I just see lots of bad decisions. Including the decision of trying to change an adulterer. Everyone is responsible for their own decisions, no-one else. I comment on them, because this is a public Internet forum, so others can learn from those mistakes. That's all what a public Internet forum is good for and meant for. You don't need super natural powers to see an already married man with three children isn't an ideal marriage prospect. That's the typical case of "The ship has sailed, but I won't accept it, because he's my high school sweetheart." The results she got were exactly what to expect from such a scenario. That doesn't actually matter. I will never talk about third parties who do not post on this forum. This is called gossip and I won't participate in it. Unless the person concerned registers here themselves and can defend themselves, I won't discuss their alleged "sex addiction problems" behind their back. That's why I focus on OP and her decisions, because that's the only thing that matters for this thread.