Im not sure how women behave in other countries, but where Im from if you're not a loser who has drug issues and violence issues or if you aren't generally a street thug or an asshole you won't get with women. I can't pretend to not be a nice guy or a good man in general. And it seems a bit arrogant coming from me but I accepted this fact the moment I realized I actually give a shit about what other people feel. Being mindful of other people's feelings makes you a good person regardless of your shortcomings, in my case porn addiction. I just can't get anyone interested in me no matter how much I improve myself, because being nice or a good man is completely unnapealing for women. This is why I laugh every time I hear a woman describe her definition of a "Perfect man" and somehow she describes me, yet if she meets me, gets to know me, has absolutely no desire to be anything more than friends. Yet they end up with someone completely different. I know life is full of surprises and sooner or later we might meet that special someone. But Im tired of wasting my time trying to prove my worth to someone who doesn't even value herself, because you can't say you are worth it if you settle for an asshole who takes advantage of you and doesn't give a shit about your feelings. Sorry for the rant but I needed to get this off my chest.