Prostitutes over porn - does it help? My experience.

your first mistake is assuming that women tell you the truth with the numbers of sexual partners they had,
second mistake is believing them.

 

wow. I wont even comment you look like a 2nd account of the previous dude I replied to.

''hy have sex with 100 men who can give me STIs when I can have sex 100 time with only one man who has been screened for STIs?''

Bro, STIs is not a deciding factor for a woman whether to have sex with a man or not.

wont be wasting my time, you are cluless. happy living in la-la land, I am sure your sexual life is thriving ehh

 

I never assume. But our gut is an amazing ing thing and you know when some one is lying to you….. besides, why in the world we lie to one another? You see, many woman have close relationships. Something porn addicts know nothing about. A woman is more likely to lie about cosmetic surgery or Botox than her sex life! Heck even my mom and grandma talked about sex. Lol, you know how men talk, locker room talk? Yeah women do too.

 

With that same logic, how would you know that a woman has had 80 to 100 sex partners?

Pregnancies, STIs, and the benefits of monogamy are three strong reasons for women to not have a lot of sex partners. Some women do have 80 to 100 sex partners, but usually during sex trafficking or against their own will.

STIs are always a threat. Condoms can break and don't always cover all infected skin.

Also, a sex partner may stay around, stalk a lady, or even stop her from having more sex partners. Jealousy can be as strong as lust.

 

A sex partner may also persuade the lady into a monogamous relationship. Sometimes a man has a tendency to return to a lady that he had sex with, perhaps because it's easier to get sex from a past sex partner than from a new lady.

A lady may find more value in a man who wants to care for her instead of a man who wants to only have sex with her. In fact, she could get BOTH care and sex from man A instead of only sex from a man B, C, D, and etc.

Think of it this way: you rent out a room in your house to random people. You want to rent it out to 100 or more people over the span of 25 years. To do that, you only want to rent out the room to an individual for only a 3-month period. After 3 months, the person leaves and a new person gets the room.

You rent it out to someone and he was great with the room. he makes payments on time. he cleaned it and added some nice furniture. The tenant also cleaned after himself, washed his dishes, did his laundry periodically, made sure the front door was locked at night, and etc. Three months pass and you kick him out, despite his desire to stay.

Now a new tenant arrives. This new tenant makes late payments and even completely misses one. He smokes weed that stinks up the whole house. He accidentally burned some furniture with cigarettes. He invites a friend over and they have very loud celebrations at night when you are trying to sleep. The new tenant doesn't handle his laundry much. He leaves the lights on overnight, so your electric bill is very high. He nearly burns down your house by accident. After 3 months, you try to kick him out but the Judge says that he "can stay for another 9 months or until he finds a new place, whichever is sooner."

And in the meantime, the old tenant pops by since he decided to be your friend. He asks about the room and your living conditions. You share that it's all going very bad. Your plan of having at least 100 tenants was not wise. And so the old tenant asks if he can return to being your tenant again. Would you refuse that stable tenant's offer or risk having another horrible tenant again?

 

Lol what a great analogy and very much how many women think, although I never thought of it that way!

 

just read the clinical studies, do your research, realize reality instead of living in a la-la land thinking women are some sort of precious virgin princesses.
no. they sleep around much more often than men, mostly because they got easy access to sexual partners unlike us.

you are lacking life experience and massive amounts of knowledge on this topic.
perhaps you should read esther villar ''manipulated man'' for a start

 

nice story bro, but sex and relations do not work like that with a woman
for women its not a problem to have a stable boyfriend and sleep around with alphas when opportunity presents.
most women in their 20s are single nowadays, which means even more sexual partners.

 

Well a quick google search says between 4-6 partners for the average woman. If they “ identify” as women ( meaning they may be men) that number goes up to 26.

 

But what are clinical studies based on? They are based on what women tell clinics, right? Clinics aren't planting cameras into a women's bedrooms nor stalking women. Very few governments would allow such an invasive clinical study. Unless clinicians and researchers are directly observing a woman having sex with over a hundred men, which is a sick and disgusting observational study that would harm many people with STIs, then clinical studies are largely based on things that women say.

But didn't you say

Women can just lie to clinics, based on your sexism. And why would clinics even believe the things that a woman says too, based on your sexism? If women lie and are not to be believed, then no clinic would have any solid basis for a study of a woman's average number of sex partners.

Clinical studies have no more weight than what women say.

My friend, you might be sexualizing or perverting your view of women, to better abstain from porn or sexual misbehavior. That may be working for you.

Heck, sometimes I see a woman and think that she is looking to sleep with anyone. But I also know reality. I know that a woman's clothing does not necessarily always reflect her sexuality or number of sexual partners.

Again, some women may have over 100 sex partners, but usually due to sex trafficking or sex against their own will. On average, women tend to have a lot less sex partners.

The truth is important, my friend. Porn is a lie. Lies only worsen porn addiction. If you believe in lies, especially perverted lies, then you might not be able to overcome a porn addiction; even if the lie seems to be helping your porn cessation.

The truth gets us out of addiction.

No amount of a man's life experience can reveal the AVERAGE woman's number of sex partners because I am not a woman. Unless I am a woman, I will never know a woman's average number of sex partners. No man's lifestyle or life experience can reveal that number because he is not a woman. Even if I happened to have a life experience where my sister had 100 sex partners, I still wouldn't know an AVERAGE woman's number of sex partners. An AVERAGE means somehow assessing the sum number of all sex partners from ALL women and then dividing by that number of women. That AVERAGE number can't be determined by just 1, 2, or 7 women who have had more than 100 partners each. So no, no man's amount of life experience would ever be able to reveal an average woman's number of sex partners. Only women can begin to determine that number.

Ok. You need to understand the difference between cheating on a stable boyfriend once or twice and having 100 sex partners. The former has a significantly less chance of condoms breaking.
Again, you seem to have a very perverted and sexist view of women.

Even if a woman doesn't know that STIs exist, she can get sick from having sex, especially if a condom break or did not cover all infected skin.

In fact, the chance of infection could increase if a woman doesn't know that STIs exist because then she wouldn't see much reason or fear associated with the use of condoms outside of pregnancy. With no knowledge of STIs, she might be less likely to use a condom or see their importance.

The condom breaks, doesn't cover all infected skin, or is not used at all. Whatever reason for her sickness, she very likely goes to a doctor or gets so sick that she is involuntarily sent to a hospital. Regardless the means, the doctor usually informs her of the STI. Some governments require doctors to ask about sex and to educate sick patients about STIs so that STIs don't spread too rapidly throughout a community. Once the doctor explains that ahe got an infection from sex that made her sick, she will be hesitant to have another sex partner again. This is a very logical and basic way of thinking. If you think that women wouldn't be less hesitant after an experience with STIs, especially some of which can make sex painful, then you are somewhat saying that women are very dumb. That conclusion would be sexist.

Men, too, are very smart beings. Some men actually avoid women who have had a lot of sex partners. Such avoidance could very likely be from the threat of STIs. Some men even label those women as $lu#s and w#0res. These are derogatory terms that most people don't like being called. My female cousin hates being called those words. Since some men might actually avoid women with many sex partners, finding another sex partner might be more and more difficult for a woman as her number of sex partners increase.

 

omg I wont be wasting my time replying to you anymore

"Women can just lie to clinics, based on your sexism. And why would clinics even believe the things that a woman says too, based on your sexism? If women lie and are not to be believed, then no clinic would have any solid basis for a study of a woman's average number of sex partners.

Clinical studies have no more weight than what women say.

My friend, you might be sexualizing or perverting your view of women, to better abstain from porn or sexual misbehavior. That may be working for you."

if women lie, then they lie to cover up their sexual escapades. means they sleep around even more.
then you twisted somehow porn into this, which has nothing to do about the topics we are discussing. I am not discussing some sort of fantasy ''oh they have sex in porn, they must be doing it in real life too'', I havent said that. dont mix it up. then you come back to some ridiculous stuff about condoms breaking... LMAO.
are you a virgin?

'' Once the doctor explains that ahe got an infection from sex that made her sick, she will be hesitant to have another sex partner again. This is a very logical and basic way of thinking''

hahah dude I slept with many women, some got STI from me (like a thrush) and sometimes I got something from women. you treat it, and you move on. nobody cares.
if people acted like you imagine, nobody would be having sex anymore LOL
you have certainly NO IDEA what youre talking about.


are you a woman? or maybe, are you a beta? because you write such nonsense.
my sexism? dude get a life... you started calling me a sexist because I provided information you dont agree with.
now youre defending women like a knight in shiny armor lmao.

this guy is presenting a lot of good studies and discussing them
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeY3vg1r0KrvuyPOi7T39eA/videos
also read a book manipulated man by esther villar (a woman, btw)


but I know it wont help you sound like a massive cuck. and I love women my dude, you have no idea about me. and, pretty clearly, about sex and women either.

 

BigBallOfFire, I'm likely going to put you on my Ignore list because you seem to insult people instead of their arguments. Insulting people, instead of their arguments, is against NoFap posting rules. Calling or implying that users are dumb is not appreciated, especially when we aren't. Insulting people, instead of their arguments, also isn't enlightening.

"I won't be posting any studies so that you can deny them, this is a typical move of people who never do any research themselves.

"I got enough experience to know the truth. Not sure who told you its '7 to 10' maybe it was some woman and you believed her, which makes you very inexperienced in that regard, idk that."

"wont be wasting my time, you are cluless."

"you are lacking life experience and massive amounts of knowledge on this topic."

"are you a woman? or maybe, are you a beta? because you write such nonsense." Are you implying that women write nonsense? That seems to be a sweeping statement about women. That's also against NoFap posting rules.

Please read NoFap posting rules before replying to my post.

I also reviewed your past posts in this thread and read that you've had sexually transmitted infections. I am currently abstaining from sex because I don't want to contract STIs. I'm very sorry to hear that you have been infected and I really hope that your health improves. I'm surprised that you contracted STIs, but I will admit that they can be very contagious and can sometimes even still infect, despite the use of condoms.

Human Papillomavirus can cause cancers later on. I've read many stories of people who struggled to simply sit or walk, after they've contracted Herpes simplex virus. Infections can affect an individual in different ways, and bodily changes can also make certain infections, bacteria, and viruses act different during certain moments of an individual's life. I pray that you have fully recovered from any STIs that you've contracted.

 

dude, get a life. pray for yourself.
its sad to read things you write. maybe go to a feminist march, you'd be better off there I guess?

 

You keep attacking me instead of my argument. Say hello to my Ignore list.

I've read of perverts abusing this website and sending creepy private messages to recovering addicts, which is completely sick and disgusting. I have to exercise caution and put rule-breakers on my Ignore list. Nothing personal.

I hope you recover from your STIs. Some of those infections never go away.

 

you have serious problems with yourself man, I feel sorry for you.
you need to grow a pair.

not sure about what STIs youre talking about, youre deep in your fantasy world.