helps boys who have been sexually abused.

I was sexually abused myself as a boy and young teenager. Fortunately, I have had many years of counseling (even still today) and am doing well.

On a brighter note, I have a wonderful, beautiful boyfriend. He is also 19 and his name is Pablo. I call him papi though. Anyway, he is in Latin America for the next 3 months doing a humanitarian project. He is studying to be a doctor.

On a serious note, I am here because I am addicted to pornography and masturbation. Even though I am a young guy, I have trouble having an erection...even with my boyfriend. So after about a year of having this problem I went to the doctor and read about my situation online. That is when I found yourbrainonporn and nofap.

So I want to take the opportunity that my boyfriend is away and not watch porn and not jerk off. I hope that will cure my erection problems.

I want to be your friend whether you are younger than me, my age, or older than me. I have mostly friends that are of all ages. I need input from all age groups please.

Thank you.
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Welcome man! I’m in a similar boat as you. My girlfriend is away studying abroad for the next 3 months and I want to get it together before she gets back. Message me on here if you want my number or ever need to talk!
 
It’s great to read about you Donato! You are doing the right thing and congratulations on taking the huge step of acepting that PMO is an issue. This next three months will be difficult . You got it in you to make it though. Spend some time reading posts on here; they helped me a lot. I also suggest that you avoid the places or times that you used to PMo. That will avoid the urges that come. For me, Mondays after work were tempting to Pmo. So I make it a plan to do other things or spend time outside. I’m sure you’ll find your rhythm. Good luck!
 
Souvent08 said:
It’s great to read about you Donato! You are doing the right thing and congratulations on taking the huge step of acepting that PMO is an issue. This next three months will be difficult . You got it in you to make it though. Spend some time reading posts on here; they helped me a lot. I also suggest that you avoid the places or times that you used to PMo. That will avoid the urges that come. For me, Mondays after work were tempting to Pmo. So I make it a plan to do other things or spend time outside. I’m sure you’ll find your rhythm. Good luck!
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thanks to you my brother. i feel stronger with all my fellow men here going through the same thing as me. I need all encouragement from you and everyone in order to be overcomer. I have many places and times I must avoid and find new patterns and new habits. I have so much to read. I am so excited i'm trying to take it all in. thanks brothers
 
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