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Freya India recently wrote about it on Substack. There are times when I wish I was in a relationship, but I would rather be single than be an Instagram boyfriend. I think one big red flag is a woman who has an Instagram profile full of photos of herself as if she's some sort of model. It is a...

I kinda need help, I've been dating my bf for about 6-7 months, we were first friends and later on got into a relationship. When he was still just my friend he mentioned he had a porn addiction and was recovering, and later into the relationship he told me again because he hardly achieved...

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now in a long-distance relationship, which I know is one of the key factors to his porn addiction. For the last 3 years, I have expressed to him that watching or looking at porn is kind of a deal-breaker for me since I wouldn't do it to him. Around this...

Hi all! Ive known for a while I should do something like this - indeed about 8 years ago I went through a successful reboot - and now it’s time for another go. I’m a 36 yo gay male in Australia. When I was 26 I was diagnosed with depression & anxiety and prescribed Zoloft. It’s been a godsend...

Hey guys, so ive been dating this guy for like a month and a half and he's my first bf. We've already kissed and made out, and we've been doing some sexual stuff to, not actual sex though. The thing is i'll do sexual stuff to him, but he wont do anything to me when I ask. I feel frustrated cause...

Hi, im Problem88 and I need advice for my boyfriend who is copping with porn addiction. He used to do reboot and to succeed when doing so but lately there has been some issues... he relapses and it affected our intimicy baddly this time and I just dont know how I can help him... So if anyone as...

I'm posting this as a plea for help and advice. I have been with my boyfriend for six years, I love him, I want to marry him. We are perfect for each other. The only issue is sex. We struggled in the first few years of our relationship with sex (he never wanted it), and after we broke-up and...

So I've been feeling emotionally distant from my boyfriend recently. Btw I'm gay, not sure if that will affect the type of responses I get, but I welcome everyone. We've been dating for a month. For context, he and I went on two really awesome dates before quarantine while we were both on spring...

So. This might be a weird or dumb question. And I don’t know if anyone can answer it easily. But as someone who is trying to support my boyfriend who’s going through relapses and fighting his addiction, I was just wondering what it is like. What your mind thinks and how you feel. What the best...

Hey guys. It has been a long time. I used to come on here to understand my ex better and attempt to be a more supportive person/partner. Wellp, as mentioned, he is my ex. I moved on after I cut through all his bullshit and his lies and now I am with someone new. Woo! This guy has been totally...

Hello brothers. My name is Donato. It is a rare hispanic name that was popular many years ago. My grandmother wanted to go "old school" when she named me. It was her father's name also. They say that Donato means 'given by God'. I am a college student and do some work part-time. I love soccer...

Since 2017 what applies most to you:? -10 is worse because of nofap -3 = not had sex once sine 2017 -2 = have had sex 1 time since 2017 -1 = having sex 1 time per year 0 = having sex 1-2 times per year 1 = having sex once per 3- 6 months 2 = having sex once per month 3 = having sex some times (2...

so I’m 23 and my boyfriend is almost 24. We’ve been together for almost a year and I initially thought he was amazing but he started criticizing my appearance even though I’m fairly attractive, comparing my body to other women he’s slept with/ seen even though he knows I have an eating disorder...

Ciaooo a tutti, Ho bisogno di aiuto sono la ragazza di un pornodipendente che non lo vuole ammettere e non si vuole far aiutare da nessuno oltre che da me..avete qualche idea per aiutarmi a farlo uscire da questa schiavitù?

I remember first looking at porn when I was in middle school. My parents did not go out of their way to give me a sex ed talk, so I, an afraid, insecure middle schooler, did not want to go ask them about it. So I asked the internet instead. There I was for the first time exposed to the world...

Just a quick few bullet points from an article I thought I’d share. I encourage others to read these bullet points and just try to think about them without judging yourself (bad or good). Really try to see them and see who you are behind these images or conditions you’ve put yourself in...

Good morning other supporters! I wanted to take some time to post on here a collective of what has been happening to me this last month. And let me be the first to say that it is a doozy, which I think that many of you will understand. This has been weighing on my heart lately, and I feel that...

Salvete everyone, You may have seen some of my recent threads on another section of this forum, and I thank you for reading them, and I hope you took something away. I am a nineteen year old student living in England, and I have been dating a twenty-eight year old (her birthday was a matter of...

I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. About a year into the relationship he confessed that he had an addiction to porn and I was super understanding and we talked about it a little bit. Neither him nor I really realized how tremendous the problem actually was. Things have gone...

hi guys, I’ve been thinking of breaking up with my PA partner. It just doesn’t feel like he loves me anymore since he’s so deep in this hole. He’s been clean for about 2 weeks, and he tries everyday, but I just don’t feel loved anymore. I know he does underneath all this, but I’m so sad all...

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 months. Two or 3 months into our relationship, he told me he was addicted to porn and thought he had PIED. This was all new to me, so I did my research to learn more and be supportive. He has since gone 90 days with without P or M, though we...

I had been in an long distance relationship with my boyfriend since Feb 19 of this year. I was very happy with him and I felt so close to him. His problems with pornography and such came about 5 months in to the relationship. And for the weeks after we had issues of me being able to heal from...

My boyfriend got a Ruku. He admitted to viewing porn Showtime, HBO, and Amazon Prime. My question is, does anyone know if there porn on Google Movies and Vudu? (He has the Google Movies and Vudu apps on Roku, but isn't logged on. I wonder if he logs on and then logs off. Why else would the...

I found out two days ago that my boyfriend of over a year is addicted to porn and has been in the throes of his addiction for two years, and has been watching porn since the age of 13 (he is 19 and so am I). Here is the content of the thread I posted when I first found out: "I found out that my...

I found out last night that my boyfriend of a year is addicted to porn. I was on his laptop and found that he had been looking at pictures of naked girls and amateur porn despite telling me numerous times that he doesn't watch porn and doesn't feel the need to because I send him pictures often...

Hey, guys! First of all: you all doing a great job! The fact that you are already here is really HUGE change. I want to ask: did you noticed any positive changes between you and your SO (wife/GF, husband/BF) when you started your journey? What is the most noticable experience in the...

Hi guys! My boyfriend have both realised we have a definite porn and masturbation addiction. We'd like to focus on each other as our source of sexual pleasure (we're still going to orgasm but ONLY with each other) as well as undo the shitty way that porn has rewired our brains. I've been...

Hey there, I'm a 25 year old guy who has been doing PMO since I've been 11 y.o. I've always had a high sex drive and I'm bisexual, too. So I guess the worlds of straight, gay and bi porn were giving me a constant overload of stimuli for the last few years. I am definitely dependent on certain...

Hi, im not quit sure where to start, iv been with my boyfriend 7 years and we are great together the last couple of years things changed his mood the way he talks to me at first I presumed he was just in an awkward phase as I had been talking about wanting to take the next step towards...

I'm playing Devil's Advocate here and asking a question that may possibly help people out (or I may get flamed to death !). So here goes : is looking at pictures and videos of your SO wrong ? I know it's not physical contact (which is the ideal) and I know it's still masturbation (which won't...