Hello everyone! In the last two jobs I have had it's like everyone eventually figures it out and I don't really know how. I guess it is because I never talk about anything related to sex and if someone I am talking to brings up that topic I try to end the conversation. I need to become more comfortable with my sexuality or lack thereof. Through NoFap I have learned to accept the fact that this was my own decision to be a virgin this far into my life. There are times where the pressure... the urge to have sex becomes so overwhelming I can't cope. For the past 17 years the cure was to PMO but it has only blocked me from a lot of potential sexual partners. Realising how many women I "rejected" in my past just fills me with anger and sadness; again PMO worked like a bandaid on my heart. I know I have a big hill to climb if I am to ever have a real relationship but through this community, I have learned to not care if people know that I am a virgin. I just don't understand how they find out so quickly. Sorry if I answered my own question here but I just wanted to vent because I just found out that alot of people at my job just knew and I didn't tell anyone. Thank you for reading this if you did.